2006-10-26 16:30:10 · 27 answers · asked by Jayn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Okay, this might sound funny, but it worked. I said Okay I'll let you do it only - IF you let me put a cucumber up you at the same time. Never asked again.
2006-10-26 16:31:52 · answer #1 · answered by docie555@yahoo.com 5 · 16⤊ 3⤋
one possible way is to tell him that one nite you are going to ask a friend to come over for a threesome, that will get his attention. Then when the nite rolls around the three of you hit the sheets.[ Little does he know you have a plan you made with your friend about this anal sex gig] You excuse yourself from the threesome for a moment to freshen up. In the bathroom is a toy you picked out earlier in the day just for this occassion[a stiff buckle on penis] you put it on and discreetly walk back into the room and don~t let your husband see what you have on, at some point during this get togrther he will be on top of your friend and that`s when you let him have it, you`re stiff buckle on penis right in .his anal, step back and watch for his reaction, who knows what it will be, but it won`t be forgotten soon, don`t let on the threesome was planned for that reason, we all hope and your friend is a trusted friend[or else] when all this is done ,remember you let him have a threesome, that`s in your favor,The next time you have sex and you will, he mite give the anal sex thing a thought.
2006-10-26 18:46:19 · answer #2 · answered by miranda1 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
They like it back there so much because it is so tight . If you want him to stop start doing vaginal excercises to get your self in shape there and learn to use that muscle so you can squeeze him when you are having sex. Get creative. And if none of that works then get him a boyfriend since he likes *** so much. You could also let him know that by doing it back there all the time that he is stretching out your anal muscles and when you are older you could end up not being able to hold it when you have to go to the bathroom. THat is a true fact too in case you didnt know. He is also at risk of getting urinary problems since back there is where all kinds of germs are at. Or too get one of those fake penises and tell him to let you do it up his butt so he can experience how it feels. Then again that might not be a good idea because you would be in trouble if he decided that he liked it. learn to get creative doing it the normal way so he will lose interest in back there.
2006-10-26 16:39:37 · answer #3 · answered by hersheynrey 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Your best bet is to just let him know that it's just not something your into. No matter if he is your husband or not does not give him the right to force the issue on you. On a personal note. I thought anal sex was very painful. I just hand issues to where I couldn't relax enough. I had a really good friend though who told me about a particular position that didn't bother her. We tried it and it worked. No pain and actually quite enjoyable. So my husband and I now compromise. He knows that it isn't my preferred position and never forces the issue. I know that he thinks it's extremely kinky and I love being the one to suggest it. It turns him on that much more and makes me feel more in control. just experiment for a bit and see if there is a more comfortable position for you. Good luck
2006-10-26 16:47:57 · answer #4 · answered by mshellrosie 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Ok i just recently broke up with my boyfriend but he always wanted to have anal sex just tell him that you dont feel comfortable doing it because it only brings the pleasure to him and you get stuck not being able to sit down for a long time.Just tell him how you feel about it
2006-10-26 16:43:55 · answer #5 · answered by Princess 1 · 5⤊ 1⤋
If he's like most people, he probable has a routine. Maybe he starts off with one thing, graduates to another...then he starts asking for the nasty-nasty. If that's the case, change it up without him expecting it... take more charge yourself if he's not making the choices you like. And if everyting else fails, just make him get off before he has a chance to take it to the poop shoot. IF that don't work, **** on him like the first guy said
2006-10-26 16:48:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Tell him the answer is no, it will always be no, and to stop f**cking asking. Sometimes you just gotta be mean when they won't take no for an answer. If that doesn't get the point across, I don't know what to tell ya.
2006-10-26 16:43:32 · answer #7 · answered by Slimsmom 6 · 9⤊ 1⤋
Tell him that while you enjoy having anal sex with him, you'd rather have vaginal sex the majority of the time. Just let him know that you two need to compromise here.
2006-10-26 16:35:04 · answer #8 · answered by ixi26c 4 · 2⤊ 3⤋
First of all since he is your husband it is you who should please him as best you can. If he ask give it to him and while you all are doing this let him know your dislike. Moreover, do you realy want him to stop asking or are you wondering if you may like it. I don't believe he is gay, because I am not gay and I love having anal with my wife, and regular sex aswell. Give it a try, you might like it.
2006-10-27 06:37:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 6⤋
Tell him that you really don't want to, and that you find it disrespectful that he keeps asking you for something you've told him NO on over and over.
Or, you can try it and see how it goes.
2006-10-26 16:32:32 · answer #10 · answered by BasketChick 3 · 3⤊ 3⤋