2006-11-20 02:54:51 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you have to ask strangers, then I'm guessing no. I married my wife exactly one year after our first date and I didn't have to ask anyone's opinion.
2006-11-20 02:57:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a personal question that only you and ur gf can answer. A long relationship doesnt mean it's OK to marry. Some people have been 2gether for 5+ yrs and have a rocky relationship and arent ready 2 b married. but if u both feel that its the right time, then go 4 it! Just be sure that its what u wanna do n dont rush into it. divorce rates r pretty high. hope i helped!
2006-11-20 03:40:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage should not be taken lightly. It does not matter how long you have been with someone. The only time you should marry is if you feel that you love this person and get along enough to spend the rest of your lives together. Is she the one for you? Do you want to spend the rest of your life with her? Do you get along and have the same things in common? Also you should talk about issues such as religion, kids, how many, how you would want to raise them? In order for marriage to work, you must not only get along, have the same things in common, and love each other, but have the same values. Want to raise your kids the same, money should also be another topic. So many people do not work these things out before marriage and then find out there is a problem after already marrying. I'm guessing that if you marry you would like it to not go towards divorce, so talk these things out before you take that road, to ensure you have a better chance at life long happiness. Divorce is ugly.
2006-11-20 02:59:37 · answer #3 · answered by Elvira 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well 2.5 years is a good time to start thinking seriously about the situation. They say the "infatuation" wears off after two years, so if you're still good with everything that's one sign.
If you really don't think you can marry after 2.5 years and she seems to be more oriented that way, you really should have an honest discussion with her about your feelings.
2006-11-20 03:00:22 · answer #4 · answered by carrieinmich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, do you know for sure that she is The One?
Because if she's not T.O., then you'd be wasting your time and her's.
I knew a chick that dated a guy for 17 years and they finally got married, big huge to-do, glitter, 500 people...and now they are getting a divorce.
2006-11-20 02:57:15 · answer #5 · answered by Munya Says: DUH! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you feel ready? Is she? Are you both financially and emotionally ready to take on, what I hope will be, a lifetime commitment? Have you talked it over with her? A "no" answer to any of these questions would be reason to put it on hold for a while.
2006-11-20 03:00:05 · answer #6 · answered by Arleen J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel that she's the one you want to spend the rest of your life with, then yes it's the time to marry, and that you're ready to make a commitment.
2006-11-20 02:57:12 · answer #7 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well no 2 yrs is too soon dnt make mistakes who knws u cnt get to knw a person well only in 2 yrs u can liv together nd ssee f ya'll get along marriages dnt work out nd u both might be broken hearted jus knw wah u want exactly mwah bye
2006-11-20 02:57:18 · answer #8 · answered by wija3ah 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to ask yourself this. Are you sick of being happy? If you answered yes, then get married.
2006-11-20 03:13:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can you imagine yourself without this girl for the rest of your life......if you can't and she means everything to you...then its time. If the thought of not spending the rest of your life with her is more than you can bare.....than you should marry her.....she is your soul mate.
Good Luck to you...............
2006-11-20 03:33:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋