He decided to cross genders? He chopped off his "manhood" and took hormones... wanted to become a woman?
What if you couldn't leave him because you deeply love and care about this person,
Would it be ok to "cheat" for sexual companionship and gratification?
2006-10-26 02:38:55 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Weird! If he chopped it off then what is a girl suppose to do? By changing his gender he cheated everyone out of the guy that use to be in their life.
2006-10-26 02:46:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I do not think it would be okay to cheat for sexual companionship or gratification, you say you can't leave because you love and care for him deeply if the feeling was mutual he would have taken your feelings into consideration before he went about crossing genders.
2006-10-26 02:46:12 · answer #2 · answered by razzyrascal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it would not be ok to go out and look for sexual companionship. If he's all ready chopped it off. Then definately get a divorce. You married him as a man, but divorce him as a woman. You can definately remain friends. GOOD friends if you choose. Question for you now tho... Are there children involved? If yes or no, divorce is still the best choise for YOU!
2006-10-26 02:45:35 · answer #3 · answered by MarineMom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's changing genders and you don't agree with it, then divorce him. You say you deeply love and care about the person then you wouldn't cheat on them. NO it's not okay to cheat for sexual companionship and gratification. Get a divorce and have all the fun you want after that, but do not put your partner through that.
2006-10-26 02:41:04 · answer #4 · answered by dazedandconfused 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No it wouldnt be ok, u need 2 divorce him & find a real man! and something is wrong with u 4 wanting 2 stay married 2 a cross-dresser. Obviously he wasnt thinking about u when he decided 2 do a selfish thing like that, so its time 4 u 2 move on and find a man who will unselfishly take care of your needs and expect the same in return!
2006-10-26 02:43:09 · answer #5 · answered by Joslyn M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce him! Move out then if you want once he's a hand made wantta' be women move in and call him/her your room mate. Why humilate yourself. Go on with your life he is and has no love of any kind for you, if he had he wouldn't be doing what he is.
Go to co-dependence clases, divorce him, life is way too short! You can always be friends with him but this is just so unfair to you and your life he's holding you back from a life you could have! Oh, Later will you then be considered a lesbeian? and you are o.k. with that even though you aren't getting any sex yet he is.... Save yourself!
2006-10-26 02:57:28 · answer #6 · answered by sophia_of_light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never cheat!!!
He's been honest with you and you need to return that honesty. Communication is the key. Maybe you two have a marrige of convenience. many folks seem to have that today!!! Please speak with him about your feelings. After his decision, I'm sure he will understand you wanting to take on a companion/lover. It may all work out for the best if you talk to him.
Divorce is also an option. You would be justified in any divorce court.
Good Luck
2006-10-26 02:49:21 · answer #7 · answered by Wife~and~Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not cheating if you are open and honest with each other. Obviously you have a deep and caring friendship. You need to talk to each other about what you each want/need sexually and want from each other in this relationship now. If you want to be together but need physical satisfaction elsewhere your partner should be aware of it. Otherwise there is no reason to stay together if you can't be open about everything.
2006-10-26 03:10:03 · answer #8 · answered by Sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kinda know where you're comin from... but really think about it... you may want to cheat now but try to image how guilty you'd feel if you actually went through with it.... I've been there, I haven't ever cheated but at times I've really wanted to cheat... Sometimes you just want to feel a connection with someone, especially because after being married to someone for a while, the connection you two once had, sometimes can fade away, as in my case....
2006-10-26 02:52:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For God's sake, NO!!! I wish people would stop looking for any reason they can find to cheat on somebody. It is never okay to do this, I don't care what freaking gender they are!! Do you just sit around all day and think of excuses? For heavens sake, do the poor man a favor and divorce him.
2006-10-26 02:42:55 · answer #10 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋