I am a big Sara Evans fan and in her messy divorce she is claiming her husband is a porn fiend and he is claiming that she watches/watched it with him. If it is true do you think this is a good thing for a relationship?
2006-10-26 11:17:39 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes i believe that watching porn is very healthy in a marriage.That is if the other partner is into that but as far as sara evans watching porn with her husband he most likely didn't make her do it!! you know everyone likes a little porn in their lives now and then. I know me and my wife love to watch and try to keep up with the things they do lol
2006-10-26 12:47:50 · answer #1 · answered by makersmark70 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-26 12:57:47 · answer #2 · answered by Cathy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! I 100 percent think pornisn't good for marriage or single people...If you can't tell by things you even here someone else heard, or watch the nesw (where perverts are around more than 24/7) then you do need some counciling.
Porn disturbs men and stays in their minds.
I'm not sure if you know about the bodies and the way they work, but there are some so clled horney women out there, and there are us who like to make love or have wild Sex with our spouse, but men think about 80% of the day meaning to or not. It keeps their hormonse alive. It's sa called that Women think with their heads & Men think with both their upper and lower heads.
If Femakes are put in a tempting spot for a possible affair, we pretty much think off all the if's? And possibilities that it would cause if we did cheat on our spouse and then make our good or bad decission. Now men, If they have a female hitting on them strongly (never mind what whe even looks like) it causes sexual arrousment to the man and he begins thinking with his lower head. After there few seconds of their preformance, thays when guilt MAY hit him...But not 10% near like in a female.
They say men watching porn obviously don't get enough arrousment from what he has that he feels he needs assistance.
They say too that that is perverted and all types of perversion leads to all the sickness we have with SEX involved. Men get arroused by young females as it turns them on to be the first one to break a young ladies cherrie, all sorts of sick stuff.
I myslef just do not trustone male on this earth Although I am not about to turn gay, but am going to live a very dried pantie life.
Good luck to you.
2006-10-26 12:32:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the big arguments against sex before marriage and porn is that it makes you compare your spouse to others. This is thought to be bad for relationships because you wont be satisfied.
I think it is a good thing because sex is an important part of marriage and adding porn into it can add a little change in routine and in the end help you be satisfied with your mate because it is change in the monotony.
2006-10-26 11:21:38 · answer #4 · answered by bippidibopiddi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Believe this or not, yes, it can and has helped relationships. Some bigtime newspaper "help" columnists have suggested porno films to aid in marriages and relationships.
Wouldn't it be better for a man and wife to get a porno movie to help them, teach them, something new to put life into their relationships.
A lot of Christian and other religious people will put this down but, what kind of marriages do the have? have they found their happiness in their relationships?
2006-10-26 11:24:09 · answer #5 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your both into it then i think it could be healthy. Your working as a team and if thats what makes the two of you happy then thats fine. If one is going behind the others back then theres a problem! As long as everyone involved knows whats going on then there cant be a problem.
2006-10-26 15:03:32 · answer #6 · answered by *COCO* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like watching porn with my husband i think it brings out the animal inside of him.
2006-10-26 11:46:56 · answer #7 · answered by yolanda323@verizon.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Porn is pretty much a solitary endeavor. And addictive. And people say a lot of things in a divorce. But yeah, sometimes, emphasis on sometimes......it can be fun.
2006-10-26 11:23:24 · answer #8 · answered by no_wait_hes_spartacus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't see what it could possibly hurt. but i guess in their case the porno watching messed up the marriage. maybe it wasn't exactly the porn that did it, but people do need to blame someone or something for their problems. why not blame porno for marriages gone wrong?
2006-10-26 11:20:59 · answer #9 · answered by baybeegrl5 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No i don't think it is a good thing. Do you want your wife to want you for you or because she watch porn and it turn her on. Same goes for you.
2006-10-26 11:39:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋