2006-10-26 16:27:28 · 11 answers · asked by thejoker 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's wrong as long as you're married. You need to divorce him if he's abusive to you. Having an excuse does not make it right. Go get some therapy and get things straightened out with you first.
2006-10-26 16:30:01 · answer #1 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not mind if a lady flirts with me. If your husband is abusive toward you, then you should not have to put up with that either.
I hope your husband goes to the doctor and explains that to him or her, because it may be anger management. The doctor prescribed medication to me, and it really works.
Be careful flirting back especially if your husband is the jealous and abusive type.
I wish you the best of luck.
2006-10-26 23:31:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's just flirting, you're husband needs to get over it and stop being insecure. There is no excuse for being metally abusive in any case. If either of you aren't happy, leave. Life is too short to waste not being happy.
2006-10-26 23:32:10 · answer #3 · answered by sporksaregreat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, your husband is mean to you....your uneducated. So go ahead and cheat on him. Are you serious? Are you looking for a green light here? Spend more time working on your marriage or ending the marriage. Why bring some other poor bastard into this hell you're in.......?
2006-10-26 23:33:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should clarify your question... It sounds as though you are asking two questions here, "Is it wrong that someone is flirting with you" and "Is it wrong that your husband is mentally abusive"...
2006-10-26 23:30:05 · answer #5 · answered by missapparition 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HUH???? Yes, your hubby shouldn't be mentally abusing you. That is something that you need to seek counseling for. Sometimes flirting is innocent, but if you feel that it could lead you to break your marriage vows, you need to stop it! That means no cyber hanky panky or emotional affairs.
2006-10-26 23:29:43 · answer #6 · answered by The Nag 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's finding it offensive that another man would flirt with his wife, but the fact that he's being mentaly abusive is VERY wrong.
2006-10-26 23:36:48 · answer #7 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hon. this fellow is a player and wanting to add your name to his book men are like that and dont let him degrade you . this you will have to live with the rest of your life and you can bet he has buddies who he will tell every thing to them in detail . and married this makes you look even worse . in my opion ?
2006-10-26 23:33:05 · answer #8 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not wrong to seek positive feedback even if it is from another man. Your guy treats you wrong so do what is good for your mind and your heart.
2006-10-26 23:30:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it is Ok if someone flirts with you...Now the question is, how do you react?...Are you flirting back or not?
2006-10-26 23:30:21 · answer #10 · answered by alandicho 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋