i broke up with this guy to many times in 4 years ok becouse of very good reasons. Why do his freinds beleive him over me? they have not even heard my side at all.. he also black lists me in town when i dump him the ppl will look down on me why is that???
2006-10-26 17:04:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
SOMETIME WHEN YOU BREAK UP WITH SOME ONE THERE
FEELING BECOME MORE THEN ANYTHING, HIS PRIDE
IS HURT SO HE HAS TO SAVE FACE BY BAD MOUTHING
YOU. AND THAT NOT GOOD. BUT ALL YOU CAN DO
IS HOLD YOUR HEAD UP HIGH AND MOVE ON. BECAUSE
YOU WILL NEVER GET ANY TO LISTEN TO YOUR SIDE
OF THE STORY. HONESTLY GIRLFRIEND. I WOULD NOT'
CARE WHAT ANY ONE SAID. YOU KNOW THE TRUTH SO
THE HELL WITH THEM.
2006-10-26 17:09:04 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they all feel that when the going got tough, you got going, repeatedly! What made you go back to him just as many times as you dumped him. Maybe you ARE the problem? Getting repeatedly dumped by you has probably bruised his ego, ALOT! I always felt that shen you truly care about someone, you hang in there and work through it when things get tough. They probably see it the same way. And, no I am not a woman hater last the last answer you recieved. I am a woman, just with a more compassionate sense of view than your own.
2006-10-27 09:51:45 · answer #2 · answered by firefly2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kinda along the same lines as blood is thicker than water. If one of your girlfriends told you about exactly the same scenario, from her point of view, would you take her word over her ex's? Maybe this guy you keep dating is telling people crap to make himself look like the victim. Unfortunatly, for some weirdo reason, people are taking whatever he has said, and take that as an account of what happened between you guys. I hope that you have moved on though, he sounds like bad news. Don't take it all to heart though. Friends come and go. Your not a bad person. Just try to be happy with yourself, and carry on with life. Best of luck
2006-10-27 00:11:25 · answer #3 · answered by exaluva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said it right there, HIS friends side with him, they are HIS friends, not yours, thats what friendship is.
blacklisting?
i live in a city where i have never run into my ex or any of her friends or the places that they may hang out at, if you live in a small town then it may be different, i don't know, but its pretty dumb to dump the guy SO MANY TIMES and still wind up with him
2006-10-27 00:26:01 · answer #4 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your boyfriend is giving wrong information why you two broke up to his friends... Like you were the reason why ruin the relationship or you cheated on him...etc... I am sure you got my point. Just ignore it and move on! Broke up with him many times in 4 years is enough reason for you to move on!
2006-10-27 00:08:45 · answer #5 · answered by sunflower222 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well his friends would normally take his side. He probably changes the story around to make you look like a horrible horrible person. This guy is no good and he doesn't treat you right. Forget him and good luck!
2006-10-27 00:06:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ofcourse they're going to take his side over you because you can't tell yourself that it's really over and let him know all the reasons why you broke up with hin in the first place and the second, and the third and the fourth. you can't make up your mind if you really want him or not. he doesn't like the fact that you can't do something as simple as this and have to keep breaking his heart over and over again.
2006-10-27 00:10:27 · answer #7 · answered by sugar n' spice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
his friends side with him,
because that's their commitment
guys look out for guys.
its the way it should be.
would you want him appealing to
your female friends and turning them
against you??
as far as the black list, i mean, cmon -
do you live in a village with a population of 18?
if this guys an a-hole, you know the routine
"it's not you, it's me"
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to the people leaving comments:
use some discretion before
engaging into feminist,
"guys-are-nazis" attack mode.
This question has exaggeration
written all over it.
2006-10-27 00:06:27 · answer #8 · answered by oracle 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's a control freak and he's trying to make your life miserable so you'll go back to him. I'd say if you have to move to get away from the freak.
2006-10-27 00:06:29 · answer #9 · answered by Alessa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His friends believe him out of loyalty to him. My question is, why do u keep going back to him in the first place?
2006-10-27 00:33:50 · answer #10 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋