Marriage & Divorce - 26 October 2006

I don't really want to, for a lot of reasons.

Mostly, I don't want to end up trapped in a marriage with some guy and a few kids. Once you have kids, you're pretty much trapped. Don't get me wrong, there are many, many happy marriages out there, and I think it's a great thing! But for me personally, I wouldn't want to take that kind of leap. Also, I like to do my own thing. I'm not too into long relationships, they're nice sometimes, but single is good, too. The only thing is getting very old would be lonely if I wasn't married. I could get married, but only to the right person, but I doubt I ever would.

What are your reasons? Would you ever, even if you don't want to? Do you think your mind will change down the road?

2006-10-26 05:44:12 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

We've been married 8 years and he's gone to spend a year or a little over training for OTR truck driving, so he will be gone a long stretch at a time, then home again for a short time again and again. We've spent a total of 8 days totally apart other than this. Wondered if anybody had any practical suggestions.

No telling me he's cheating or going to..he's NOT
No telling me to get a boyfriend..NOT an option
No telling me to leave him cuz he shouldn't be away from us, he's doing what is right for us , just need any ideas of help to get through it.

2006-10-26 05:40:48 · 28 answers · asked by lovesmikey 2

I'm wonder from all the verbal, emotional, abuse..My husband will realize what he did wrong to me , his stepson and his babygirl..We are now going thru divorce because he said i left him.. But the last night we were together he kick me out. So now our apartment is lonely and he went back living with his mother and father cuz he is mom's boy i'm staying with my parents too with the children. But what is goingthru my head is I WONDER IF HE WILL REALIZE what he did, how much pain he cause I feel he loves 2 see me pain. because i know i can see a smile on him.. But the question is MAN like this will they ever come to realize soon or never.. cause now is hard for me to believe what a selfish bastard he is for doing all this stuff to me.. I'am hurt and sad, but mostly mad because i did all my best in the marriage and he took advantage of me thru all the marriage.. and i know everyone tells me i'm better off without him.. he was no good husband or father..But i just feel sad how he ends this

2006-10-26 05:27:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-26 05:22:55 · 63 answers · asked by Anonymous

when u ask something and they ignore what u say

2006-10-26 05:18:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband cheated on me about 2 months ago with a friend of minefor 2 months, I was totally clueless. I was going to her house with my 2 year old son and husband everyday. We talked and I desided to stay with him. He did admit what he did was wrong but I know personally I pushed him away for a long time. I was always yelling at him and took him for granted. We stopped sleeping together. I would threaten divorcing him numerous times out of anger. He thought I was divorcing him. I admit I was wrong also. He told me everything and explained that he had no thought process throughout it all. He never thought of what he was losing. Afte the fact now, he has thought about it and tells me he knows what he did was wrong. He said, you gave me a second chance and I won't screw this up again. He knows if he does it again, there won't be another chance.I gave him the chance to leave without custody problems and he stayed. Is once a cheater always a cheater true?

2006-10-26 05:18:15 · 29 answers · asked by little_effin_sunshine 1

i have met many married men who say they are looking... why don't they say they are dirty filthy bastards who are emotionally dead, they gave up on their wives, they are not serious grown men, they are players.. etc. then they want to meet me, a single free spirit.. like how deep is married and looking, looking for what people?

2006-10-26 05:17:37 · 14 answers · asked by Jyssi Leeann 2

Considering that women are highly social creatures and that they are going to have social connections. Anybody else think it makes your chances of finding a women to stay married to without the influence of the gender, ________if not impossible, these days?

2006-10-26 05:17:36 · 4 answers · asked by lightlytread 2

Want a quick and easy divorce, we have no property or anything, all out debts are our own we agreed. We just want quick, easy and cheap divorce. How much does it cost and what do we have to do? Also is it possible to keep the same surname but just go back to Mrs.

I'm living in UK.

2006-10-26 05:03:11 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

BEFORE you all blast me! i am 40, i have had sex with her twice this year and both times i had to beg!!! we have children, i can't leave her, she always makes me miserable in every way. manic depression is here past time, i can't do it anymore but i will not leave my kids.

the girl i had sex with 20 minutes ago was amazin, she made me feel 20 again!! it was just sex and she knows that. GOD forgive me

what in the name of GOD am i going to do now, i will not tell my wife of 13 years, no way, my kids!! what do i do???? the sex was amazing, wow, OMG i feel like a kid again, but my kids are more important than me leaving the wife to just have fun.

The wife will never change, never, she will just get worse but i will not tell her or leave her, how do i look at here tonight if she is in an okay mood and decides not to verbaly abuse me again.

i told the lady i had sex with my problems and she made me feel relaxed before we did it, she is also leaving country tomorrow, no strings...

2006-10-26 05:03:03 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous

Men and woman have affairs... but do woman approach it the same way? What would drive a woman to cheat on her husband and how would she approach a male for an affair?

2006-10-26 05:02:01 · 14 answers · asked by on2try 2

My wife & I agreed not to have any kids as I have 2 & 1 lives with us. we both agreed 8 years ago no kids before we got married.. our relationship has not been good for sometime , I am not saying its all her because I know we both play a big part in this , we just go through the motions so to speak..I honestly was going to leave before I found out , no way I can leave now. the only good thing that has come from this is she don't drink every day now I really feel bad for everyone in this house because I know my heart is not 100% in this anymore. my wife is a good person & I love her but I am not sure I am in love with her

2006-10-26 05:01:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've hurt my wife in so many ways (physically, emotionally, verbally, etc.) to the point where she moved out. I'm going through counseling in order to help me, but to also get my wife back. My wife explained to me that she is not willing to come back home to me until I straighten up and fly right. I've promised to her before that I would, but never did. This time I have, but she is having a hard time trusting in me. She's my soul mate and I can't see my life without her. My question is, how do I go about showing her that I've changed for the better.

2006-10-26 04:56:03 · 26 answers · asked by hys7768 2

well i have been with this guy for 5 years and every thing is great and all, but last night he took me out to eat,(keep in mind , that im bearly going to be 18 in a few months) ive been with this guys ever since middle school. last night was great, unill he poped the question, he aske me to marrie him. i thought i loved him, but when he asked me last night i thought about every thing and now im not even suer about how i feel.

2006-10-26 04:53:17 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok here is the thing I am married andhave been for nearly 13 years I have always loved my wife and have remained faithful. Then about a year ago she fell for another guy. but after I found out and her and I talked I gave her a choice to leave or stay she choose to stay. I have poured my heart out to her and have changed things about myself that I knew needed to changed to make things work and she did the same. The guy she had feel for kept his distance and said that he was happy that she was commited to makeing things work with her and I. I then found something that basically broke the line of honesty and trust in a message he left her talking about how hard it is for him not to stop by and see her and to say certain things. all along I have fought to prove to her my love and she has told me that she loves me then there are times she seems distant I question it and she gets upset with me and then finally a month ago she said she still has feelings for him and she didn't know what she

2006-10-26 04:50:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bf and I have differences of opinion. I would like him to do things not because I tell him to do them but because inside he wants to do them. For example, I felt that he was talking to this girl too much. His solution was to stop talking to her. I wanted him to realize for himself that he was talking to her to much. I want him to know what is acceptable or not without me telling him. Am I asking for too much?

2006-10-26 04:46:01 · 26 answers · asked by honeyluv_2010 4

hes still lying even after his galpal went to their employer. I'm angry and demanded truthful answers. He said I was the blame, I dont give him attention when he needs it.
I feel like thats bullshit, he's blaming everybody else except himself.
whats the deal why thehead games???

2006-10-26 04:42:14 · 40 answers · asked by val l 2

A house was inherited and will be sold showing a $60,000 profit. Is this a joint asset?

2006-10-26 04:40:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

are you a grump in the morning they say its a well known fact that women are more grumpy in the morning than men is it true what are you like when you get up in the morning

2006-10-26 04:40:14 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

Married 5 years not same culture but love him very much? Does anyone else feel this way?

2006-10-26 04:38:52 · 19 answers · asked by 33kasper 2

2006-10-26 04:36:08 · 13 answers · asked by Pissed off 1

******True or false?
Love can never exist in its pure form, which is the type of love that is portrayed in Shakespeare's novels……….
Love in real life is always motivated by basic human needs(e.g. sexual desire, comfort, money, reproduction)and co-exist with lust, money, power and hatred.

plz suport your point of views!

2006-10-26 04:35:28 · 7 answers · asked by lollipop 1

When divorced 14 years ago, my ex-wife was given primary custody of my son and I was provided liberal visitation. Now 16, he has come to live with me and my family. His mother withdrew him from school to allow him to enroll in our local school. A few months ago when my son moved in with us, while I was out of the country, he stayed with her for two weeks and she agree to call the child support even. Since then she has refused to provide any financial support for his expenses. Is there a way to transfer custody or child support payments without the costly legal process.

2006-10-26 04:31:00 · 15 answers · asked by L. D. 1

2006-10-26 04:26:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have found that by taking REAL responsobility for my two children, 50% custody, and I take them to school on my ex-wifes days she has them, Making sure they get an education in public school. my child support is 0, zero after years of paying through the nose, and working two jobs.

If you have a crazy child support payment and are behind in payments, you need to take a giant role in your childrens life. I have done it, It takes time, and a comentment to your children.

Give her nothing to use to say your a bad father. Make changes in your life to better your kids lifes. EDUCATION is what they need, and can get it at public school if you take the interest.

This is what you need to do! So DO it! Its GOOD>

Dave

2006-10-26 04:26:12 · 7 answers · asked by duster360 4

2006-10-26 04:23:51 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-26 04:22:03 · 15 answers · asked by doretha g 1

We constantly hear on YA that men dont get enough sex from their wives. I just spoke with a wife that said she finally got some sex from her husband. I was shocked. What in the world would make a man not want to have sex with his wife ? Does that necessarily mean he has someone else on the side ??

2006-10-26 04:17:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife wants to visit a female for massage and Fun, anyone know of anywhere that does this in Essex/London ??

2006-10-26 04:17:28 · 9 answers · asked by TONY C 2

I know it's wrong but when he comes around me I can't help myself. He touches me and I want to say no, but I just can't. Any comments and suggestions will help. Thanks!

2006-10-26 04:10:34 · 31 answers · asked by lousia10 1