Marriage & Divorce - 22 August 2006

2006-08-22 13:27:34 · 18 answers · asked by PAMELA G 1

I am 28 and have been married for 9 yr. My husband and I have three kids, but sadly I am not happy. For the past 3 yrs my feeling have changed for him. He is not affectionate... he does work long hours.... and he has a drinking problem..... so this combined has made it extremely hard to be close. I do care for him dearly..... but I know that I do not love him how I once did. I do want to seperate but am just scared shitless!! Mainly because of the hurt it will cause our family. I am not sure if he will be able to go thru this or his will he just drink more?? Should I just stay together for the kids?? OR do I walk away now and maybe one day find someone else?? Things have got so bad that when he touches me I feel ill....is it possiable to get over this ???

2006-08-22 13:25:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have no problem going down on her, but she never initiates the return favor. I feel like if I don't "whip it out" when she's half drunk, it'll never happen at all.

2006-08-22 13:16:18 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

when ever we watch a movie and there is any kind of nuditiy she gets pissed and wants to turn it off. she hates porn.will not watch.
she constanly searches though the computer to see if ive looked at any porn.

2006-08-22 13:14:35 · 44 answers · asked by NORCALMIKE1980 1

2006-08-22 13:13:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friends husband just came home from a 6 month deployment in Iraq and says he wants a divorce...out of nowhere. They have been married for 3 years and have no kids. He told her that he is in love with someone else, and no longer wears his wedding ring. She is devastated. What can she do to him, seeing that he is in the military? Isnt there some law against cheating in the military?

2006-08-22 13:11:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-22 13:05:19 · 17 answers · asked by queen 1

Ok some of u may think this is gross! If so dont answer!
I was at a bar with some we were all dancing drinkin haveing a good time! Well, my sisn-n-law dared me and this other friend of our to kiss! We did, she's done it before this was my first, it was pretty cool..lol..Hubby was told about it now he wants to have a 3-some I dont! I would kiss a girl agian but dont want any farther than that!
What should I tell my hubby? I dont want one but should I live out his fantasy or should I say no! What would u all say and do?

2006-08-22 12:52:23 · 31 answers · asked by woohooo 4

My husband of 9 month cheated on me with 2 girls and i was pregnet and lost the baby from the stress. I stayed with him but i can't stop thinking about it or talking about it how can i get past this and move on with our marrige?

2006-08-22 12:45:36 · 44 answers · asked by Shannon 912 1

2006-08-22 12:42:42 · 6 answers · asked by Deanna D 1

how do u tell ur fiancee not to call u a really wierd petname? i dont want to be mean, but he calls me gelli-o-bots. what the hell is that supposed to mean? is that another way to tell me im fat, like jelly ish or something? i weigh 103lbs!

2006-08-22 12:42:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

How often do u think of someone else while having sex or how often do u see someone in public and want to **** them?

2006-08-22 12:36:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married ten years. My husband is a very decent person. But he is not affectionate towards me. I mean we make love. I'ts just always the same all the time. I feel like he don't love me anymore. Is it that he don't love me? Please give me some advice to help me spice it up a bit.

2006-08-22 12:34:48 · 48 answers · asked by wizegirl_70 2

About to try it to see if it will work for my marriage. How long does it take?

2006-08-22 12:33:55 · 10 answers · asked by JIM 1

what are some things you would change about yourself to better your relationship and what are some of the things you wish your mate would change to better your relationship.

2006-08-22 12:31:43 · 6 answers · asked by jj_bao 3

Even though I try everything. I even watch porn movies with him our sex life is great.

2006-08-22 12:28:56 · 27 answers · asked by tabtab 1

I need to know if I would be to forward to tell him I just want to make it all legal????? My friends say that I should and now I just got confused,Any one any ideas on how I might do it,if I do??

2006-08-22 12:23:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am having the hardest time, getting my husband to listen to me! I can even make sure that I have his attention and tell him that it is very important and that I need him to listen, and still he does not hear a word that I say! He has no idea about anything that I say, he does not know my favorite color, my favorite movie, type of music I like, or anything personal like that about me! What would you do? I love my husband and want this relationship to get better! I have asked him what can I do to make him happy and he gets mad, what is a woman suppossed to do in this situation????
I really need some serious answers please! This is coming between us, Please help me!!!!!!!!!!

We have been together for 5 years and I am doing everything I can do to be a good wife and make him happy, but nothing seems to work! Help!!!

2006-08-22 12:11:34 · 23 answers · asked by iLoveDawnDawn 3

can both parents enter a written agreement that child support should stop as long as child is now with other parent? the current primary parent does not want to provide her new income infor now that she is a small business owner--what to do???

2006-08-22 12:06:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-22 11:54:08 · 31 answers · asked by bernice l 4

2006-08-22 11:50:46 · 23 answers · asked by jami p 2

the reason i ask is because their seems 2 be alot of questions on the subject i want to provide a fair and balanced answer, and by the way thanks for answering my other questions it helped alot i found out that it was not the actually person i miss just some qualities he had , well thanks again. latters

2006-08-22 11:45:34 · 7 answers · asked by rachel m 3

After 5 years together, we have started to plan a wedding. My partner says he loves me, but never shows it. I am starting to feel like I am only there because it is routine. I do love him, but don't know if I am in love with him. Is this normal? Help please!

2006-08-22 11:41:52 · 13 answers · asked by carol 2

If my "mate" wants to be with someone else aren't they cheating themselves by staying with me? People change, things change why cheat yourself? If you love something (or someone), set it free. If it's meant to be, it will...if not, "ce la vive"...right?

2006-08-22 11:36:23 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-22 11:36:13 · 4 answers · asked by tropikalgoddess 1

i need a poem for my girl, we're having problems lately and she needs space, but tomorrow is our anniversary and i would like to send her a nice poem

2006-08-22 11:32:01 · 11 answers · asked by tu papi 1

I'm married and I tend to flirt with guys on the internet a lot..then i feel guilty for doing so..is it ok to flirt online or is a bad idea?

2006-08-22 11:31:53 · 28 answers · asked by ? 1

Have you ever Cheated on your Spouse? if yes Why?

2006-08-22 11:31:37 · 33 answers · asked by txdiamonds4ever 2

are you absolutely sure your with the 'right' person? was there a time in your life, where for example you nearly made a mistake by staying with someone else. if so, how did you know? how do i know i'm not making a mistake?

in other words... when did it click that this was right for you?

2006-08-22 11:29:37 · 23 answers · asked by jami p 2

communications class. does it help

2006-08-22 11:24:58 · 2 answers · asked by canibus 2