The only relationship other than my own that the man is almost completely happy is one where the woman knows how to fill his needs and he does the same. The needs are different, but women just dont understand that one of the nedds/wants of any man is to get daily satisfaction. My wife and I have intercourse about 2-3 times a week but she takes care of me everyday and I take care of her whenever she asks, which is about 1-2 times a week other than the intercourse. Why don't you women understand that when a man is satisfied every day we think very little if at all about sex with other women. Otherwise, we usually size up every woman we see just to imagine in our head if we would have sex with them. I kow it's barbaric, but that's the way we were made. Most women were made to vent about things, and it is our job to just listen and not to try to fix it. Other than me venting here, I don't have that need. So can you women just go pleasure your men today and everyday?
2006-10-26 02:51:24 · 24 answers · asked by Jon O 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Some of those people that answered you are so rude! I know what you mean...i get it! What you say is true! Most men cheat because they aren't getting what they need at home; not because they want to! My husband's ex refused to give him b*j*s;she told him if that is what he wanted to go somewhere else! So, he did....we've been together almost 12 years! Women get mad on here when I tell them how to save their marriage...b*j*s daily(or at least 2-3 times per week!) and their man will be satisfied!
2006-10-26 03:02:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
Even though this guy is obviously a simpleton, he does have a shred of a point. He is taking a very selfish route, but the point of making each other happy is true. Yes, some men think being in a relationship is 75% sex. Meaning their happiness is 75% based of sexual fulfillment. I think it is important to understand that, and I think it is important for 'most' women to realize that too. Keeping your man satisfied in bed is important to keeping a happy home. But on the same point, men need to realize what it takes to make their woman happy too. It isn't just about being there for them to 'vent'.
If you have a woman that will make sacrifices to keep you happy and satisfied, then you should do the same. Even if it isn't of a sexual nature.
It really comes down to putting their needs ahead of yours. And in my opinion women are much better at that than men......unfortunately it gets old when it isn't appreciated.
2006-10-26 03:10:58 · answer #2 · answered by tightlies 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You make a number of assumptions here, and you're talking about primarily one need: Sex.
You say that she takes care of you everyday and you take care of her when she asks. Why should she have to ask? You assume that all men what to have sex as often as you; I would like to have sex more often with my husband as I have the higher sex drive. Keep in mind that it's not just sex that drives men to take interest in other women; it's more that there's intimacy lacking a home, and how that other woman makes you feel emotionally (desired, appreciated, etc.), which has very little to do with sex.
Luckily for my husband and I, our relationship revolves around so much more than sex. Our primary needs are to feel loved, respected, appreciated and secure. I don't dimiss sex as an important component, but it probably falls to number five or six on the list. I can't imagine having awesome sex with someone who was also indifferent to me or didn't are about my well-being. You can have sex with anyone, but finding someone who loves you completely is very hard to find.
Women were not made to vent about things, and don't hold the monopoly on venting. Men do it too, only it's called "ranting."
You know what my husband thinks is pleasure? When I make him breakfast in the morning, and we sit and talk about what's going to happen in our day; When we talk about world events and theories; when I meet his co-workers and he's proud that I'm his wife; because I am his partner; because I do things for him because I WANT to, not because I feel obligated as his wife. On top of everything else, I'm damn good in bed. Everything I give to him, I get back and then some.
That said, I don't understand why you're venting about women pleasuring their men if things are so wonderful in your home. Unless you have some male support group for horny and unhappy husbands, don't assume that all men are on your bandwagon. Be happy however you need to, and leave the rest of us to be happy in ways that work for us.
2006-10-26 03:12:13 · answer #3 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nothing wrong with enjoying sex and if we are satisfied at home we are less likely to stray. Think what you want about us men, but that's just the truth ladies.
However, let me guess, you are younger than 25 and have no kids. Once you are over 40, have kids, a mortgage and all the stress of a career and life, having sex everyday becomes completely unrealistic. Nice goal though... :-)
2006-10-26 03:11:19 · answer #4 · answered by taotemu 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't you get like raw dick from it being serviced every day? Maybe most men don't need to be taken care of each day in order not to cheat. Boy, what an example you are. "Screw me everyday, and I won't cheat". What happens if you need to be away for some reason, does that give you the right to test something different because what you are used to isn't there?
2006-10-26 03:33:38 · answer #5 · answered by Special K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You say your wife takes care of your every need every day, and that you take care of her when she asks...there's the problem right there...why does she have to ask, when she does for you without you having to ask...talk about selfish, not to mention when you have had your fill your quite contented regardless of the woman's needs, and wants, as long as your okay that's fine.....no it's not fine for the most part, but some women just settle for it regardless, and let me enlighten you pal...men don't always listen as well as they talk, and the talk is none other than sex, pure sex, and how their woman can satisfy their needs, and how often.
2006-10-26 03:03:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Well me and my man have satisfying sex almost every day, but he says he is a man so he is still going to look at other women, so us women not giving you enough satisfaction is just an excuse to look at every woman, flirt with every woman, and screw every woman.
2006-10-26 02:55:19 · answer #7 · answered by Clints_wench 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Each person has their own sexual needs and desires. I know plenty of men, in all age groups, who don't want sexual relations every day while I know several women who would have sex every day.
If this arrangement is working for you and your wife, great! Just don't think it's going to be a fix for every other relationship out there.
2006-10-26 03:03:47 · answer #8 · answered by cgspitfire 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Adam became the first guy then god created Eve from Adam's rib. What does women human beings giving start ought to do with something? Adam did not provide start to Eve, he quite had not something to do such as her creation, except for the very actuality God used his rib to create her.
2016-12-05 06:11:16 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no issues with that, I just don't understand why guys can't call when they want to stay late etc. I wouldn't care if my man wanted to go out for a couple of drinks with the guys aft work, if he'd just let me know so I'm not calling the hospital to make sure he didn't crash on the freeway! (I'm exaggerating a little, but you get the point)
2006-10-26 02:57:05 · answer #10 · answered by CHRYSTAL I 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋