Married 5 years not same culture but love him very much? Does anyone else feel this way?
2006-10-26 04:38:52 · 19 answers · asked by 33kasper 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think we all have thoughts from time to time...just don't take it any further unless you are willing to deal with the consequences. You cannot to things like cheating without it coming out eventually.
2006-10-26 07:01:50 · answer #1 · answered by Sweetteach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to> but it changed. things always do.
It's important to keep trying and don't lose hope and faith in the marriage.
All is not lost.
don't get a divorce; you'll wind up regretting it.
try to get councelling. Divorce should be the last option of all after all other attemps at reparation have been exhausted.
my personal belief is that if you have children especially, work it out.
stay together as long as the kids are raised and reared and well adjusted, then see where it goes from there.
You have all the time in the world, but it takes a bigger person to do a bit of self sacrificing for several years.
2006-10-26 04:51:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you love him enough not to? Enough for him to want leave you? Like playing with fire?
I think you don't know what you want and that girl will get you into big trouble. Count your blessings if you have a good man, different culture or not. There are numerous cheaters out there just waiting for opportunity for someone like you to come along...especially if you are married cuz you are no threat.
2006-10-26 04:43:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think cheating is easy but retaining is difficult. Think before you do that for I am a guy who has cheated many a times and now I am seeking God for all the sins that I've done with my girl friend.
2006-10-26 04:45:17 · answer #4 · answered by teampython13 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you cheat your cheating yourself at the same time. you never solve a marriage problem by turning your back and facing someone else. if you really love him i would treat him the way you would want to be treated. good luck...it must be a hard spot to be in and feel this way...
2006-10-26 04:56:14 · answer #5 · answered by me myself and I 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Five years is alot of time and work. Don't cheat. It really is not worth it. Try conseling or talking to each other. Get away for the weekend. Rekindle what you once had.
2006-10-26 04:46:33 · answer #6 · answered by Happy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, not me. Try to take yourself away from the people or environment or situations that cause these. You made a vow to your husband. Honor yourself and him by keeping it. If there are problems, talk to him and work on them. So many people divorce over the lack of communication and selfishness. Don't be one of them.
2006-10-26 04:45:53 · answer #7 · answered by moose on the loose 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes! I feel the same way! I say go for it! Life is too short! Good Luck. If you need to chat, contact me and we can take this offline. :)
2006-10-26 05:16:01 · answer #8 · answered by chad b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him you wouldn't cheat.
2006-10-26 10:51:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the grass is greener on the other side, it's time to water your own grass
2006-10-26 04:43:54 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋