Marriage & Divorce - 22 August 2006

sees me for sex, and I do it with him I think because I want him to love me, but he cant express it to me,. there are other issues concerning medical expenses and some controlling ways he has. should I move on? give up? he says he loves me when I cry and threaten to stop all contact with him. he pays a lot of my bills but does that mean he loves me. he wont tell me 'I love you' unless I say to him 'Do you love me?' then he says ya, i do. do you think I am wanting too much? should I move on? I just want to know if other women would take this kind of crap? I mean I see other couples holding hands hugging and loving each other laughing with each other not at her. I cant feel the love from him. is it because he doesnt love me or what?

2006-08-22 17:35:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am just curious to see what answers I get.

2006-08-22 17:35:37 · 13 answers · asked by ? 2

My wife lost a lot of weight and was getting more attentionfrom men. Back in May she met some guy and started talking to him on her cell phone ALL the tile.. try over 3000 minutes in June! She kept denying things but over the last few months I found out that: 1 . He lives fairly close, 2. He is a friend of the nextdoor neighbor, 3. She originnally said she was only talking to him however I found out she was meeting him, 4 At first she said shenever kissed him but she finnally told me she kissed him many times. She says ahe hasn't had sex with theguy but with her record of deception I'm sure I find out eventually that they did. Part of me just wants to cheat on her too and another part says divorce her and move on.

2006-08-22 17:33:29 · 16 answers · asked by Pete T 2

I write this while I cry as my husband sleeps in the other room. He is addicted to methadone for pain. He comes home and takes a bath and snoozes in there, eats dinner, and then goes to bed. (around 5:30p.m.) The reason I cry is because I NEVER get to talk to him. I'll try talking to him when he gets home from work but before I can finish a question or statement he falls asleep. I have to say I love you 7 or 8 times in a row. I love him so much. I know he's my true love, but what should I do? I can never talk to him. I stay home and take care of our baby and the house. I have a few friends but damn it I want to talk to myhusband. I miss him so much. I knew it was bad when we got together but it has gotten continually worse. I would work and let him stay at home, but he loves to work and says he cant live if he's not working. (Honestly.) But I guess my questions are: is anyone else in this situatuation and what should I do. Divorce is not an option. Please help. Thank you.

2006-08-22 17:24:19 · 25 answers · asked by queen_lemaster 1

2006-08-22 17:22:31 · 17 answers · asked by MICHAEL W 1

2006-08-22 17:20:41 · 20 answers · asked by loneyprincessultana 1

2006-08-22 17:06:42 · 2 answers · asked by chirokuro 1

do you think that means he doesnt love you or is he just afraid?

2006-08-22 17:06:13 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Since Fathers Day is coming up (3rd September)

2006-08-22 16:51:11 · 13 answers · asked by ♤ 5

Like if a person is in love with another for 5 years but then due to some reason, they couldnt marry. the former love vanishes that easily after being married to another good person?

how will be sex during the new marriage? comfortable?

2006-08-22 16:38:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

To all of you people out there in Yahooland and the rest of the world, who fall in love with someone who says they love you, but they are otherwise engaged with someone else, a piece of advice:

THEY'RE NOT LEAVING THE OTHER PERSON!!!! Stop wasting your life waiting for them. Go out and find someone who is already available, and spend time with that person. Check them out first, to make sure that what they say is the truth; don't be a fool twice. Thank you.

2006-08-22 16:33:43 · 26 answers · asked by kellygirlaj 4

I see the cell phone bills with repeated numbers called each day some at 2 or 3 in the morning. He is the sole provider of our family and works all the time. I explain to him how it is disrespectful for him to continue to talk with other women on a daily basis if he is married. He is the one calling them repeatly. He is not one to communicate where he is going and works late shift hours. We are home with 2 kids and one on the way.. I just do not feel like I can trust him. I feel so helpless because I have nowhere else to go.

2006-08-22 16:33:30 · 24 answers · asked by Scared to Trust 1

My wife whom i love to bits cheated on me about 4 months ago. her reason was that she never thought another man would find her attractive. I tell her how beautiful she is every day. Is that not enough. I know it feels good to be complimented and have someone want to get with you ,but why cheat on the one you are supposed to love forever?

2006-08-22 16:23:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was married at 20 and we have been happily married for 24 years.

2006-08-22 16:23:47 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in love with a very controlling man and I cant live with him also he is very hurtful. I have 2 children with him, we are divoriced and still have a relationship I want to make things work with him but feel it is a lost cause. I sometimes feel he doesnt even love me and sometimes I think he does but doesnt know how to express it or is afraid of expressing it. what to do? I dont want to spend my whole life trying to make him love me and not control me. and the kids. we live apart and probably that is best at least for now.

2006-08-22 16:23:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to go Biking on the bike route with a fellow coworker. I am new to the company. Private life should stay private , my husband says. And he says it is not safe. The bike route is woodsy and secluded probably. I really want to go. What do you guys think?

2006-08-22 16:21:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

If they do, what do they consist of. can they sue for custody of my child if they are threatening to do so?

2006-08-22 16:12:13 · 4 answers · asked by summer h 1

i am 23 yrs old Indian girl. Me a graduate and doing M.B.A. I am working for Youth Council in Canada for Youth Exchange Programme.I have been raped at 7 yrs old by my baby- sitter, i was sexually abused by my dad and mom, my dad used to beat me every day, i am unwanted child as they wanted to abort me but could not as my mom could be in critical state as it was cesarian section and it is illegal too. I was raped by my boy friend and his friend in a car. I am really lonely i just want to marry a guy, but knowing my past no one wants to. A guy in USA wants to marry me , he is coming to canada this week should i marry him, we are net friends and i met him on matrimonial site , he is 36 yrs old guy. and he knows my past, and he is very keen to marry me . V chatted on net for past 2 yrs, he is engaged to a girl in India but he wants to leave her and marry me as he wants to see me happy! I have no one who i can say as my own, and i need love , God helped and i studied, can i marry?

2006-08-22 16:11:37 · 27 answers · asked by isha s 1

What are the signs of your partner cheating? What should be look out for? Is there anyway to prevent it?

2006-08-22 16:10:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-22 16:07:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-22 15:53:54 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been married since April 2005. We just had our first daughter this April. We've been having a lot of problems since the beginning of our marriage. A lot of my issues with him deal with many instinces of lying about things(talking to girls after I'm asleep...many computer issues...). I think if you have to lie about it, you shouldn't do it. He says it's all innocent. I have A LOT of trust issues stemmed from an infidelity towards the beginning of our relationship. I guess because things keep happening, it's not going away and getting worse.

His issue is that I have a low sex drive. He says that I never want to touch him...which isn't true. I will admit to the low sex drive, but I feel like he could try to get me in the mood more. Granted, he was deployed for 7 months, I had the baby and then his WHOLE family came and lived with us for a month in our two bedroom apt. I'm still not comfortable with my body, and I just don't feel sexy yet.

Please help. Save it??

2006-08-22 15:53:13 · 14 answers · asked by sashermer 1

Well, earlier I wrote a question about a problem with my wife and it'll explain why I'm asking this question. Well, my wife just told me that she doesn't feel sexy and wanted anymore because we don't have "IT" anymore and that I don't seduce her.

What can I do? I don't know how to do that anymore!!! Any tips?

2006-08-22 15:42:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married almost 2 years and I totally believe my husband needs volume, he flies off the handle constantly, he always says talk to me but if i do, he gets offensive, i mean this is about anything, its crazy, he is always right and I am always in the wrong, but 5 minutes later he is apologizing, he does not hit me but he has torn things up before, it just freaks me out, and wares me out to no end, for instance i was in a store and i get a call asking where a paper was he needed, i said he is the one that put it up in a folder, he said no he did not and started screaming, then 5 minutes later after i hung up on him he called back and said he was sorry he was wrong he had it, don't get it.

2006-08-22 15:42:17 · 37 answers · asked by jax 1

My married muse from work- hes been watching me for a year- yes I really want him, but he is married-!!!!!-someone at work asked him If he was single and said I was the one who wanted to know--I wondered what would happen-- everyone online said "he is out for sex.., needs an ego boost, etc" and as a married man he won't approach me-- so I stayed cool and have been ignoring him at work-even though my hands shake when he comes anywhere near me-- he hung out on my floor again today watching me-I pretended he wasn't even there---believe me-- If I was reading this I would be wondering what kind of idiot woman is this- but every time I see him- my heart hits the floor--can't explain it ---ughh-- I have stayed away and he is coming around-- Help-I haven't wanted someone like this in years.........

2006-08-22 15:39:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My dog and I live in an appartment building surrounded by plenty of other neighbors.I can not afford the collars and dodads that cost an arm and leg at the pet shops.I have tried distracting him with talking to him,,giveing him treats,,but he still barks at people,,other dogs and cats,,just bark,,bark,,bark.My neighbors have even threatened to kick him in the head and slice his neck.He is my only companion,,and best friend,,what do I do?,,,oh ya,,he is a Beagle/coonhound mix.

2006-08-22 15:32:51 · 6 answers · asked by ladydi_me 2

I left my husband about 3 yrs. ago. He has the car, boat, camper and now my car and washer/dryer. I am so broke I can't afford an attorney. What can I do. I contacted Legal Aid in Oregon, but they have not responded.

2006-08-22 15:31:20 · 8 answers · asked by Maryanne 2

swears he can't remember, he does not know why he said that? what do i do, I can't stop thinking about the conversation.

2006-08-22 15:29:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

pleas I need aromantic answer for her quation

2006-08-22 15:29:26 · 31 answers · asked by s a 1

I have a friend outside of my current relationship of 5 years...nothing sexual...just good conversation...we talk about everything and i like to talk to him....

2006-08-22 15:27:30 · 13 answers · asked by Lady 1