Marriage & Divorce - 22 August 2006

He works really hard I know but still he very rarley is in the mood to be cudley. And I always am.We've been married a little over a year. Usually if I let it build up too long I will get so mad that I end up yelling at him which Im sure doesn't make him want to cuddle with me (lol) but this really makes me feel bad about myself kinda lonley I guess, and I have talked to him about this many times. Its like he just can't do it, what should I do?

2006-08-22 04:47:46 · 10 answers · asked by JesWood 1

and let her come on the trip with us to Niagara Falls? It's going to suck if we share the room with her. My wife says all I think about is sex, sex, sex. I told her that's ridiculous, I hardly ever think about sex.

2006-08-22 04:46:09 · 45 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

2006-08-22 04:44:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

look she know you slept with a nother woman. and you know that your wife knows,so why cant you just tell her the truth?if your man eough to sleep with another woman other then your wife then you should be man eough to tell her what you know she all ready knows.why cant you tell her why?:

2006-08-22 04:44:13 · 10 answers · asked by lilastevenson42 2

My son has known my husband as his father but does he have more legal rights than his birth father?? His birth father lives only a few monites from the house but wont even see him or speak to him once he sees him.

2006-08-22 04:43:49 · 26 answers · asked by Mz J 2

My lady friend is getting married by end of 2007. But her bf is a citizen of a 3rd world country and she really has no option but to live & stay there with him, and he is not financially stable.
Getting married to him may lead to regrets later coz he is really poor and not that faithful.
What is your advice? Must she remain single (til she finds another man) or take the risk coz she really loves him.
What would you do if you were in that situation?

2006-08-22 04:41:37 · 12 answers · asked by Muffin 4

I was a size 2 now im a 7, My man seems to like the extra weight in the back because now he wants sex from the back and its roughfer than usual ,I miss the love i use to feel during intrcourse will he get use to the new booty and when!!!

2006-08-22 04:40:56 · 31 answers · asked by Cassandra S 1

My wife had an affair a while ago and I guess I'm just trying to understand it all a bit more. What was your deciding factor ? why did you end it ? Did you tell your spouse ? Are you still with your spouse ?

2006-08-22 04:40:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My parents have been married for 25 years. As far as I know their marriage has had some pretty difficult times but they always stick together. Anyway, I knew my dad wasn't too happy and I want him to be happy as he is the best dad ever. I love my mum but I am not happy with how she behaved or maybe still behaves towards him. When I was growing up, I remember when my mum was physically attacking my dad and it left some pretty deep scars inside me. My dad is a pretty sucessful man and I think my mum finds it hard. Anyway, he has tried to leave her as he has met someone else but the whole family stood up against that and he stayed. My dad says that the abuse has stopped but I don't trust my mum. They behave as if nothing is happening when I am around but I am pretty angry about it. I just cannot forget how many times I had to interfere with the scenes at home. But I don't kmow if I have the power to change anything between them? I live abroad but I get upset from time to time about it.

2006-08-22 04:35:11 · 8 answers · asked by violet b 1

Do you think marriage would go smoothly for people who have different character, eventhough the partner is caring person and loving.

2006-08-22 04:34:17 · 7 answers · asked by falqy 3

I was married to a controlling husband for 25 years, we had 5 kids together, I found the courage and divorced him two and half years ago. I have been living with my new partner for two years, he is still married and has 2 younger kids. I feel quilt for my ex, my partner's wife and kids, etc. everyone/thing. It was my partners choice to join me, I never asked him, but feel quilt for coming into his life after 27years. Will I ever stop feeling guilt and responsebility!

2006-08-22 04:34:16 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Family mediation wrote four letters to him asking him to see our daughter - they even offered a drop off point so we didn't have any contact - he responded to them saying it was in the hands of his solicitors but 18 months later I still haven't heard anything. He tells people that I've stopped him seeing his daughter and that I've poisoned her mind (hello she's only 4 and this would hurt her not him). What's a girl to do?

2006-08-22 04:18:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've known him for 16yrs and he is the only person i ever loved. I got a divorce this year after a year of marriage and he got married last year. He doesnt love his wife and his family hate her, they love me. We spent a week together and its like we never broke up everytime we see each other. I know hes my soul mate and he thinks the same. We live in different states because of Katrina but i know its meant for us to be together. I gave him til December to get a divorce. My sister and my coworker said im a homewrecker and i shouldnt make him get a divorce because i got married first. I just got married because i was pressured into it by family members and i never loved the person i married. He had a girlfriend when i was engaged and thats who he married. He dont love her and they dont get alone. Do you think im wrong for wanting him back and should i believe him when he say hes getting a divorce? I cant do anything but thing about him. I truly love him and he loves me.

2006-08-22 04:15:45 · 12 answers · asked by justbeautiful4u 2

snakes belly

2006-08-22 04:14:16 · 7 answers · asked by HEY boo boo 6

2006-08-22 04:13:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 25 years old. I would say I'm thin and attractive yet my husband loves to look at porn. I also try to spice things up but nothing works.

2006-08-22 04:12:25 · 16 answers · asked by lex 2

I am feeling jealous & insecure right now. I need some advice if you think I have a right to feel this way or am I just having a pity party for myself here. I got married to a man I love and adore. He is a recovering alcoholic and has 14 years of sobriety for which I am very proud of him. I did not know him when he drank. I am not an alcoholic. He is very active in AA and I have always supported him in that and I go to some affairs with him and go to see him get his anniversary pins, etc...There are a few women there who call here constantly and ask him for rides and favors and they have lots of problems and he says he must help as it is always one alcoholics duty to help another. This morning one of them called & her problem was she likes to walk around naked and there are construction guys looking in her window and wanted him to put up blinds. I'm getting sick of these needy women and him running to help. Am I being horrible? We have a baby now and I need him too.

2006-08-22 04:09:34 · 38 answers · asked by Kelly 1

We stopped watching "Lost" and my wife and I were wondering. Do you watch the same TV shows as your signifcant other? Mix it up?

2006-08-22 04:07:37 · 11 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

I do not like to go to bars or discos at all. My wife does. A year ago she started going out with two gir friends. They sometimes go out one or twice a week. My wife gets home between 1 and 3 AM.

I found a couple of text messages in her mobile. They came from a guy asking how her day went and the other one asking how was her trip to the cabin. I called back that number but I hung up. Later that night that person called back around 1am twice. I picked up both calls but he hung up. I did not say anything to her. Yesterday we had a discussion and she told me that he had given her # to someone on her way out of a bar. She told me that her two friends were walking faster and this guy at the entrance put a lot of pressure to get his number. She even told me that this guy dialed her # to make sure he had gotten the right #. I just can not accept that someone married gives her # to a stranger. I can not buy that. Do normal married women do that?
I do not trust her anymore.

2006-08-22 04:01:25 · 34 answers · asked by Wondering 1

2006-08-22 04:00:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

What was the longest day ever in your life, i mean you felt it was long and it wasn't going to end?
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2006-08-22 03:58:58 · 15 answers · asked by Clark794 4

My husband started abused me physically recently. Verbal abusing was going on for sometime. I'm high up in the academic ladder & my husband's not. Whatever I say, rubs him the wrong way as he seem to think I'm belittling him as he didn't have a good education. I've never thought of it like that. I've been with him for over 15 yrs before and after marriage. Our arguments are usually related to me helping out my family and his discontentment regding that. I usually become defensive and talk back. I've experienced domestic violence in childhood and I don't want my child to experience the same thing. I'm too humiliated to talk to family as I defied everyone when I got married to my husband. Is it my behavior that causes him to hit me? I live in a foreign country away from relatives. I have no one to talk to. My social status has made it impossible to get outside advice. Should I just walk away from this marriage? Please help!!

2006-08-22 03:58:02 · 36 answers · asked by confused 1

2006-08-22 03:56:17 · 40 answers · asked by lex 2

and had several partners. since then, i have changed my ways and settled down. i think my old ways may have created a sex addiction however. i feel uneasy when I am around pretty girls and I feel like i am constantly craving sex with women. i feel like i am a crack addict. i am scared i am going to do something to destroy my marriage. is there any other way to fix this problem other than professional help? im not sure how my wife would react if i told her this.

2006-08-22 03:51:18 · 18 answers · asked by mark s 1

2006-08-22 03:50:23 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife has decided she no longer wants to have sex with me, which leaves me to alot of stroking to take care of things. Mostly for the ladies, anyone who would like to chat or exchange emails or can give suggestions what to do? I really miss having sex.

2006-08-22 03:46:47 · 76 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my girlfriend. She is 25. I am 32. I want to marry her but I
haven't saved any money. It worries me. When should I marry my girlfriend?

2006-08-22 03:37:38 · 36 answers · asked by skubrick 1

My boyfriend has sent me a message and told me that he hates his job and he is stressed out and he cannot wait to meet me on Thursday. Anyway, I tried to support him but it looks like I said the wrong thing to him as he seems very strange with me? I replied to him and told him that it must be really stressful and that I will look after him when we meet on Thursday and that I want him to know that he is the best boyfriend who I wouldn't change for anybody no matter what his boss thinks. He replid and said thanks but then he said that he would be quite sad if I changed my mind about him based on what his boss thinks of him? I replied to him and said that he completely misunderstood me and that what I meant was that even if his boss does not appreciate him, I do and that I wanted to reassure him even if he does not feel about work, he is my best one and I think of him. and I said that of course my feelings aren't based on what his boss or or whoever at work says.

2006-08-22 03:36:59 · 10 answers · asked by violet b 1

2006-08-22 03:36:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-22 03:33:21 · 5 answers · asked by SG 4