do you think that means he doesnt love you or is he just afraid?
2006-08-22 17:06:13 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't think it necessarily means he doesn't love you. Some guys or girls for that matter, just aren't comfortable expressing it. But that doesn't mean you should just deal with it. If it bothers you and you'd rather be with someone that expresses his love verbally, then you have every right to find another man. This is the time to figure out what you want.
2006-08-22 18:41:40 · answer #1 · answered by gurugirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could mean neither or both of the choices you have given. People can be complex and it is possible that you have developed a relationship with a man who does love you but thinks he is only suppose to show it if you ask. It sound like you need to have a heart to heart talk with the man you are discussing in the question. Understand that you might not get the answer you are expecting - but in the end you will get something that is better than you wildest dreams. You need to talk to this man and hear what he has to say.
2006-08-23 00:09:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the word love is used to much. It soon becomes a habit. We can love someone without telling them all the time. Maybe he feels this way. When we use that term to lose then it can become to the other person not to mean anything
2006-08-23 00:08:54 · answer #3 · answered by Krinta 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK so your not married and how short of a tI'me have you been going out. So you've had sex and you know that doesn't equal love. Sex is mostly just a physical thing to us men. So hen you invest more time and he feels he does love you he will tell you in his time other wise your just a sex buddy.
Sorry to be Blunt and im not trying to be cold just stating several possibilities.
Signed Tim
2006-08-23 00:38:17 · answer #4 · answered by ssshoebox67 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could mean many things. It depends on the guy. I myself am transparent so if i love someone they know about it.
In general though I would not be comfortable with someone who does not mutual express their love for me.
Is it a given that he does not love you, no. He may be more reserved about such things or believe it to be an unspoken truth that does often need to be affirmed. It's hard to tell.
Try not to project and go with your intuition on this one.
2006-08-23 00:11:33 · answer #5 · answered by Love of Truth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First ask him if he loves you, if he answers and it is not the answer you were expecting, then start seeing someone else. I am married 18 years. My husband stopped telling me and I told him how it makes a woman feel. He now tells me.
2006-08-23 00:11:48 · answer #6 · answered by Lore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends. If he grew up with rarely hearing the phrase I love you, then he may just follow that pattern. On the other hand he may not love you but does not know how to tell you.
2006-08-23 00:09:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say he might be afraid to truly tell his true feelings. Do not force him to do it either because then it would not be his true expression of love.
2006-08-23 00:08:57 · answer #8 · answered by de_dark_angel71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just needs to be told before he tells your first... maybe after while he will start telling you first i know that my husband is the same way and now he tells me all the time... i love when he tells me first it makes me feel like he really loves me and i don't have to tell him all the time...
2006-08-23 00:21:17 · answer #9 · answered by ilovechris!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might not say it but does he show it and I don't mean in the bedroom their are 6 different ways people show love....
2006-08-23 00:08:19 · answer #10 · answered by lol_des 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋