2006-10-26 17:11:05 · 37 answers · asked by Paul S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes she should. Often times she will end up being in the mood anyway once they get started. But I also think the husband should reciprocate the favor if he isn't in the mood and she is.
2006-10-26 17:28:38 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 8⤊ 1⤋
How about this....what if the husband isn't in the mood and the wife is? Hopefully he will be more than willing to take one for the team as well. But if she isn't guess what. No one has to have sex. Even when they are married. If your wife won't take it for the team there is always Rosie and her four friends and their best bud KY. Also keep in mind that there can be a reason for her mood. Be a man and realize that sometimes little willy might not be able to play on any given day in the cave of delight. Find another outlet for your friskiness.
2006-10-26 17:25:59 · answer #2 · answered by mshellrosie 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
That is a person's personal decision. Some would go along with it when they are not it the mood and others will not. If your wife has chosen to wait until you can both enjoy it, respect her decision. Apparently she thinks it is best for your relationship if you share equally in the give and take aspect of this part of your relationship. It doesn't mean she doesn't care about your needs. Maybe you should find out why she's not in the mood. Maybe it's something you can help her with. Then you can both get what you want.
2006-10-26 17:53:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely! This is a no brain-er. But then it goes both ways. But if there is a regular problem here, it could be that she needs foreplay: husband to wash the dishes, take out the garbage without being asked, help the kids with the homework, flowers for no reason, taken out to dinner, completion of the home improvement project, clothes picked up around the house - you get the idea. If she gets all of the above, and is well rested, you won't be able to keep her off of you - guaranteed.
2006-10-26 18:46:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband tries to give me this garbage often; the fact is you have to be sharp. A woman can get turned on fast if you know the right things to do and say. It may not work the first time because she will wonder if you are being genuine, which your not but you need her to think you are.... First say that’s alright, I just miss spending time with you (thoughtfully now, learn to play the game-it's probably more challenging than any game you have played, but much more rewarding). Give her a good warm hug to make her feel at ease after her long day (no matter how mundane you think it has been for her), ask her if she would like you make her a cup of tea or what ever she normally drinks, talk with her a bit about her (her day, work,.....don't fix it just listen, it's how women vent), then kiss her with that passionate-tender kiss, not the lets get down and dirty kiss, that says I love you, then even possibly say it. Then act like you are going to bed or off to do something. If you don't get sex that night... you will by the next day. Learn how to play her. I am a woman and I know if you talk to any woman, every one of them can be played. We women sit there and dream of how a man can just say the right things and we melt. Now not every woman is the same, you just have to figure out how your woman melts. If you think I'm just full of it then let me give you a thought to ponder, why do you imagine women leave their hard working husbands who have given them a home and a family for some man who has nothing? He knows the right words to say to make her melt, even if they are a load of crap. If he can make her believe that he means it, even if she can't believe it, he really means it.....it will turn her on.
2006-10-26 17:37:28 · answer #5 · answered by faith 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Men are frequently led to believe that they will have sex on demand 24/7/365 once they marry.
Hmmm, I wonder who feeds them that line of BS. Once they are married, though, they soon find out it's just a fairy tale, and sexual activity often decreases.
This can happen for any number of reasons. Some are the wife's doing, some the husband's, some rest on both partners.
Overall though, women really dislike having sex when they are not in the mood, and men can't understand this because we are always in the mood.
Talk to your wife. Find out what gets her in the mood. Do those things more often, and you'll usually get more tail. Good luck buddy!
2006-10-26 17:33:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 3⤋
My answer is: If her good husband took the time out of his busy schedule, then a wife should occassionlly "take one for the team." One, Two Three, or Four players. The answer is how big is the team and who cares about her mood?
2006-10-26 17:19:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Wouldn't you rather make love to your wife knowingly that she was completley into it? Rather than
"TAKING ONE FOR THE TEAM"? I think that's very insensitive of you to even ask, I think that if you expect your wife to lay with you even on her worst nights, you are a very uncaring husband with no morals..
2006-10-26 17:56:20 · answer #8 · answered by ~* Pink Princess *~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. A good husband will get her in the mood soon enough.
2006-10-26 17:12:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Once in a while, as long as it works both ways and you show your appreciation in some small way.
The more you give ---- time, compliments, help around the house, putting up with her family etc..... the more you get !
2006-10-26 18:34:56 · answer #10 · answered by Cameron in OZ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋