im married , handsome (no clooney bot more emilio esteves ) . i work hard make good money , do most of the cooking , allot of the cleaning , and help with the laundry. i am no slouch in the hay either . i make darn sure she gets hers if you know what i mean wink wink.and give her almost everything that she wants. the ? is why doesn't she appriciate me.
2006-10-26 12:25:50 · 19 answers · asked by pickledaddy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i guess i left out that i am strait forward and to the point and can be a little rugged. but thats juts me and i thought wome liked rugged men . that brings a whole new question.
2006-10-26 12:37:51 · update #1
i am not conceded and i do have a sence of humor i love a good joke and have lots of friends and co- workers that like to be around me because i am fun to be with so they say i try to communicate with her and feel i am personable.
2006-10-26 13:31:47 · update #2
Awww Daddy I am so sorry..... Honestly I would ask her straight up. But I am like that.....
My best guess is that she just doesn't realize all the things you do for her.... she has slipped into taking you for granted...
Talk to her and then let her make it up to you!
Rugged men are SO sexxxxxxxy. She is doubly blessed!
2006-10-26 12:34:15 · answer #1 · answered by princessPixie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe this sounds crazy,but she wants more than what u give her. wink wink. I gotta admit, u do more than my bf.if u do have the guts, just ask her plain straight forward.dont say it in a mean and crucal way. Say with I dont know, but try to be casual about it.It might turn into an arguement though.Im not for sure.Or she just doesnt show her inner feelings for that.But, deep down she does appreciate it.
2006-10-26 12:34:12 · answer #2 · answered by roxysurfer13194 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is bad at showing her appreciation, or she is taking what she has for granted. try talking to her about your feelings. she might be oblivious to this issue. communication is key. if she shows no change in her appreciation or communication about the subject, then perhaps you are with the wrong person. she might just be taking advantage of you. cooking, cleaning, laundry & sex aren't everything... there is interaction between you... laughter, crying, joy, sorrow... playfulness... all these things need to be shared & you should have a connection with these things. so, i hope i helped a little. hey, you do a lot... geez... try just spending some good old fashioned sex-free time with her too.
2006-10-26 12:28:19 · answer #3 · answered by christy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's so much more to relationships than looks, material possessions, housework and orgasms. A lazy guy with no money, that never washes a dish, and is mediocre in looks,... can be the one thats actually more attractive if he shows genuine interest, unconditional affection, knows how to communicate, and makes her laugh.... and those are things you haven't mentioned here..... just an observation.
2006-10-26 12:45:52 · answer #4 · answered by just_me3575 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww honey, I think thats sounds rude, My husband works an I dont and we have a year old son, an I would never let him do any of the house work i feel thats my job... I get alittle mad at him and get on to him for leave his dirty dishes set or not throw away his trash and i thought that was kinda bad of me... Thats crazy if she dont work id start getting on to her alittle... Best of luck ;)
2006-10-26 12:32:27 · answer #5 · answered by ohio_gurl042 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesnt deserve you if she dont appreciate you, theres not alot of men like you in this world... so shes lucky! i say you lay off her needs for a bit and make her WANT to appreciate what youve done before... and then once she starts showing appreciation then make her spoiled again :)
just my 2 cents
kim <3
2006-10-26 12:30:59 · answer #6 · answered by Kim Buns 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
wish my hubby would take lessons from you! don't know why she wouldn't appriciate you. most women would die to have a hubby that helped out that much...an good in the hay too? damn....she is a lucky lady!
2006-10-26 12:30:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard of beimg taken for granted!!! Glad your so happy with your self I sence some bragging
2006-10-26 12:55:29 · answer #8 · answered by Dianna S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do you appriciate her?if yes then she is taking advantage of your kindnest......do what you thing is right....&tell her how you feel....i wish there was more men like that in the world......i will take care of my man if he did half of that .........like they say all the good one are guy or married to some one like your wife...its sad.
2006-10-26 12:38:58 · answer #9 · answered by Jazzy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need that spark again she love you if you help her women like that but maybe there is something wrong you don't see try something new in bed or simply talk like every couple should
2006-10-26 12:37:00 · answer #10 · answered by Best Man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋