Marriage & Divorce - 26 October 2006

... she always tells other people what to do, I need suggestion on how to get her to stop without hurting her feelings... suggestion?

2006-10-26 13:47:34 · 15 answers · asked by Peace 2

2006-10-26 13:40:16 · 14 answers · asked by neighbordena 1

as a FAITHFUL husband, i've been with my husband for 8 years(since hgh school) i've been his first and he was mine. he has been faithful 100%. but i havent. i trust him 110% i know that girls hit on him, he has this thing that you dont see much in guys, he's a real gentlemen...so girls find that atractive. but he has no eyes for other girls, no matter how pretty they are, am not that good looking, am overweight....and i just wonder at times if he wishes or would like to be with, or would like me to have a nice body?when i talk to him about this he always conforts me. i know is stupid of me feeling this way. but i cant help it

2006-10-26 13:30:44 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Has anyone else ever thrown up while giving oral? I've been married for 4 years and this has never happened before. I'm sure everyone has gagged before but today I actually threw up. My husband was about to leave for work this morning and I wanted to be extra loving but I ended up throwing up all over him and his clothes and he was almost late for work because he had to wash off and change his clothes. We just laughed for like 10 minutes straight but it was so embarrassing. Has this ever happened to you?

2006-10-26 13:29:45 · 17 answers · asked by Sunjin 1

2006-10-26 13:25:03 · 5 answers · asked by goddessstartravellor 1

Say same sex marriage is legalized then should we also legalize multiple person marriages as well. Say 2 women and 1 man, 2 men and 1 women, and so on.

2006-10-26 13:12:43 · 24 answers · asked by K9 1

2006-10-26 13:05:11 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

based on the movie, where robert redford paid one million cash for a night with woody haroldson's wife in the movie. would you take the deal whether your husband knew and didn't mind or if he didn't know, would you take the deal anyway?

2006-10-26 13:03:46 · 19 answers · asked by hollywood71@verizon.net 5

I posted some questions a couple days ago look back for whole storry but ehre is an update. I found out my wife is talking to another guy. I found out through her email account and in his emails in his emails it seems like he just wants to get in her pants. and feels she has no feelings for me anymore. Everything was fine a couple weeks ago then she told me she has lost interest she says they have not been intamate. I know this can happen in a long relationship and can happen off and on as I also have experienced it we have been together 8 years. She did this 2 years ago with another person and we worked through it and our relationship seemed stronger than ever. Is she trying to fill that lost interest with someone else? can we work through this again or should i just throw in the towel. She says she thinks we should go our separate ways but i feel she is making a huge mistake. We dont say we love you anymore or kiss or anything it has been 3 days.

2006-10-26 12:54:11 · 36 answers · asked by Confused 1

2006-10-26 12:42:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Mine have been fighting a lot and I'm worried that they'll get a divorce. Some of the fights have been pretty serious and it makes me really upset when I think about it. Any ideas on how to get over it or deal with it? Because I'm sick of thinking about it.

2006-10-26 12:40:24 · 5 answers · asked by Erin 3

My DH had an affair with a coworker while we were separated. He says he tried to end the relationship when he came back to me. But she kept calling and wanting to be friends.

We compare notes and she told me things I hadn’t known – like that they had been living together for a few months.

I filed for divorce the next day & she seemed thrilled. He again tried to end it & told her he was leaving his job in Jan. if he got divorce papers from me.

My husband and I had never stopped working on the marriage So I decided to give our marriage a chance.

She wanted back all of the items like underwear, belts, shoes, clothing & deposit for the house they rented. She did not pay rent 6 months.

10 months after the affair, she is now threatening his employment with harassment.

She continues to send him cutsie emails and pops in to tell him that she wants him gone in Jan. and he should leave she doesn’t want it to get ugly for him.

Does she have a case for harassment?

2006-10-26 12:39:56 · 13 answers · asked by pinniethewooh 6

looks average, personality average, mid 30s, filthy rich

2006-10-26 12:35:18 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was unknowingly the mistress for five months. and for the last 3 months of that ordeal I felt paranoid, insecure, confused, and unhappy. I lost weight from having lack of an appetite. I personally believe that If I had stuck around with him after I found out that he was married I would have lost my mind completely. I feel this sort of situation is detrimental to one's mental and physical well being. what do you think?

p.s. This guy was my first boyfriend ever. I'm 23 and he's 26. I never slept with him because I am waiting til marriage and I also never kissed him, because I kept wondering if there were other girls. What a bad way to start off you dating life huh?

2006-10-26 12:28:03 · 34 answers · asked by Bu Tran 6

im married , handsome (no clooney bot more emilio esteves ) . i work hard make good money , do most of the cooking , allot of the cleaning , and help with the laundry. i am no slouch in the hay either . i make darn sure she gets hers if you know what i mean wink wink.and give her almost everything that she wants. the ? is why doesn't she appriciate me.

2006-10-26 12:25:50 · 19 answers · asked by pickledaddy 3

My husband has cheated in the past. We have worked it out and been through counseling. He's been going out every Friday night - he PROMISES he's not doing anything wrong. My question is..... do I set him up by having a girl he doesn't know go where he's at and try talking to him, make passes at him, etc. I know I will run the risk of him cheating - but at least I would know if he really was committed to being with me only. If he cheats again he knows I am out of here, with the kids. He says he hasn't cheated in 4 years. Do I set him up? What are some of the things I should have the girl say or do to really put him to the test? And where in Gods name do I find someone willing to do something like this? Is there a business that does this kind of thing? I just don't want to waste anymore time with him, if he's not really going to stay faithful!

2006-10-26 12:21:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I got married to my wife when she was not a Jehovah Witness. After 2 years she has become one. Her entire family members our Jehovah Witnesses and they disowned her when she was dis fellowshipped at the time we got together. They had nothing to do with us. We went through some hard times and my family was the one to help us out. We are now doing great until the announcement was made yesterday.. Now her family is calling wanting to all of the sudden be a part of our lives and I have some animosity towards them should I? She is so happy and I have a feeling they want her to be married to their own!! I could be wrong not sure though... Now when or if we have kids there won’t be any b-days or holidays that she will be involved in. I am so confused and this could be a devastating thing to our marriage if I can’t figure something out

2006-10-26 12:21:09 · 20 answers · asked by josephb 1

at first when we started dating everything was perfect.i loved his personality.. we were online dateing.then i came down to New York to come see him and it was amazing.everything was perfect.
when i came back he started acting a little differently.. he gets really dramatic when we have tiny fights and we bring it past the point where it should normally end... we end up saying things like "i hate you" and "we shouldnt really be together anymore" but i know its just all the madness that makes you say things like that because you jsut want to hurt the other person because he/she hurted you.. also i feel like he deosnt care so much for me.. my feelings.. when i tell him something is wrong or if i am really upset about something, he gets offended and only hurts me more by throwing negative comments about me,
how can i make him respect me more? and appreciate being with me? He is a great guy when we arent fighting.. but i just want to know how to make him respect me more and feel for me.ty

2006-10-26 12:17:04 · 8 answers · asked by Kim Buns 1

He is in the hospital for the 5th time from chronic pancreatitis resulting from years of heavy drinking. He finally quit drinking after a 21 day stay in the hospital. Afterward his attitude has been negative and can't seem to find anything else to do with his spare time. He now eats like there's no tomorrow and as a result is in the hospital for the same condition. Our marriage was about to end when he got seriously sick last year and since then, I am exhausted caring for my 3 children and going to college. He works with his stepmom and doesn't worry about anything. I am furious and want out and his family seems to think I need to take better care of him. I feel sorry for him but feel so because of the children. Personally I feel he is dragging our life down with his.

2006-10-26 12:05:44 · 17 answers · asked by mrsL 2

marriage advise?
I have been married for 18 years. Most very happy. Three years ago my husbands brother died at age 44. It changed my husband so much. He now has become very distant. He doesn't talk much to me..he buries himself in his computer and t.v. He has no interest in sex. I am not certain it all began with the death of his brother...I am just trying to figure it out. He is changing more and more each day. He stays at work late and won't even call to tell me he is working late. When he arrives in the driveway, he stays in his car talking on his cell phone to his mother. Then he comes in the house and barely says a thing. I have suggested counseling but he says "If you have a problem, see a counselor. But I don't have a problem." I know we can't afford a counselor, but I was willing to try anything that might help.
We have two children and I need to try and help him and our relationship for the sake of the children as well as my sanity. I feel so lonely and unloved.

2006-10-26 12:05:01 · 8 answers · asked by rcpaden 5

I've been married for a few years, Been with my wife for over 10 as a couple. She found e-mails and evidence of porn and some kinky stuff I even find gross and don't know why I did it. It never went further than the e-mails and she doesn't believe me, and has every right not to. We're now seperated. We have a young child. I'm very depressed and don't know what to do. I want to works things out, she doesn't. We've never been to a marriage counselor, but feel this would be the best opportunity.

Any help or advice would be extremely helpful.

2006-10-26 11:59:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-26 11:58:18 · 5 answers · asked by diana s 1

I own a store and one of the poeple I get my products from has become interested in me, he knows I am married since I made it very clear.I had no intention of having anything to do with him and now I find myself very attracted to him sexually. I even let him steal a kiss!WHAT SHOULD I DO, I have been married for 12yrs and have 4 kids. Please help! Serious answers only!

2006-10-26 11:50:05 · 30 answers · asked by Tammy R 2

Well,I just wanted to hear interesting or even somewhat boring ways you first meet your spouse...

2006-10-26 11:39:03 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK. We are a gay couple.
I am 21 and he is 32, yeah i know the age difference probably plays a role in this somewhere.
I have done things in the past to make him not trust me.(lieing)
We broke up recently and I moved away for a few days, he thinks I fooled around, but the fact is I didn't.
I just wanted him back in my life.
I love him.
He is always going throught the cookies on the computer to see what i have been doing or talking to, the fact is I have never cheated and would never cheat on him.
I love him with all my heart.
He on the other hand has cheated on someone before but not on me.
Should I be worried that he is wanting someone else?
He doesn't show me affection hardly ever anymore, it takes a crow bar to get him to say I love you - without me saying it first. I mean what do I do?
How do I get through to him?
How can I fix my mistakes?
How can I get him to trust me?
Does he love me?
Does he want me?
or does he want someone else?

2006-10-26 11:36:26 · 9 answers · asked by matthewkeithsmart 1

2006-10-26 11:21:55 · 15 answers · asked by kissmybum 4

My hubby told me when I asked him if he had sex with the babysitter that "she wanted too" but he didn't take the bait. He says she was saying stuff like the kids needed to go to sleep because they were tireddddd.....this is first thing in the morning usually they would wake up at 7 and this would be at like 9 in the morning. He says he never slept with her but he got really angry when I asked him about it! What do you think?

2006-10-26 11:20:15 · 11 answers · asked by Goddess 2

I am a big Sara Evans fan and in her messy divorce she is claiming her husband is a porn fiend and he is claiming that she watches/watched it with him. If it is true do you think this is a good thing for a relationship?

2006-10-26 11:17:39 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband of 2.5 years refuses to work around the house even though he is not currently working. He sleeps in until 2pm and is up until 4am playing video games. I get up at 8am with our 18monthold.

He has recently started cutting me off in discussions, saying, "I'm done" and walking away. This is when we are not even fighting or tense, just discussing something, like rearranging the office furniture. Everything has to be HIS way, NO compromise.

I want him to get healthier. He is very obese and has gained 40 lbs over the past 2 years. He has an awesome gym membership provided by his work, but refuses to go. I try to cook healthy meals. He will go in and cook something for himself or go buy fast food rather than eat what I have cooked. He drinks coke and eats junk food all day. We do the grocery shopping jointly. If I put up a fuss when he puts it in the cart, he starts in about how he is the one that is paying for it anyway or he just walks away from me.

He refuses counselling

2006-10-26 11:06:02 · 14 answers · asked by Mommy Girl 2

Do you think about your husbands or other scenarios

2006-10-26 10:52:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous