Marriage & Divorce - 26 October 2006

Seriously, what are you all looking for? Besides s*x.

2006-10-26 06:58:30 · 16 answers · asked by chefgrille 7

I know its 5 months away but never to soon to start planning. I live in the pasadena area and I'm willing to drive almost anywhere. I was thinking a romantic night at a hotel, trip to catalina island, a night away from our 2 year old son. Any suggestions are welcome and helpful.

2006-10-26 06:53:23 · 7 answers · asked by brooksdunn05 1

2006-10-26 06:50:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

being realistic in your answers and opinions, what makes a good marriage? whats makes it stronger?

2006-10-26 06:47:50 · 40 answers · asked by english_latina 1

to better sex/being a husband an a better father

2006-10-26 06:46:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

my really great guy friend is married and though i like his wife he is constantly telling me that during their 15 years of marriage she has had numerous affairs - -he is no angel himself -- they have two kids

the problem is he just returned home from Iraq he is an officer in the military and the entire time he has been gone she has been seeing another man also an officer in the military (who I might had she was seeing years ago he just happened to move to the same place right before her husband left)

she is acting as if nothing happened even though i know she talks to this guy all the time who is also married but his wife lives in another city/state for now -- and she (my friend) is still finding time to meet up with and have sex with this man whom she says she cares about but has no intentions of leaving her husband

she says she is going to end it with this guy but i don't believe her i feel caught in the middle

2006-10-26 06:46:02 · 15 answers · asked by Lisa 3

Im starting to fall for this guy who's my friend. we belong to the same circle of friends so we do see each other when there are gatherings. He does like me too but only shy to confess his feelings (heard from a friend he said he's scared to break our friendship if we become lovers) Also, last month his dad phoned him to say that he's already got a kid back from our country(we're both foreigners working in London) and it was a result of one night stand he had 4 years back - thing he never knew until last month. The other woman is now a lawyer back home and she does not intend to chase for my friend for any support or anything - she just wanted my friend to know. Im really falling for this guy but it scares me to love him even more because of the fact that I'm scared one day this will cause troubles to me and perhaps to our future kids. Im trying to get rid of him from my mind and my heart. Do you think this is correct? Anyone from the same situation? How is it marrying a guy like this?

2006-10-26 06:44:56 · 9 answers · asked by alet 1

I noticed that when a woman has a problem with her man, everyone's answer is "dump him" ... like come on.. is that the best suggestion anyone can give these women who might be seeking a more meaningful answer... obviously something is bothering her don't give her some BS answer to just dump her man.. advice is better then that ...

2006-10-26 06:44:12 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2

For the last several weeks, my husband keeps telling me I don't hug him in the middle of the night. He has always been good about hugging me and usually when he turns over, he'll wrap his arms around me. I sleep as if I'm in a coma and maybe throw my arm around him once for about 5 minutes. It wasn't a big deal before but now he's mentioning it every day. He says that maybe I really don't care about him. His mom passed away a month ago and we've been married a year. Our relationship is strong and happy - so what's going on?

2006-10-26 06:43:28 · 12 answers · asked by Rachel 7

He still looks her up on the computer, never said anything nice about her while we were dating and all of a sudden she was the best thing that ever happened to him. I feel like i am in a marriage where i will never be good enough and we have only been married for 7 months. I just discovered letters and writtings describing his feeling and he wrote about how I was "ok" and she was just amazing. I have done so much more for him and supported him more than she ever did and yet, there is something about me that makes me not add up in his eyes. It is the most painfull thing I have ever felt.

2006-10-26 06:42:54 · 18 answers · asked by rb 1

How can i get myself, my finances, everything together after my husband disappearing literally and divorcing me...and he started contacting me after the divorce, being raped, being in 2 bad relationships, not having really anybody except 1 parent to count on, being poor...yet im educated...attractive, NICE and am about to move to a new bigger city...i just feel totally lost and alone...and ps is everyone in the world mean and nasty...do i have to be that way to get anywhere...everyone just freakin walks all over me

2006-10-26 06:42:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex wife and I agreed to a dollar amount for child support before we recieved paperwork from the court. The amount the court ordered was in my favor, but I kept with our agreement for the past 15 years and payed more. Now she wants to take me back to court for more money. What are my rights?

2006-10-26 06:40:47 · 4 answers · asked by bickleyscott 1

i was 13 when we hooked up,3 weeks later,hes cheating,that went on 4 11 months,every 3or4 years,it happens,finally i screwed his boss,now 17 years,2 kids,10,000 heart aches here i am.im stupid

2006-10-26 06:36:54 · 8 answers · asked by pooh 1

my marriage is in the gutter, not for lack of trying, I HAVE tried. For over 4 years now, and for awhile I just decided that was that and let it be but over the last year and a half (since the birth of my son) I have started to realize that my husband lack of effort is unacceptable. There is no excuse good enough to not be with your family. I have told him time and time again that he needs to be home more and you know what he did last night.. got his permit and license started to be our county's wildlife trapper (meaning he will be called out all times of the day & night to trap wild animals within city limits) This after I told him we needed him more. But then I get people in my life/on here saying that I cant quit, you didnt get married to quit etc.. but how long do I have to suffer, am I supposed to be this meek little wife sitting in the back waiting for him to notice me & his son? F that. I deserve better, his son deserves better. I set up counseling, we went, nothing changed

2006-10-26 06:35:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-26 06:27:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had a friend who I have known for about 2 yrs. My husband knew him first, but now he is more my friend. He has been coming over our house for about a yr now. He lived with the mother of his child for 12 yrs. She cheated on him about 2 yrs ago. He told me that he doesn't trust her, he's not in love with her, and that they have nothing in common. However, he married her 2 mos. ago, and he didn't tell me, another friend told me. When I asked him, he said that he forgot. He only married her for the children, and that he is not in love with her. He has also never shown us any pictures of his family. Please give me your thoughts about this situation. Thanks

2006-10-26 06:24:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been together a lil over 4 years, and have been married for two of them. As of late he hasn't been paying much attention to me....i.e.1) last night I tried to crawl in the shower with him and he spased saying all he wanted to do was finish and go to bed....i.e.2) I bought new tongs the other week and I was modeling them for him asking if he liked them and all he said was "ehh their fine". Should I be taking a hint??? I have no idea what to do to zone him back in to me.... should I leave?

2006-10-26 06:23:56 · 36 answers · asked by mandarb 1

I am have a baby boy and me and my usband can't choose between two names I like Wyatt mathew because its diffrent you don't hear it around that often. My husband likes Nicholas Joe Out of these two name what would you chose.

2006-10-26 06:23:16 · 11 answers · asked by ellie 2

I am leaning torwards having an affair on my husband for sexual satifaction and affection. I have told him that he is slacking in that area time and time again. He cheated, and we are dealing with that right now (please review previous questions for more detail). I am really of thinking about having a fun and exciting sexual affair instead of divorcing him and tearing our family apart. Like he told me, it's only sex. Am I wrong? or is it justified

2006-10-26 06:20:29 · 26 answers · asked by sassy lady 4

2006-10-26 06:12:26 · 22 answers · asked by chicken farmer 2

My husband & I dont get along, havent for at least a year. We arent hurtful or physical, we just dont have a good relationship any more. I am done, I am thru trying, I'm exhausted. However I have decided that for ME, I am finally going to lose weight.. I am REALLY gonna do it. I need to lose like 100 lbs. I am actually a beautiful person inside & out but I am hiding it under all this weight. people have even told me I could be a model. And I think that since my husband and I are pretty much roomates now that when I actually start doing this and he starts seeing the changes in me he will start acting like a husband and want to be with me again, how do I make sure that isnt an option for him without sounding like a bit ch. I cant just say to him "when I lose weight dont come crawling back to me" he is still my husband but we just arent "together" anymore. but i am doing this for me, NOT HIM! and I dont want him to reap any benefits from it. Finally I am thinking of myself after 8 yrs

2006-10-26 06:08:03 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-26 06:07:15 · 13 answers · asked by what 1

2006-10-26 06:07:01 · 17 answers · asked by gail w 2

Any of you people let your mate sleep with other people with out being jeolous. He/she enjoys sleeping around and its ok with you?

2006-10-26 06:04:52 · 9 answers · asked by morfusaf 2

What i meant is it law he has to pay? How much would he pay?

2006-10-26 05:57:32 · 29 answers · asked by jules 4

I met who I thought to be the great love of my life at age 35. We dated for almost a year and were married 4 months ago. He has a wonderful daughter (she is a challenge at age 13) and I have a 6 year old who both live with us. Blending the families has been a challenge. He is a wonderful man. I love him with all of my heart. I am difficult. I realize that. I get mad easily and I get my feelings hurt easily. This morning, we were in the bathroom getting ready for work. We were trying to have a discussion/argument. Then here comes his daughter...I told her we were trying to get ready for work and I slammed the door. He called me a B, slammed me against the counter and then pushed me on the floor. This is about the 4th time he has done something like this. What should I do? I can not imagine my life without him in it, but I also hate feeling like this.

2006-10-26 05:54:25 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-26 05:50:43 · 60 answers · asked by mandarb 1

2006-10-26 05:50:15 · 20 answers · asked by Alisha S 3

I love my husband and our family. We are currently working on our marriage (his infedelity); I said I would give my all and work on trusting him, which I do give my all, but ck up behind him. Now I am thinking back from the beginning (6 yrs ago), we are always dealing with the same issues and I am tired; I am ready to live life and be happy. I am really thinking of moving on. I don't trust him, I'm not sexually satified, emotionally happy or fulfilled with affection from him. I do love him very dearly. b/cI know him, I think deep down inside, he does not want to be married. How do I get this out of him. He really feels that his job as a husband is to be there paying the bills and loving his kids, he come home every night. To me that's not enough. I want a husband for me as much as a father to my babies. I tried talking to him and he has yet out of 6 yrs admit that he is wrong. He even blame his cheating b/c of me, saying that he tried being open w/me and I played mind games.

2006-10-26 05:48:06 · 30 answers · asked by sassy lady 4

If you are divorced, never been married, young, old, what are the things you think about? Are you thinking sex? Are you thinking about the next step? Are you just treating it like a job interview? What are your fears and insecurities? Do you worry how you look? Honest answers please, but try not to be rude.

2006-10-26 05:46:28 · 14 answers · asked by ♥2323vsb 2