2006-10-26 12:42:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Here's the deal:
The important thing is that you show her how much you care about her, right? You want to reflect your feelings with actions, which is what you're going out for in the first place.
So, the more you plan for it to be special, the more special it will be.
Plan out a 'theme' night. Plan out three activites that are somehow related, but at different locations. This will show her, clearly, how special and unforgettable you want this night to be.
For instance:
Italy night.
A gondola ride (you'd be amazed how many of these are out there- see if one exists locally)
dinner at a fine Italian restaurant
a visit to a gallery or a performance by an italian artist
Naturally, you'd have to research this all out fairly throughly to pull it off smoothly, but therein lies the beauty of when a plan comes together.
You could theme:
Places (like Italy, or France, or Japan, or whatever)
Colors (think "Blue")
or whatever.
Be creative, organized, and all that - it'll be effective.
Have fun!
2006-10-26 12:51:57 · answer #1 · answered by wrdsmth495 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I will give you more than 3 that I love.
Open and close the car door on each entry and exit.
Touch the lower part of her back while walking into a restaurant or movie etc..
Hold her hand if your strolling the sidewalk.
Take her somewhere neither of you have been and let it be a surprise. Maybe a picnic, maybe live theatre.
Call her my pretty lady, baby girl, precious, or sweet lady (whatever feels natural to you that you mean) and give her straight on eye contact when you say it.
When you get home go get the lotion and give her a full massage or else massage her feet, then when you go to bed, kiss her, tell her how much you love her and why, then roll her into sleeping position, pat her on the bottom and tell her you love her again, cuddle up close and leave off the sex unless she initiates it.
She will feel totally adored!
Next morning when you get up, pat her on the behind and tell her you love her again with a kiss on the cheek when you walk up behind her.
She is yours for life now!
2006-10-26 12:52:28 · answer #2 · answered by yeller 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kiss her neck in front of the hostess at a resturant, surprise her by booking a FANCY hotel room for the night (no holiday inn), update the reservation to something even more romantic.
2006-10-26 12:58:52 · answer #3 · answered by hiya_munchies18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plan the entire evening from start to finish and not let her worry about anything. If you have children, you should also make the arrangements for childcare.
Take her to a place that you know the both of you will enjoy. Don't rush and take time reconnecting with one another.
2006-10-26 13:24:38 · answer #4 · answered by mommak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all you might want to take her out to a nice restaurant or cook her favorite dinner With candles you know the works. then I'd take her to either a nice hotel or our bedroom with rose pedals and the wine or champagne and then give her a massage like you used to when you 'll first got together and then make love to her like a man in love with his wife is supposed to also talk to her so Sweet that she 'll be giving you the good stuff for weeks to *** oh yeah have a good time
2006-10-26 12:59:41 · answer #5 · answered by makersmark70 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice dinner out.....drive to a secluded area...lay out a blanket and BINGO...! Women love excitement..and some thought..... doing the obvious gets well....obvious and boring...surprise her with something different. When is the last time you had sex in a dark park....or in the car? The bedroom gets really boring sometimes guys.... If you werent thinking sexual...then flowers, a poem, and a massage...
2006-10-26 13:41:16 · answer #6 · answered by Lynne B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cook dinner or if u cant buy some take out from some good restaurant, make table with millions of candels, put red roses everywhere and form the roses leaves(i dont know how do u call them) :-) make a way on the floor from the table to the bedroom and put a lot of them on the bed, or make the way to the bathroom and make her bubble bath with candels, roses and romantic music...
good luck
2006-10-26 12:49:20 · answer #7 · answered by Ashlee_Hbiba 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i love when my husband lights some candles and makes a scene romantic before we make love. we sometimes take bubble baths together too. then we cuddle in front of the fireplace with candles. it is really romantic & perfect! oh, also a single red rose is really nice... perhaps you could give her one right when you come home from work...
just the very thought is romantic....
2006-10-26 12:48:12 · answer #8 · answered by christy 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1. Cook Dinner for her and set the table real nice with Red Roses for Love.If you can't cook, order Chinese food or something and serve it on your best China.
2. Tell her how much you love her.
3. Give her a gift certificate to a nice spa.
2006-10-26 13:36:16 · answer #9 · answered by Tamika G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a gentleman!!Bring home her favorite flowers,open doors for her"even the car door!"Tell her how beautiful she is and how much you love everything she does for you!Let her know how much she means to you,and have nice ADULT a conversation!Most of all HAVE FUN!If you're having fun too that makes it even more special!Talk in her ear"most women love that!Caress her,Wow I could go on and on things that will make her night!Good Luck,and have fun!
2006-10-26 12:54:10 · answer #10 · answered by Sweetheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋