Marriage & Divorce - 26 October 2006

2006-10-26 16:27:28 · 11 answers · asked by thejoker 1

2006-10-26 16:26:36 · 3 answers · asked by snickerdoodles 2

My husband has cheated in the past. We have worked it out and been through counseling. He's been going out every Friday night - he PROMISES he's not doing anything wrong. My question is do I set him up by having a girl he doesn't know go where he's at and try talking to him, make passes at him, etc. I know I will run the risk of him cheating - but at least I would know if he really was committed to being with me only. If he cheats again he knows I am out of here, with the kids. He says he hasn't cheated in 4 years. Do I set him up? What are some of the things I should have the girl say or do to really put him to the test? And where in Gods name do I find someone willing to do something like this? I just don't want to waste anymore time with him, if he's not really going to stay faithful!
I asked this question earlier today - He goes out after work (he gets done around 11 pm), so I can't go w/ him. Can't hire a PI without him knowing I took money. Can't follow him - kids sleeping.

2006-10-26 16:24:53 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a happily married man who's overcome a sexual addiction, and realized that because I was thinking only of myself, that it turned my wife off to sex.

Just curious to see what you all think.

2006-10-26 16:22:50 · 14 answers · asked by Bryan M 5

Literally since the day we met we have been together except for brief periods of time like holiays when I went to my mom's house and my family went on a cruise together. It really hurts my feelings when he says these things, because I hate that he doen't believe me. Last week I had to go to a job interview 4 hours aways, so after the interview I stopped at a rest area to take a quick nap for 1/2 an hour and drained the battery on my car. I was asking people to jump start my car and one guy asked me for my phone number. I told him I was engaged and didn't want his number. After I got home, I screwed up and told my fiance about it, thinking it was funny, now he swears I had sex with that guy at the rest area! I hate that he thinks that of me and he is always asking if I really love him or if I am just pretending. How can I get him to stop asking this, it hurts my feelings and makes me really mad at him!

2006-10-26 16:17:57 · 29 answers · asked by hargonagain 4

fearful her father is going to try and get custody and he has wanted nothing to do with her until recently when his parents found out about her, my parents want me to grant them shared custody so that he can't but I feel they want me to give away my rights, yet I have been providing and am able to care for my daughter

2006-10-26 16:16:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-26 16:11:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've been merried for a bit more than 8 years, we have gone thru so much, you guys wouldnt belive i belive he is my soulmate.
what can be so powerful to break a marriage, after so long and so many things they have been thru, were they in love to begin with?

2006-10-26 16:09:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have remarried and im now a stepdad to a 15y/o boy and a 7y/o girl. i do my best to treat them like my own(i have a 10yo son)but i cant.whenever im with them i yell at them i call them stupid,ugly,retarded and any other mean word tht i can think of at tht moment.i feel very bad about this.last month i walked in on my stepson crying and have since seen cuts on his wrist.even though their mom truely makes me happy i have been considering a divorce just for the sake of her children. should i go through with it?

2006-10-26 15:58:49 · 37 answers · asked by Simply Me 5

hubby cheated and has since moved in with his gf he is 42 she is 21 they are together 6-7 months now no guilt or remorse on his part for what he has done to me.......in fact he is hurtful at times....and acts like im a bad mom ..its like he doesnt even know me anymore..........can it be possible that he really loves this girl to the point that he has forgotten all about me and the 24 years we spent together?

2006-10-26 15:51:57 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

To add on in a way to another question I have posted, with another question, As I said in my previous posting I let my daughter go to Washington before my divorce was final, now that the divorce is final and I have sole custody how can I make them send her back. I am willing to pay for the ticket, but if she won't come on her on can I legally make her.

2006-10-26 15:44:43 · 6 answers · asked by ms_attitude 1

I just spent time explaining to my ex how much he hurt me when he had an affair and left me for another woman AND how concerned I am that he is moving in with this woman AND introducing her to our son who is eight. He acknowledges this fact and we both agree that we have to establish a civil relationship for our son's sake - which I agree to. Then he sends me an email joke about a man who is having an affair and his wife finds out! How would you feel? Is he deliberately trying to hurt me or is he just clueless?

2006-10-26 15:42:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been thinking of doing this through an online ordination. It would be wonderful to officiate over weddings and I don't want to preach, but I just wondered if people would have a problem with a female preacher officiating. What do you think?

2006-10-26 15:42:04 · 7 answers · asked by createdorjustcrap? 2

2006-10-26 15:38:53 · 26 answers · asked by lalala 1

My husband said I was a brat today and it was the last straw b/c I told him that he shouldn't eat potato chips in the den without a plate because he leaves these chip pieces everywhere that I have to clean up. I know a wife shouldn't be bossy like that but its near that time of the month for me and I have been taking care of a sick baby. He told me that Monday he is going to take me and the baby to the doctors and get me put on anti-depressants like Zoloft or Prozac to balance my hormones and make me less of a brat. He said he was also going to give me some supplements from GNC that will make me more docile and increase my sexual drive so that I will be begging him for sex. I wish he wouldn't make me do this because if he wants me to obey him or beg I will. My mom taught me to always obey my husband. I wish he could see that women just have hormonal changes sometimes and we can't help it. If he tells me to take them I will, but i am just worried it might harm my body. ?

2006-10-26 15:32:51 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just wondering what my dating options are. I truly am short, fat, ugly and stupid. I have a beautiful wife, but she betrayed me 10 years ago and I don't take that from anyone. She could replace me in a heartbeat, but insists she loves me and kisses my read all day long every day and has since I found out what happened four years ago. The problem is, I don't care what her excuse is and I want OUT of this horrible nightmare. But, I am short, fat, ugly and STUPID. So what are my chances? Go ahead, give it to me....

2006-10-26 15:25:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I could'nt get through for your ?, but here's my answer 2 your question; for a happy marriage or relationship is:
* Express your love in little ways every day.
* Make time for one another.
*Take time out before speaking in anger.
*Leave past mistakes in the past.
*laugh together.
* And remember, Love grows best with time and care........I've been happily married for 6 wonderful years, and we are looking forward to spending the rest of our life together. :)

2006-10-26 14:48:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

does ur activator looks anything like u?? i think they are just so darn cute

2006-10-26 14:35:22 · 11 answers · asked by can u ♥ moi? 4

2006-10-26 14:28:25 · 16 answers · asked by Adinna 1

2006-10-26 14:26:54 · 3 answers · asked by Brian J 1

2006-10-26 14:25:24 · 8 answers · asked by Mky 1

we've been separated about 5 and a half months.would this be wise or will it only cause problems? we still talk and still care about each other(i still have feelings for him,but don't need a relationship with him right now)what to do?

2006-10-26 14:19:17 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Getting ready for my divorce to be finale and I wonder if there are any single christian men out there anymore I was married to a unbeliever for so long, well 15 years and I am still in my early 30's I just dont hear about them. And if so how do I meet them I am not ready for anything I just want friends, really just friends to talk to..maybe that believe the same as I do.

2006-10-26 14:18:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My x husband and I have been apart for 17 years, I just recently got my divorce. I was awarded sole custody of our 17 year old daughter. She was in my custody and ran away had a child, CPS took custody of her child because of drug abuse, I couldn't take custody of her child because of my job. Her father and his fiancee who live in seperate households took baby Daniel. And my daughter wanted to go up there. I bought her a ticket, she has been down there for a month and a half, now remember I have sole custody, she is staying with her Dad's fiancee, this woman went and filed for welfare, and now they are trying to make me pay child support. Can the welfare dept. legally make me do this?

2006-10-26 14:12:43 · 16 answers · asked by ms_attitude 1

2006-10-26 14:08:41 · 6 answers · asked by smooth 1

2006-10-26 14:07:45 · 14 answers · asked by Fartbuster 4

My husband of almost 10 yrs. does this and doesn't see anything wrong with it. Obviously, he wasn't always like this towards me. I'm an educated person and know that this is not the way to treat others / be treated. He has started calling me names (idiot, etc). What to do?

2006-10-26 14:07:45 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

.... now she has started to physically hit me when she reads my questions... is this abuse?

2006-10-26 13:57:06 · 19 answers · asked by Peace 2

please share, I feel like I could use all the help I could get.

2006-10-26 13:55:49 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

I wanna get marry but im only 24 and im getting over my ex of 4 years ..when will i ever be over him so i can find someone that i can be with..my ex was a cheater but i still cant move on i feel like my life is at a still

2006-10-26 13:53:50 · 9 answers · asked by can u ♥ moi? 4