Get some therapy. You really need some boundaries. You can say no and you need to.
2006-10-26 04:11:54
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answered by Justsyd 7
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Louisa10,
You are lying to yourself. If you let someone touch you again, and again, it's because it feels good and you want him to continue. Your guilt feelings are coming from your moral compass that tells you it's wrong because he's married. You didn't state you age but my guess is you're young--- at least in emotional regard. As children we're taught not to touch what isn't ours. I sense you feel a strong attraction to this man but, you're playing with fire. He is probably older than you and knows how to manipulate younger women to get what he wants. By letting him continue to touch you you've given him the green light to move ahead. And he will when it strikes his fancy! Your best bet : next time you see him : tell him if he ever touches you again you'll tell his wife. If he gives you any lip tell him it was wrong for him to ever touch you in the first place but now that you've spoken to some friends you know you must tell him to stop or face the consequence of his wife being told. You do not want to get in over your head with a married man...it will only bring you trouble and heartache!
2006-10-26 04:35:50
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answer #2
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answered by Brains & Beauty 6
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You need to stop letting this guy get the best of both worlds while you get the shitty end of the stick. Go out, have fun, take a trip, get involved in group or sporting activities or whatever it is you like to do. Meet new people, you might actually meet a man who would treat you with the respect you deserve. Besides, would you like another woman encouraging and allowing your future husband, the man who's gonna provide for and raise your kids, to be touching them. Think of the distress that can have on a family. I think you're a good person caught in a bad experience. We all have our bad experiences. But to change it is only up to you. My mother raised me with this in my head; if a woman cheated on her man to get me, then she'll cheat on me to get someone else. Do the right thing, it feels good and there is a God watching whether you believe it or not. God bless.
2006-10-26 04:19:52
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answer #3
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answered by krazylevin 1
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Hey! the guy is a married man ,Remember that he has a wife and other responsibility's. This attraction that you feel can only end in heartbreak for you, or even an unwanted pregnancy. This man is
just getting his kicks at your expense. He may be a charming
bastard- but that is only what he is. and in your heart YOU know this. Don't let yourself be used like this. Snap out. you are worth
more than a cheap affair! HE is MARRIED. If his wife finds out
she will be hurt and so will his entire family. It is a no win thing.
2006-10-26 04:27:40
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answered by bernice l 4
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DON'T GO AROUND HIM THEN, Don't be one of those sleezy girls who breaks up a marriage and family. Have more respect for yourself and the mans wife! How would you feel if you were his wife and didn't know that another women who KNOWS he is a married man let him touch her? Not to good I think. You need to end this now, before it goes to far. There is 100 million men who are not married that you can let touch you. Don't be a home wrecker!
2006-10-26 04:24:12
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answered by . . * h o n e y * . . 3
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Be honest with yourself; you know it's wrong but you allow it anyway. Ask yourself: what exactly is it that I want from this man? Why am I letting him touch me?
Understand that this man will not ever care for you, treat you with respect or honor. The moment you come to your senses, he'll move on to someone new.
Respect yourself. Stop allowing him to disrespect you, and go get counseling so you can understand why this behavior is acceptable to you.
2006-10-26 04:15:27
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answer #6
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answered by Le_Roche 6
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If you want him to touch you then your just gonna have to decide if you can continue to go on the way things are or put a stop to it. If you dont want him to touch you then you need to get away from this guy.
2006-10-26 04:20:15
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answered by Sarah 2
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Can you live with yourself knowing that you are taking part in possible ruining someone else's marriage? This is just morally wrong. Did your parents not teach you morals? Aparently you didn't listen if they did. You need to get a backbone and say NO. This has got to stop. If you are underage then he can go to jail for sexual harrasment. Do not let this go any further. You are only setting yourself and him up for problems.
2006-10-26 04:20:12
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answered by hehmommy 4
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Perhaps in a subconscious way you realize that you can have some benefits without any commitment so you go with the moment. Not everybody wants to be tied down in a marriage or relationship.
2006-10-26 04:17:37
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answered by acmeraven 7
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dont play naive or dum. you dont say no cause you 1. like his touch 2. like him 3. its erotic 4. he touches you sensually 5. you want his cock 6. you like the tease. enjoy it while it lasts, cause after it beomes not new to him anymore he will replace you with another person that will allow him to grope her. you werent the first, and you wont be the last. so get your jolly on now!!!!!.
2006-10-26 04:26:40
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answered by lovely 2
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Instead of this one married man, why don't you let the whole US Army touch you, you slut. Leave other women husband's alone.
2006-10-26 04:19:02
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answered by Ellen J 2
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