Marriage & Divorce - 26 October 2006

we have a regular and simple sex life with my gf....we decided to make it excited....she wants someone must join us....we are agree about someone but we are disagree about a man or a woman?can you help us which is better and why?

2006-10-26 02:40:17 · 22 answers · asked by sonruyaa 1

He decided to cross genders? He chopped off his "manhood" and took hormones... wanted to become a woman?

What if you couldn't leave him because you deeply love and care about this person,

Would it be ok to "cheat" for sexual companionship and gratification?

2006-10-26 02:38:55 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-26 02:32:20 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am married but have made a choice to see someone else . i have known this person for 10 years and only now have decided to be with him as secret lovers . i didn't expect to fall for him like i have but i have fallen in love with him. so is it possible to love two people. my husband is a good man and father as well as a good provider, but i had the desire to see someone else.

2006-10-26 02:30:27 · 17 answers · asked by yoyoandwilliam 1

My wife and I have been happily married for about 6 years. We recently had a baby, and now she's suddenly saying that being a stay-at-home mom is her primary goal in life. She's acting like it's essential to her happiness. I never knew it was this important to her when we were dating or even after we got married, but once the baby came along, she's completely focused on him and doesn't want anything to do with work or anything else.

It's never been my dream to have a stay-at-home wife, and we never planned for this. In fact, I helped support her while she got her Master's degree, because we were planning on her always working. But when the baby came along, she wants to spend 100% of her time with him and she cries when she thinks about going back to work.

I also didn't know this would be an issue back when we were looking at houses, or we wouldn't have got such an expensive house. I don't earn enough to pay for the house, cars, groceries, etc on just my income.

2006-10-26 02:09:11 · 39 answers · asked by Byakuya 7

My husband & I are working on patching up our marriage, he promised to be faithful and give his all. I promised not to ck behind him (v/m, emails, pockets, etc). Well last night, I ck'd his email and saw that this girl from the past, whom he slpet with when we were seperated, emailed him and said "she got his voicemail msg, and it was good to hear his voice, she saw this email and made her think of him" it was a list of Ms. Freak (pros & cons) Ms. Right; Ms Gold-digger, all the pros and cons;etc. I didn't say anything to him. What should I do? Am I over reacting? Should husbands or wives be allowed to talk to the opposite sex behind their spouse's back, ESPECIALLY if they have history?

2006-10-26 01:48:52 · 38 answers · asked by sassy lady 4

i've been with my girlfriend for 15 years, we have 2 children together but as it is our relationship is equivalent to us being friends only. we haven't slept together or had sex in like 6 months and when we do its usually in monthly to bimonthly intervals. she is a good person but i can't see myself spending the rest of my life with someone i'm not in love with. i love my kids which is why i find it so difficult to leave. i don't want to hurt them or cause any difficulties in their development. but i'm also very lonely in this relationship. advise me please!

2006-10-26 01:47:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Slow day and could use a little excitement to get the blood flowing.

2006-10-26 01:39:30 · 9 answers · asked by mecoachyou 1

A strong person is always confident that he/she can always find & retain someone in throughout the life whenever he/she will need, so permanent association is not needed & it is a permanent liability !

2006-10-26 01:25:01 · 23 answers · asked by sk 3

2006-10-26 01:19:37 · 17 answers · asked by willyyy 1

and in which month?

2006-10-26 01:18:12 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

When we first met she seemed unhappy and lost so i started to get to know her better. So with time we got together and now we are married. She had been raped about 5 years ago. So thats why she looked like that when i met her. I rember her saying she might never be able to love me, and i know it because what happened 5 years ago. We are together for a year now and we argue alot. All because I love her a lot i know that becase i took her under my arm with the hope to make het happy! Why cant she love me or feel something for me?. I know that we have to get help somewhere, but who? i need honest opinions please i dont want to loose her she is the best part of my life.

2006-10-26 01:16:21 · 40 answers · asked by Daniel 2

2006-10-26 01:05:47 · 42 answers · asked by IRIS 1

2006-10-26 01:02:32 · 6 answers · asked by bootylicious_1969 1

Its My first wedding anniversary . I desperately need ideas for a gift.. Traditionally its supposed to be paper..Any ideas?

2006-10-26 00:42:20 · 8 answers · asked by Dee 2

My husband has made HUDGE improvment from the 1st year that we wer married. He used to talk to girls online about being in a relationship, he would tell them he wanted to be with them and say that I was horrible to him. He would constantly lie and hide things from me. He was very mentally/emotionally abusive and blamed me for it all. Through some blood, sweat, tears, and counseling we worked past it. He is now doing very well and being honest and making a real effort to make me feel more secure. The slightest thing will make me feel uneasy. When he goes out with friends (no where bad just pool hall maybe usually store mall etc) when I dont talk to him (he is gone right now military) when he lets me off the phone to go to bed....all these things make me feel uneasy and scared. He told me he talk to a girl from work about work stuff and gave her a ride home from work a few times, but he did tell me but I still felt insecure about it.....Should I consider counseling to help move past it?

2006-10-26 00:30:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why is it the most women get child support if the have custody of the children? While most men who have custody do not get any child support and are okay with that.

2006-10-26 00:17:46 · 15 answers · asked by Mit 4

My husband of 3 years has never been particularly big on romatic gestures but has been known to send the odd bunch of flowers etc, we went througha rough patch 2 years ago when he had a short fling with a mutual friend, we worked through this and all was well, he hasn't told me he loves me for over 6 weeks now, for our recent anniversary I sent hima card telling him I loved him, he says he forgot so I got nothing in return and no response to my declaration, I have no idea what he did to the card as I never saw it again. He now says we got married to quickly although he booked the wedding so chaso the date, he chose 12 months before I was expecting! Leaving him isnt an option financially at the moment as I support us both as well as his mother, we live in her home. We havent had intercourse in 2 months although he still expects me to perform on him when he wants but will not touch me.. He doesn't work due to depression and sometimes disappears for hours on end and I have no idea where..

2006-10-26 00:14:27 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

would you cheat if you know there was no way of getting caught,,,say for example your favorite movie star or old high school crush,,,anything like that

2006-10-26 00:10:11 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

at his wife and also to see if she is looking as well...it makes me wonder

2006-10-26 00:05:54 · 15 answers · asked by ? 3

How important is it for a woman to have a husband to provide for her and the family? How would a wife naturally feel if the husband has been struggling to get somewhere with his career that pays a steady income?

2006-10-26 00:00:48 · 13 answers · asked by Tired 1