2006-10-26 06:07:15 · 13 answers · asked by what 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If it is only small talk. But what are you talking about? If you are talking about things that are making you feel guilty then maybe you shouldn't be doing it.
2006-10-26 06:09:43 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, as long as you are not alone wih him or talking about inapropriate things. IF you hve children then its obviously a no brainer you have to talk to him. If it was an amicalble divorce and your curent spouse or partner is not bothered by it and you include that person in on what was said its OK, but like one person said if you are having guilty feelings about the talks then don't! Simply put, why would you continue to have a relatiosnhip with the ex (and no kids are involvd) if there arnt still feelings there? Its time to reevaluate where you are right now make sure your main focus is on the right person
2006-10-26 13:24:42 · answer #2 · answered by spinner4567 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you meeting alone? If so than you are in an inappropriate relationship. I would be BOILING if my wife was meeting an ex-boyfriend alone. Happily married people don't do that. The only people that meet an ex alone are people that are hoping to have sex with them. I've been happily married for twenty-six years and I have NEVER, EVER felt the urge to meet an old girlfriend to meet in alone. I would never do it anyway--I think far too much of my wife to make her worry about something like that.
2006-10-26 13:16:01 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Curious 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you have children together? If so, yes it's okay. If not, I would seriously question why you have any communication with your ex especially since you're now married to another person.
2006-10-26 13:09:50 · answer #4 · answered by kja63 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to them about the children or finances. Don't just call to chit chat because that part of your life is over especially if there is a new wife or husband
2006-10-26 13:11:47 · answer #5 · answered by debbie2243 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love your wife their no problem talking to your ex because you don't feel for her.
2006-10-26 13:12:20 · answer #6 · answered by Danille 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,no small talk,no talk at all,Unless you too have children together and are disguising them.
2006-10-27 22:50:40 · answer #7 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, u shouldnt because u have to respect the person u r married to
2006-10-26 13:11:19 · answer #8 · answered by shanellrenee2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not a problem. after all, you did have a relationship with that person once upon a time.
2006-10-26 13:25:23 · answer #9 · answered by sheilanmanny12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea its ok..if its just small talk...nake sure there's no flirting...etc.....then it shouldn't matter
2006-10-26 13:09:12 · answer #10 · answered by tweety 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋