2006-10-26 13:05:11 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hasta la Vista! Can't do it. If he lied to me for 8 months he could lie to me about anything! Ever see "Waiting To Exhale"? Women go through that everyday! And who gets burned in the end? The wife or you? Think about it.....if he can do it to her, he can do it to you.
And please, if this is for real and not just a question, don't fall for that "I was going to tell you about it, I was just finding the right time.....I was never happy with her, I love you, not her.....I'll leave her eventually.........we're just together for the kids....." DON"T FALL FOR IT!
2006-10-26 13:11:44 · answer #1 · answered by KryBaby 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First, it sounds like you have been sleeping with this person, not actually dating. If you were dating, wouldn't you get some clue that the other person was being unfaithful? If you don't actually spend that much time together for the 8 months, then you really don't have anything to be whining about.
The person sounds untrustworthy, dishonest, and rude -- move on. It is better to have found out now than to continue something that won't work out or will only cause drama.
Don't hang onto this relationship either and be a homewrecker.
-EZ
2006-10-26 20:07:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well first that seems like it took you a long time to figure out they was married. Secondly do you want someone you know cheated on their spouse with you seeing how they'll probably cheat on you as well if they haven't already. I mean this person didn't even tell you they were married so who knows what else they're not telling you. Don't fall for your my one and only either since you never have been their one and only seeing how they have a spouse.
2006-10-26 20:21:27 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call their wife and tell on them, lying bastards will do the same to you after she throws him out, gets half his money, he will come to you, ask you to marry him and then cheat on you. Dump him, tell on him so that he may think twice before doing it to someone else and then move on. You know, if the person you are dating is a homeowner, most of the county tax appraisal websites have the spouses name on there, so you can check. If they live in an apartment, too bad. I say these days with HIV, STDs and such, you have to be more than careful, dont take anyones word for it, it is your life that could be at stake.
ok? dont liars piss you off?
2006-10-26 20:08:43 · answer #4 · answered by bud88cynthia 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I would be very upset that I had been deceived, then I'd break up with that person, even if he tried to get me back, I would have to break off the relationship.
You can't have a relationship with someone who is not available, because you would ALWAYS be getting the leftovers, the pieces, the crumbs, the scraps. The sex may be phenomenal, conversation may be stimulating, your heart may be telling you that he is the one, but it's not worth it.
If you're in a relationship like that, get out now, while you can.
2006-10-26 20:28:50 · answer #5 · answered by kellygirlaj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang with dogs you're going to get fleas. Sounds like you both need a flea dip. I would get some for his wife as well, she may not know she has fleas from you two. How could possibly date someone for 8 months and not know that they were married? You need to get your *** out of the air and put your head in the air...............
2006-10-26 20:31:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel betrayed. I dated someone for five months and found that they were married and it isn't a pleasant feeling. I ended it of course, what am i supposed to do with someone else's husband. I want my own husband. One that I can trust and rely on.
2006-10-26 20:16:30 · answer #7 · answered by Bu Tran 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a taken man and he's a liar! Would you want either? Please answer NO...life is too short to be with a cheating liar.... 8 months...wow...look at it as an experience and move on.... revenge of course is by telling his wife but dont bother..he's probably been doing it for years and getting away with it... leave and move on..find a decent guy.
2006-10-26 20:25:03 · answer #8 · answered by Lynne B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would immediately break up with him!!! He cheated on his wife with you, so don't think for a moment that it won't happen to you too. You may not be the only "other" woman in his life. He sounds like a jerk & if you decide to stay with him, it will eventually come to an end, because I know you heard the saying... "God don't like ugly"!!! "What comes around goes around" (Karma)!!! You are so wrong if you stay with him. That's some body else's husband & you wouldn't want the same to happen to you in the future!
2006-10-26 20:20:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell the spouse that their mate had been dating me for 8 months. They should know that their spouse is a cheating snake.
2006-10-26 21:50:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋