Marriage & Divorce - 26 October 2006

im a 30 year ols man. I cant seem to get in the mood with my wife. She is so hot and always ready to make love but i just cant get horney does anyone know about any products that will really get me in the mood fast. I m afraid I might loose her if I can't find something quick.

2006-10-26 18:14:06 · 16 answers · asked by jsn_chapa 1

I have noticed so many women who's husbands left them and their children to be with another women? Why? I can understand divorcing your wife if she cheated, but if she never did and is a good person in general, why leave?

2006-10-26 18:09:34 · 15 answers · asked by faith 2

I've found tons of "step family" oriented messages boards, but I'm looking for a message board for custodial mothers to discuss issues regarding their ex-husbands, his new wife, and also how to deal with a new husband, step father, for their own children.

Anybody know of a good one?

2006-10-26 18:08:43 · 2 answers · asked by MommyWommy 2

I know why a woman would leave a man, usually due to feeling unfullfilled and lonely, but why would a man divorce his wife?
I have always wondered this, I can't help but think, wow, after sharing so much of personal history and secret personal things that could be almost embarrising if someone knew, why leave?

2006-10-26 18:03:09 · 16 answers · asked by faith 2

how to sex with wife?

2006-10-26 18:00:36 · 13 answers · asked by param 1

My wife told me she was leaving me 6 weeks ago. She is still living in the house and says she can not afford to leave yet. She conciders us seperated. We have a 3 year old. I am trying to save the marriage. I am going to a marriage therapist. She refuses to go. She has told me she is heavly leaning twoard devorce. I think we could have a great marriage again if we work at it together.

Is it wrong of her to stay at the house if she told me she is leaving? She has family in the area that she could go to. I don't want us to seperate or divorce. I do not understand why she will not try therapy. Her family even supports us trying therapy.

2006-10-26 18:00:20 · 13 answers · asked by Left Alone 1

I am married to the most wonderful guy in the world, but he has 2 children with his ex-wife and i am having such a bad problem. see I think she still sees them as being married just because they have kids, she calls and asks him stupid questions that don't even concern the kids and i get mad. she stills goes and visits his parents at least twice a week, then its like everything is suppose to go the way she wants it or else. and he always bowels down to want she says. and the bad thing is is she knows this is causing a problem between me and him and thats why she does it.she is very jealous. and i am sick of him giving in to her and she always treating him like he is a 12 year old child, just the way she talks to him and stuff. what am i suppose to do??? please help!!!!

2006-10-26 17:51:50 · 21 answers · asked by sweetpeansuperman 1

I been married a few months and I'm trying to get past being so far away from home, dealing with his demanding job(i spend alot of time alone), feeling like I'm being underestimated on my abilities to handle things by his family (I had to grow up very early and them doing that really startin to get under my skin because no one has ever done that to me..i've a very capable person), dealin with issues that he has at work and stuff.... I totally understand his job but I really feel like his job has taken over and I am stuck tending to all the business crap and I really don't want to do it all. On top of it all it's like he doesn't get me anymore. Do all marriages start off this hard? I didn't expect it to be easy but this isn't just hard it's near back breaking. How do I go about handling all these issues when sittin and talkin about them so much has me to the point I just want to explode?

2006-10-26 17:49:19 · 15 answers · asked by Kata 1

found out before wedding and it almost ended, then 2 yrs. later he called her

2006-10-26 17:49:17 · 16 answers · asked by carter-nick@sbcglobal.net 1

My husband and my self went our seperate ways two years ago and have not spoken or seen each other since we have no children and no properties left to fight over so what is the easiest way to get a divorce without knowing where he is?

2006-10-26 17:47:54 · 14 answers · asked by partdevil27 1

2006-10-26 17:38:23 · 22 answers · asked by lita ozzy bear 3

i received a letter from my sons fathers new wife, she is pregnant now. this is the statement i'm not sure would be considered abuse; "He wants this baby, say when he found out you were preg.he didnt want that. He never wanted a baby with you but had to deal with it the best he know how."

2006-10-26 17:33:43 · 31 answers · asked by moonbeamerz9 1

is it possible to have a serious relationship with a drug addict? why or why not?

2006-10-26 17:28:22 · 18 answers · asked by CINDY R 2

2006-10-26 17:23:53 · 11 answers · asked by R P 2

2006-10-26 17:11:05 · 37 answers · asked by Paul S 2

I think my wife is a lesbian. We haven't really kissed since our
wedding just over four years ago. She insisted on not having sex
before we were married. I guess her test to see if I might be gay..making her life of deception easier. Well I'm not! Sex is infrequent (once every three to four
months. Those times she insists on having NO foreplay. Just wham
bam...you know the rest. Recently I found a list of lesbian porno
titles she had written down to order. I confronted her once about
this a few months ago. She whipped up a few crocodile tears, but the
general pattern of behavior has persisted. No sex. Never any cuddling. Never any kissing. Is she gay? She will
never admit it. I am thinking about divorce.
I feel duped into her marriage of convenice, to the world she projects as a dutiful wife, but the reality is as I have described.

2006-10-26 17:09:59 · 35 answers · asked by tommieboil? 1

I have been with my husband for 5 years now - married 1 1/2 years. I have felt since our second month of marriage that I made a mistake of marrying him. Before we got married I broke up with him for 3 months until I couldnt take his crying any more - felt very bad - and got back with him and married in less than a month. Now I really want to leave him. But am conflicted due to his response before about how he will be if I divorce him. No I have not met anyone else and he has no kids I have three and recently he wanted me to pick him over my oldest daughter. What should I do?

2006-10-26 17:06:12 · 18 answers · asked by Daes 1

i am 18, married and 2 months pregnant,my husband has 2 kids with his ex, both are less than 6 years old.well i was never too thrilled that he has kids,but what can i do i love him.well the thing is that sometimes his friends make dumb comments like " wow, you have sex too much, stop making babies". when its just his first baby with me, it makes me feel sad and at the same time mad.is that wrong? is it wrong to hate my husband for having other kids?

2006-10-26 17:05:07 · 16 answers · asked by sweetpinkness2 1

i broke up with this guy to many times in 4 years ok becouse of very good reasons. Why do his freinds beleive him over me? they have not even heard my side at all.. he also black lists me in town when i dump him the ppl will look down on me why is that???

2006-10-26 17:04:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

When he does something I don't like, I tell him. But after I tell him, he keeps doing it until i get ready to explode. I have yelled and jumped up and down before. Now I just leave the room. What can I go to get him to respect me when I ask him not to do something?

2006-10-26 17:04:14 · 14 answers · asked by Jaedyn=God has heard 2

2006-10-26 16:58:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-26 16:54:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i find it funny how my sister and her husband split the bills, have different bank accounts and never do anything together. any suggestions on how to make her see that this is not a marriage?

2006-10-26 16:39:14 · 14 answers · asked by nina 3

I posted a question a few days ago about struggling w/ feelings for another man. This man makes me feel smart, appreciated, beautiful, and just makes me full of energy. I've never been unfaithful to my husband, but I'm struggling w/ my feelings- I don't want to have feelings for someone else, but my husband is pretty inattentive and selfish. He's not very affectionate, his needs always come first (in many ways), and there are days where I'm just beyond fed up. The most frustrating is that he worries more about himself than me or, more importantly, our daughter. Things are always done on his terms- if he doesn't want to do something, it doesn't get done. When it comes to sex, he's extremely selfish. In the almost 3 years we've been married I've never climaxed during sex because he can't stop worrying about how he feels long enough to see if I'm enjoying myself. I want to work on things- but I don't know where to start. I'd like to get some serious, mature answers from you all. Thanks.

2006-10-26 16:38:34 · 19 answers · asked by JustMyOpinion 5

I'd like to marry my boyfriend, but I feel that we are very good friends and enjoy many of the same things, but I dont feel like we lust after each other all the time like in the movies. We have good sex when we have it but it's not all the time, maybe once or twice a week . . . is this not enough? Or is this a good thing? I find him attractive and he finds me attractive we just aren't going at it all the time. People are always shocked when I say that we dont have sex everynight. Are we suppossed to be tearing each others clothes off? We make each other laugh and hang out . . . is this a good foundation for marriage? or are we going to someday want some big lustful relationship???

2006-10-26 16:38:08 · 23 answers · asked by Astrid Beau Bega Belda Calixte 2

I read this article. http://www.circumstitions.com/Shane.html
Why do they still do this procedure when its pointless and can screw a person up as badly as this unfortunate dude got screwed up.

2006-10-26 16:34:22 · 10 answers · asked by xdfsddfgdfgdfg d 1

Before you were married did you see signs now that you didn't see before? Did you marry the person for the wrong reasons? What were those reasons? What would you do differently this time? Any advice for someone who doesn't want a failed marriage is appreciated

2006-10-26 16:33:17 · 11 answers · asked by Astrid Beau Bega Belda Calixte 2

What makes your marriage a success? What advice would you give others to make their marriage just as strong? I'm not married but when I do marry I want to have a wonderful marriage like my grandparents, and I am open to all advice on how to have a wonderful marriage.

2006-10-26 16:30:55 · 9 answers · asked by Astrid Beau Bega Belda Calixte 2

2006-10-26 16:30:10 · 27 answers · asked by Jayn 1

Just wondering

2006-10-26 16:29:24 · 10 answers · asked by danzer^ 2