Marriage & Divorce - 22 August 2006

I just started back talking to the man I fell in love w/ 15 year ago. He is older than me and says he never stopped loving me. I Know I still love him but he is 8 hours away. Should I pick up my kids from an8 year BAD marriage and go to the only one I've ever truly loved? HELP!

2006-08-22 15:26:19 · 8 answers · asked by Pinkie 1

2006-08-22 15:22:19 · 7 answers · asked by raul b 1

My sister just found out her husband of 10 yrs. was having an affair. She is devastated. I found out that her mother-in-law KNEW he was having an affair and actually has some gifts the other woman gave her son put away. If I tell my sister she will lose all faith in man-kind. Her mother-in-law treats her good and has acted like she loves her. I don't know why she would help her son cover an affair (2yr affair). My sister has always been good with her in-laws almost too good. If I don't tell her and she finds out later that I knew the mother-in-law knew and helped she will hate me. My sister and her husband have 2 boys (9yrs twins). My sister is considering marriage therapist to see if her marriage might be saved BUT HOW IF THE MOTHER -IN-LAW stabbed her in the back. Should I tell my sister? The mother -in-law doesn't know that I found the letters , gift ect.she has in her draw and a birthday card the other woman sent the mother-in-law. I currently have the "goods" in my possesion. HELP

2006-08-22 15:21:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband moved away (3 weeks now)... I miss him, and I cant stand feeling lonely.. Im very upset... Dont know how do i explain to him that im not a long distance relationship woman...when i talk to him im getting upset and angry... I need my husband where i am. I cant stop feeling lonely and depressed... what do i do????

2006-08-22 15:21:00 · 7 answers · asked by here I am,,,,, 1

Is it a red flag if you & your b/f were out at the bar & you had a "jealousy fight. (from my side)" You were both beyond drunk & he burst out in tears b/c he didn't want to go through the same issues as he & his ex wife???? Is this an indication of things to come? (B/f is kind of closed off with emotions, but getting better with sharing them. Is this a sign that he has deep rooted issues & he is not over the ex files? Should I cut & run? When confronted, he just said he was very drunk & seemed to explained he feelings better. What would you do?

2006-08-22 15:11:20 · 15 answers · asked by Amanda80 2

My ex lives with her sister and brother in law but her room is not in the same house as my childrens. She does not have the time for them because she is always out at the clubs. My son lives with me now but my 10 yr old daughter wants to as well what should I do. I can support both of them and still live a good life.

2006-08-22 15:10:06 · 23 answers · asked by Jack H 1

When asked, wouldn't you be offended? If you say no does that make you a gold digger????

2006-08-22 15:08:33 · 12 answers · asked by JustJess 2

october will be a year and my husband and i have been facing marital problems for about 2.5 months now. I want to talk and find a solution to our problems, but my husband isn't ready yet. He talks to females daily on his cell phone and online. I beleive that is why he isn't ready to talk and work our problems out. We are still living under the same roof, just not considering us together right now. I need help!

2006-08-22 15:04:07 · 12 answers · asked by mrsbland28 1

2006-08-22 15:03:30 · 3 answers · asked by gian 1

I have a girlfriend and I want to marry her but I know it's not that easy since I have to be financially secured. I decided we get married after 3 more years, that time my brother already graduates from college(I'm supporting him). Is this OK? What do you think willl my gf feel about his?

2006-08-22 14:50:24 · 7 answers · asked by Nevwe 3

My husband is an emotional recluse and I wear my heart on my sleave. I have a hard time talking to him bc it is like talking to a robot. He has told me in the past that it is ok to have other people outside the marriage to turn to when you need something that you can't get in the relationship. Now I took that as any wife would... Good thing I trust him. So this weekend I told him I couldn't talk to him or confide in him and told him I would go outside the relationship to get it. He said ok, like it was nothing. Then I told him that from now on I would get whatever I needed that he couldn't give me from someone else. Should I have said that? He didn't seem to be phased by it though.

2006-08-22 14:49:29 · 15 answers · asked by Missy 1

I have been married for almost a year, I am also 5 months pregnant. I feel as though me and my husband have become so comfortable with eachother that there is no romance. Any ideas or tips on how to rekindle the romace?

2006-08-22 14:48:11 · 4 answers · asked by Desiree S 3

My name is Henry Johnson. Father of 3 beautiful kids, Michelle, Alexus, and Michael. Have a lovely wife named Linda. We've been married when we were both 23. About 22 years ago. My problem is that for the first time in 20 years I've felt as our passion in our love life has simply just went away. I don't know what to do. She said that she doesn't feel sexy anymore and I'm not helping her at all. But with all my valuable time wasted by working, paying bills, I just don't have the time! Well, my question is how can I help my wife feel sexy and put back the flame in our love life without much time wasted? Thank you.
God bless.

2006-08-22 14:47:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-22 14:32:55 · 8 answers · asked by naughty5477 1

I have been living with my bf of 6 yrs, but can not contemplate the tought of marrying yet, and i'm 24. I don't understand why he feels it eventualy necessary to marry. To me it just seems overrated, or maybe I actually am unable to see that he will invest the in things I need from a marriage: love, compromise,respect sacrifice...etc.. Am I wrong for wanting this, or to rather be alone after being together for so long?

2006-08-22 14:28:41 · 9 answers · asked by Pandora de Dosei 1

A co-worker of mine and his wife are about to get a divorce. I feel really bad for them (I know both of them). I told him today that if he wanted to talk, hang out, or go to dinner, or whatever with my husband and I, to give us a call (we both work at the same place with him). Is there anything else we could do to show him that we're thinking of him and help him out? Perhaps people who have been thru a divorce will have some good answers. Thanks.

2006-08-22 14:26:53 · 13 answers · asked by animal_mother 4

and it didnt work out....do you think if i apoligise she`d have me back...its just i don`t want to be homeless

2006-08-22 14:03:52 · 44 answers · asked by toni lee 3

my bf is not very active with the wedding plannig. I'm really mad now because we were supposed to see places this weekend, and something came up and he can't go. I'm contemplating going with my sister, but I feel like this is something we should do together! is this normal? I feel rejected and that he's not interested in the wedding. I really wanted a beautiful wedding, but i'm contemplating eloping or ever getting married at city hall rather than going through this painful ordeal. I wish he cared more.

2006-08-22 14:03:43 · 16 answers · asked by ingrid 2

2006-08-22 13:59:20 · 28 answers · asked by johnnydean86 4

iam a very young man of 35yrs older, iam a truly christian and god fairing, ever since i've tryed to meet a christian woman to love,but so unfutunate that many only are mess, infact how i wish to meet true love

2006-08-22 13:55:37 · 4 answers · asked by j boy 1

Let's say everything was great, what do you like to do? Just stay on the side, huging your partner, smoking, drinking or what?

2006-08-22 13:55:04 · 29 answers · asked by jumalo 5

Does anyone know how long you have to wait to get married after a divorce...IN ILLINIOS!!!!!

2006-08-22 13:54:32 · 5 answers · asked by nikki nicole 2

I finished my RCIA class,baptized Catholic, never confirmed, just rev'd my annulment from prev marriage. Why can't I get confirmed before my husband who is Catholic receives his annulment, Then renew our vows in the church...???

2006-08-22 13:48:49 · 6 answers · asked by avon613@sbcglobal.net 1

im never going to meet her ..she lives on the other side of the world...my wife has just found out and is threatening to leave...i think she should chill out

2006-08-22 13:41:51 · 53 answers · asked by toni lee 3

Can be only one reason or can be a several?

2006-08-22 13:40:39 · 9 answers · asked by jumalo 5

He denies it, says he loves me, yet he constantly is watching other women. I feel insignificant and desrespected. Am I being ridiculous?
I told him most women do NOT like being touched. I don't. I don't appreciate someone touching my cheek or shoulder (it's like a caress). He thinks I'm being overly jealous. Am I? I don't think so.

2006-08-22 13:37:21 · 17 answers · asked by Nancy L 1

She has a part-time job where she deals with the public and I'm afraid she's leading men on by not telling them she's married and not wearing her wedding ring. Men have given her their phone numbers. I don't think she's called any of them yet, but not sure. As her friend, I've told her she's heading down a dangerous path, but she seems to enjoy the attention she's getting and isn't listening to me. What should I do? SHould I just stay out of it?

2006-08-22 13:37:18 · 19 answers · asked by Proof 2

I know, I know is bad and wrong, but this girl was so special in my life and the only reason we never got together was because I cheated on her with my wife, now it's been 2 yrs and she still has feelings for me, and I know that when I see her it'll be a piece of cake to take her to a room. The only thing that keeps me away is GOD but love makes u blind.

2006-08-22 13:34:01 · 19 answers · asked by Shadow 4

I am a single career woman with no kids. I am getting married next month with a wonderful man, who happens to be divorced with 2 children, alimony, child support and an ex who says she doesn't want to work.
I own my house and have some investments. My only concern is to protect the assets from the ex, not from my future hubby.
We are going to have a Prenuptial Agreement. But is this enough? My concern is that the ex will claim she deserves some of the profit from my investments in the future.
Anyone with experience can share their views? Thank you

2006-08-22 13:30:33 · 14 answers · asked by Michelle 1

I went on a three-day bender and told my wife I had to fill in for a sick buddy of mine who's a shrimp boat captain. I told her nobody on board had a cellphone so I was unable to call home. I promised I'd take her out to sea tomorrow

2006-08-22 13:29:42 · 10 answers · asked by I'm that asshole down the st 1