Marriage & Divorce - 26 October 2006

2006-10-26 03:57:49 · 41 answers · asked by Hobby 5

I am American and I married my boyfriend who is from Poland. We are currently in the process of getting his status changed so he can have a work permit. Has anyone out there had any experience with this. Any advice?

2006-10-26 03:55:45 · 6 answers · asked by Lady Elena 1

Why doesn't anyone ever care about the children?

2006-10-26 03:55:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

jumping over a broom, saying "I do"...

How do people in other countries "tie the knot". Hey, where did that phrase come from?

What are the different customs for getting married?

2006-10-26 03:54:29 · 6 answers · asked by TenJac 4

Their only view of a happy ending in marriage is when neither partner ever wronged the other and they both remain happily married and in love until they die in each other's arms?

This is a fairy tale which seems that people like to believe can happen, and since for most who have ever lived it could never be,
Why do people still hold on to this fantasy and measure their marriage against it and if it doesn't fit
they just bail out and get a divorce, even when it will make them destitute and leave their children fatherless?

2006-10-26 03:52:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I googled my wifes ex husband name on the internet and came up with some information about where he works and his phone number. I mentioned this to her the other night just to see the reaction i would get. I saw that there was some interest in her concerning this info. Now she wants to know the web page (url) i got this from. Should i tell her ? I'm worried that she may call him.

2006-10-26 03:52:03 · 10 answers · asked by Sal r 1

i m in vth a guy.he also loved a lot.bt now he thinks that in future he cant fulfill my needs..whatever. he is a true lover bt i dont know hw i give him back in my life. wt wud i do?

2006-10-26 03:48:43 · 6 answers · asked by charming_doll19 1

Is it death? Is it not getting a divorce?

Do you think a successful marriage is trying your best for ten years but then falling out of love, or wanting to cheat and then bailing out,

Or
Is a more successful marriage being poor, cheating stints, abuse, alcoholism,
But staying married until either one of you die, well into your later years?

How do you think that people in the old days kept it together? And do you think their marriages were different?
That they never "fell out of love", wanted to cheat, actually cheated, were selfish, etc.?

Is it only a happy ending when neither partner ever did anything wrong in all 50, 60 or what have you years of the relationship and they both live until they are a hundred and die in each other's arms?

2006-10-26 03:44:02 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Without going into great details, tell me where you got married, or where others you know got married. For example, next to a river, in a building (type of building), in a home, by
the justice of the peace, etc.

How long did the marriage last.

2006-10-26 03:41:23 · 15 answers · asked by TenJac 4

about the realationship between the two of them. The company is about to pay her off, because the affair happened at the work place.
I knew what was going on, because I confronted him several times.
My friends are urging me to sue her, for causing marital distress(since shes admitted it to her employers) needless to say my husband is being investigated (he was her boss) and demoted, he will probably be terminated after his employers finish the investigation. I 'm dealing with him in my own ways, but should I try to sue his gal-pal?? Serious answers please

2006-10-26 03:38:54 · 34 answers · asked by val l 2

I really didn't get to the whole story yesterday. My husband has being working out of town for about three years. He does come home though. Alot of things are missed though. This job is his dream, and I hate to destroy that. I am tried of living like this though, but I love him. Our marriage has been rocky. Everyone has problems, like finances and children. Well I have no one to turn to so I am here alone taking care of the kids, and trying to keep what we have together. I tend to get mad and blow up instead of talking though things. Then I say things to my husband I don't mean. I guess he got tired of me complaining and blowing out of portion, so he stop answering my calls. When he finally did call I was nice, and controlled my temper. This is when he told me he didn't know what he wanted anymore. He is willing to try though. He wants me to change, and I am trying. It has been two months some days are good and some bad. I just don't know what to do anymore.

2006-10-26 03:38:39 · 13 answers · asked by jfgrnbry 1

Men are like.....Horoscopes.
They always tell you what to do and are usually wrong.

Come on...have your say... (",)

2006-10-26 03:32:26 · 18 answers · asked by DiL 3

It might seem like a common scenario, when all is going good and you do realise that you are having a good time but fear the unknown and the unknown happens. Your circumstances (medical illness in the family) force you to move away and you discover that you need to move on fast ...so you get married to this guy you have known long distance for 3 years because logically he seems like marraige material. However, within a years time you realize that something very wrong has happened and that you are not enjoying the company of this man in your life and yearning to be with someone you were forced to leave. to make matters worst, a close family member dies and now there is no one to emotionally depend on ....you still continue to do what is socially right. try to work on your existing marraige. But no connection there...you dont miss him when he's away instead you are drifted off into reliving moments with your bf in the past. what happens then? what should be done?

2006-10-26 03:31:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Later, called one of the young women thru' the number and found out he texted and called her reqularly but not sexual just to chat. Wonders, why he rather texted and talk to women around his daughter's age than talking to either the wife or his own daughters. He doesn't show interest in the wife these days for nearly a year and almost the same time he's been texting these women. Is there a problem with this marriage and should the wife worry?

2006-10-26 03:28:27 · 19 answers · asked by mchoh 1

It is based in his Kenyan homeland and basically sells dried, salted fish. I am a bit unsure about the whole idea, but one day he'll be the tribal chief and I could be his wife so it would be an investment in my future. Am I nuts? Or is this a once in a lifetime opportunity? Has anyone done anything similar?

2006-10-26 03:27:16 · 32 answers · asked by Josephine 1

My ex and I have been separated many years (15+), but never legally divorced (or legally separated for that matter. My ex was an officer in the Navy when we married and when we separated. My ex left me with no warning or provocation. Came home from work and found most of the furniture taken and no good bye note. How do I find out what benefits I am, if any, entitled too and who should I contact to get more information?? We were married in the state of Louisiana if that matters.

2006-10-26 03:23:13 · 8 answers · asked by ripster0629 1

My husband and i have been together for a little over two years. Within the last week he has decided he wants to move back to North Dakota. In the past we have talked about moving there but he never seemed serious about it or anything so I never took him serious. Yesterday he put in his two weeks at work without warning. So now I know for sure he's serious. Should I tell him I'm not comfortable with just packing up and going or go and try to make the best of it? But I have lived here pretty much my whole life this is where I feel most comfortable.

2006-10-26 03:21:05 · 48 answers · asked by leigh 1

2006-10-26 03:18:58 · 5 answers · asked by jamie w 1

2006-10-26 03:17:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

> Never cheated
> Never were alcoholics
> Never were abusive

What do people think about the couples who stayed together for decades but cheated, did bad things, abused the kids,
Does that put a damper on their long marriage?

Are people unrealistic about what marriage used to be and what marriage is now,
Is this the reason for the high divorce rate?

2006-10-26 03:11:30 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-26 03:08:27 · 14 answers · asked by jamie w 1

"fall out of love", want to cheat, your husband is an alcoholic, he cheated on you,

What other good reasons are there to "just" get a divorce?

2006-10-26 03:06:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok here goes

my Fiance keeps me awake with his snoring every bloody night and i dont know what to do anymore. WE tried everything from nose strips to sprays and pills ughh. Is there any product out there that really helps. I am sick and tired of this. During the day i am sleepy and grumpy and i hate going to bed at night cos i know its going to be a longgggggggggggg night.
I dont even know when was the last time i had a decent night of sleep.
SO PLEASE any advise will be GREATLY appreciated

2006-10-26 02:58:24 · 13 answers · asked by bcb 1

married i have not spoken to his family due to things they have done, now we seem to argue about me not going over there to see them and he does not understand how uncomfortable they make me feel. He said his family will always come first. Do you think i should stick it out and deal with it or leave b/4 we go any further?

2006-10-26 02:57:30 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

The only relationship other than my own that the man is almost completely happy is one where the woman knows how to fill his needs and he does the same. The needs are different, but women just dont understand that one of the nedds/wants of any man is to get daily satisfaction. My wife and I have intercourse about 2-3 times a week but she takes care of me everyday and I take care of her whenever she asks, which is about 1-2 times a week other than the intercourse. Why don't you women understand that when a man is satisfied every day we think very little if at all about sex with other women. Otherwise, we usually size up every woman we see just to imagine in our head if we would have sex with them. I kow it's barbaric, but that's the way we were made. Most women were made to vent about things, and it is our job to just listen and not to try to fix it. Other than me venting here, I don't have that need. So can you women just go pleasure your men today and everyday?

2006-10-26 02:51:24 · 24 answers · asked by Jon O 4

People putting higher value on some things in marriage than others.
such as:
It's more immoral to betray than to raise your children without a father?

2006-10-26 02:49:42 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been together for 9 years. We have been married for 5 years. We have two children together and I have a daughter from a previous relationship. I feel like the reason I married him was so I would not be alone and my family hated him. They tired to tell me but I wouldnt listen. He will not keep a job to support us. In the last 9 years the longest he has kept a job is 8 months. I think he has worked every place in our town. He also used to be very selfish. Well there is more to this, long story short, I have fallen out of love with him. We have been trying to fix it, and I have been trying to find my feelings for him but they just aren't coming back to me. He wants me to just forget about all the hurt and pain he has put me through because he is trying to change for the better. And he is changing but I am thinking it is too late to find that love again. I had given up on him. I shut my heart down to keep it from being hurt again.

2006-10-26 02:49:33 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi,I am 5 foot 5.5 Inch long and will get married after some months,can anybody suggest is height of co-partner a factor for having a better sex life.If yes of which height I shall chose a girl to make my life partner which will give both full satisfaction while having sex

2006-10-26 02:47:39 · 3 answers · asked by saurabh s 1

Who will be made poor and fatherless?

Should people automatically file for divorce when they want to cheat even if it means tearing a family apart with small children and taking the father out of the house?

2006-10-26 02:43:38 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

well he is in prison and we agreed on a divorce and I've heard he could file but he wil not do it. plus it could be cheaper for him to do it. also i need to know what to do . and if i can do it file it myself without a lawyer then how much should it cost me to do this. please help me.

2006-10-26 02:41:55 · 8 answers · asked by stay.stil 1