If you are divorced, never been married, young, old, what are the things you think about? Are you thinking sex? Are you thinking about the next step? Are you just treating it like a job interview? What are your fears and insecurities? Do you worry how you look? Honest answers please, but try not to be rude.
2006-10-26 05:46:28 · 14 answers · asked by ♥2323vsb 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
P.S. I am not dating. Just strictly curious.
2006-10-26 05:50:02 · update #1
Your answers are gonna vary. most of my friends are excited from the initial attraction about all the wonderful possibilities. SEX?! Of course, but after a dinner or coffee we can see if there is any more chemistry. People scare each other off with their religious or political views or their insistence on marriage talk etc. MANY REASONS!!
Usually we are turned on and excited. It is up to the woman to dictate the next step. Some just want sex also. Some just husband shopping which many men find scary in the beginning.
2006-10-26 06:22:49 · answer #1 · answered by virg922 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am thinking about sex, having fun spending time together, getting to know the other person. Definately not thinking about an agenda for the future, "next step" or "interviewing" her for some role in my life. Its all about enjoying being with her in the present.
2006-10-26 12:49:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I like the person I think about the next step. If I don't, and am just physically attracted, then sex only.
2006-10-26 12:48:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I was single, my only thought was "Gee, I wonder if I'm gonna be able to get some tonight."
Now that I'm married, it's pretty much the same thought, only difference is 9 times out of 10, I know what the answer is.
2006-10-26 12:49:36 · answer #4 · answered by jbtascam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trying to figure you out - and present a solid 1st impression, yes I try to look good - attractive and I do dress better when i am with a new gf,
Sex is always on our minds
2006-10-26 12:53:30 · answer #5 · answered by bostongoodguy2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not meaning to sound rude, but I think of what her breasts would look like once she unleashes them.
2006-10-26 12:49:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
bleh, too much thinking going on.
how bout ya just go out and have fun?
why worry over anything, if your date likes you, then cool.
just be yourself,
2006-10-26 12:48:24 · answer #7 · answered by seanachie60 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sex ( without any knowledge of personality then basic biology is all you got )
2006-10-26 12:48:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How I'm going to get her back to my place.
2006-10-26 12:53:51 · answer #9 · answered by Duke P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DATE SOMEONE, WHO GOES OUT WITH U FOR WHO U R NOT THE KIND HE WANTS U TO BE.
2006-10-26 12:49:05 · answer #10 · answered by nids 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋