I wanna get marry but im only 24 and im getting over my ex of 4 years ..when will i ever be over him so i can find someone that i can be with..my ex was a cheater but i still cant move on i feel like my life is at a still
2006-10-26 13:53:50 · 9 answers · asked by can u ♥ moi? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do you really want to get over him? You're scared to move on. Who misses pain and anguish? You sound as if you want to marry him. Grow up! I can't offer you sympathy...when you play house you pay rent on the bitter and the sweet...and you want to get married? Establish a relationship with God...he'll see you through.
2006-10-26 15:23:46 · answer #1 · answered by No shame, No game 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I heard that it takes something like 2 months per year together to get over someone. But whether or not that's true, doesn't really matter... you just have to realize that your still young and I'm sure beautiful and full of life and love to share and you deserve so much more. You will find someone who loves you and who would never hurt you.. who would cherish you the way you should be. Best thing is to just go out with your friends - go to new places and talk to everyone who chats it up with you. Do the speed dating thing, the on-line dating sites, everything. Dont give any guy the cold shoulder based on looks because you dont know what your Mr Right will look like. But at the same time, dont waste your time on anyone you dont think is worth while. A good guideline to go by is after a 20 min conversation if it didn't go well or if you aren't interested in more.. let him go. Once you meet someone build the relationship off of trust (since that was the big thing your last relationship lacked). Trust and honesty is everything.
2006-10-26 21:37:37 · answer #2 · answered by !?!?! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all have this unrealistic view about love yet it's not our fault. We spend over half our lives searching for something that we never find. Nothing is perfect yet we search for that perfect man, love, and life. Don't get me wrong love is wonderful, at times. But as you already know it can be very painful especially with someone who cheats. Your young and you just got out of a bad relationship, why not stay single for awhile? Besides the more you search for something the harder it's going to be to find. When the time is right and your not even looking is when you'll find what you really want,; someone that deserves you. Keep your chin up.
2006-10-26 21:23:03 · answer #3 · answered by MedicineWoman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you will get over your ex obviously you loved him and that wont ever go away your feelingsd you had for him,you can see other guys but your relationships wont be the same not for a very long time because you have alot of feelings inside of you,the best thing you can do is be friends with your ex and start talking to him again as friends then you will find more happiness in the relationships you do find along the way to finding your husbund
2006-10-26 21:11:24 · answer #4 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that this is just about the deepest, worst pain to get over, and I'm really sorry you have to go through it. The only answer is time. And, be very, very kind to yourself. Remember to pamper yourself and eat well, exercise when you can and even take vitamins. I hate to sound like a doctor but don't let your sadness jeopardize your health.
It will hurt less in time, and when you meet the right one you will know. Improve your chances of meeting the right one by keeping busy, socializing, volunteering, or getting a night job. (I did that - it helped a lot).
Don't forget, be good to yourself.
2006-10-26 22:00:51 · answer #5 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so if u just broke up with him and u still cant get over it why do u wanna get married right now?? i dont get it. u need time, and u need to find someone first. u young so dont rush, u will find someone who will deserves you....
2006-10-26 21:16:43 · answer #6 · answered by Ashlee_Hbiba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Which 1 win? you should go for winning side.
- Do you feels when he's cheating, your love become HATE?
can't forgive him?
Ans: Divorce him and he's not worth you still think of him. Find a better 1.
- Do you feels when he's cheating, your love can forgive him if he's confess to you by won't do that again?
Ans: Ask him to confess to you and not do it again. Your love still on him.
*IF he's still cheating on you, It's not worth for waiting for HIM. Find a better 1.
2006-10-26 21:58:28 · answer #7 · answered by peter71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you still need to find your husband. Wait until the time is right...
2006-10-26 20:56:25 · answer #8 · answered by ksgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to start dating other guys and keeo your sekf busy for you will not think about your ex. don't be waisting your time with that loser. here my email address if you need someone to talk to. efrain78223@yahoo.com
2006-10-26 21:03:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋