2006-10-26 16:54:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well the catch to life is....it is what you make it. if you arent content with YOUR life, you must do what it takes to make a positive change. noone can make you happier than yourself. if you are with someone & you feel unhappy with them, you have got to communicate with them and let them know, if you have already told them, you must let them know that you are going to take the initiative to make life happier and you need for them to do the same..sometimes if you have already tried to make happy with who you're with and it doesnt work, you must ask yourself if you'd be happier without them. LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO BE MISERABLE
2006-10-26 17:05:07 · answer #1 · answered by huneygrl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go camping or something or take a walk and think about what you really want and what truly makes you happy. Once you have some general idea pursue it (as long as it's a positive thing), maybe as a hobby or if it's not too late a way of life.
2006-10-26 16:57:59 · answer #2 · answered by buenanser 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I still at times don't feel contended with my life. so then I try to break out of my box do different things I learned to paint murals .
You could go to school and take classes
take up square dancing
get in a book club
Join a women's or men's group at a church
2006-10-26 17:05:12 · answer #3 · answered by dianehaggart 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must first find who you are and what you want. This is not as easy as it may seem. One can not just change over night, it takes time and hard work; a journey into your heart will find the answer you seek. Good luck!
2006-10-26 17:00:24 · answer #4 · answered by lifescircle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do now, so I am trying to change it. Really what else can I do. I am going to work hardard towards my career and also do more things for others and not worry so much about today.
2006-10-26 16:55:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something to impress yourself like go back to school, or become involved in helping others and their problems. self esteem and purpose I think come from doing good, worth wile things.
2006-10-26 16:58:44 · answer #6 · answered by Cafra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a look at what makes you happy and focus on that. try to stop any behaviour that you know will make you unhappy. it is your life - only you can make yourself happy.
2006-10-26 17:47:37 · answer #7 · answered by zander 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I vote for Carmie to get ALL of the points on this question!That's EXACTLY RIGHT!,life is what you make it..........
2006-10-26 17:06:01 · answer #8 · answered by gibbyguys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a firm believer in this....
Your life is what you make it.....if you aren't content... make yourself content... Only you can do this, no one can do it for you.
GOOD LUCK
2006-10-26 17:03:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't just sit there. Change it.
2006-10-26 16:56:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋