Marriage & Divorce - 22 August 2006

recently i was discussing to my wife about my idea to visit a nude resort/beach for a change. she was hesitatant initailly as this was new to her. subsequently i made my close friend (who is a regular visitor to this beach) tell her about his experiences and she agreed. but she says she is shy to strip for the first time with others around. how do i remove her anziety (and dress finally) and make her brave to visit the resort and stay on in birthday suit. pls help me with some ideas

2006-08-22 07:54:56 · 15 answers · asked by orangeman 2

I currently have custody of our 3 daughters. Well, my ex was ordered to pay child support. And she has only paid like $200. She is not holding a job but has remarried since our divorce a year ago. Now she is trying to get full custody of our daughters. She filed an emergancy change in custody through the courts. Allof the things that she placed in the EC of C is bogus stuff. I know the only reason as to why she is doing this is so she doesn't want to pay me the child support and I have been persuing this actively in court. My question is how likely is it that the judge may rule in her favor? I have heard that once custody is set that it is near impossible to change it. Is this true?

2006-08-22 07:54:38 · 31 answers · asked by sdo3lg 4

think of other men while with hubby/pleasing selves?

2006-08-22 07:54:36 · 22 answers · asked by whudda 1

info has been sent and is hurting many people. want to know if we can track and find out the source.

2006-08-22 07:46:57 · 8 answers · asked by ann n 1

ok so we were friends. he was younger to me, i was married, he used to listen to me and was sensitive to my problems. my husband didnt like it though i used to explain to my husband that we are friends and later on he was fine. one day he said he is getting married and he wont be talking to me and i cried..he weaned away from me and finally he deleted me(he said he went away bec there were problems)and he had joked abt sex wtih me so i called him a player and he said u used me as emotional dumpyard. and we had terrible fight with abuses etc. we stopped talking for one year. he returned after an year and apologized. but he returned only when he knew that i was very angry and he got scared that i might screw him. he came explaining hsi scenario. he never wanted to be my friend but he said he cared. and care should be built step by step. right now i m trying to remove the bitterness.

2006-08-22 07:39:09 · 11 answers · asked by dsnmstis 1

last year me and my husband divorced. the child and i were very close even though she is my step daugter. the mom allowed me to continue my relationship with her and during that time she and i also got kind of close. my husband and i have reconciled and i tried to continue my relationship with his ex. she lives a very fast paced lifestyle and i began to see things that made me concerned for her well being as well as the childs. when i tryed to talk to her about it she said i was a backstabber and now does everything in her power to downgrade me. i am afraid that this rivarly will lead to hurting the child and causing problems the older she gets. i have the child the majority of the time this was arranged through the court. and the mom constantly picks fights and tells me to quit trying to take her place. that is not what i am trying to do. i am simply looking out for the childs best intrest. she tells the child that the rules her dad and i have are stupid.i want to end this war.

2006-08-22 07:37:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-22 07:32:48 · 14 answers · asked by abena r 1

flirt online? How far do you go? Do you tell your hubby?

2006-08-22 07:30:08 · 24 answers · asked by whudda 1

Any wives or girlfriends who spank theis significant other??

2006-08-22 07:29:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 25.5 years old. I have been with my wife (dating and marriage) for 5 years.

We planned to wait another year before trying to conceive, but I want to start sooner.

I see babies everywhere and I get happy at thinking of becoming a dad one day.

My friends have children and I spend time with playing with them and I go home thinking about how lucky and happy they are to have children.

If I see babies I get this feeling in my stomach like I need to be a dad soon.

Hopefully my first child will be born before I turn 27.

Is this normal for a man?

2006-08-22 07:28:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like missionary only!

2006-08-22 07:25:44 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

She goes by Tosin and will tell you she is an accountant for Optimum Limited Nigeria ... She will try to get you to wire her money through Western Union for cell phones, etc. and passport agengy fees to come visit you. She is actually part of a small group or is working for herself trying to get you to open up bank accounts (Wells Fargo and Bank of America in the US) to have money for her employer to deposit it into and then you wire it immediately to her...This is Fraud and carries prison time if you get caught. She sends you pics of a beautiful black woman and says she wants to marry to get out of Nigeria (hopefully a white man because see has seen how they treat their wives). Don't fall into her trap, the money you send her up front you will not see again, she won't use it for what she tells you it is for. When you ask her about coming to visit her instead she id very oppositional about it. When you ask her about buying her tickets, it can only be done in Nigeria, its the law there

2006-08-22 07:15:43 · 5 answers · asked by The Truth 1

2006-08-22 07:15:23 · 13 answers · asked by reda_mahgowb 1

She was nice and trim whaen we were first married and now she is a total heffer. I can't even think of having sex with her the way she is. I don't mind fat people, she is a nice person but my god, ahe is so fat. Should I just come out and tell her or make small sugestions about loosing 200 lbs?

2006-08-22 07:15:19 · 31 answers · asked by Joe H 1

My wife says there's no frickin' way it'll fit into the disposal. I'd like to try it just for grins. My wife says she'll divorce me, she's lying, right?

2006-08-22 07:15:09 · 14 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

Whenever I suggest making a change in the daily (changes in diet, amount of television) I always feel like the boss that comes out of the air conditioned office to tell the shop workers that "We" have to work harder. Please note I do not see parenting as a Boss/Laborer thing. I am just using this as an example of someone wanting changes that the other person will have to carry out.

2006-08-22 07:14:14 · 4 answers · asked by butnozzle 2

We have not lived together for two years. However, there was no legal separation or divorce? Can I contest a new will?

2006-08-22 07:12:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-22 07:08:39 · 4 answers · asked by cheesygees 1

or maybe you are happy in the present,and MAKE none

2006-08-22 07:08:29 · 14 answers · asked by har 3

Why is it, or is it normal that after being married for almost half a year, that I dont get excited as much about sex than I use to or I think about someone else sometimes?

2006-08-22 07:05:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have always kept my mouth shut and never interfered with my husband and his ex-wife. They have two boys 16 and 17. The oldest is almost 18 he has a band and we go to watch him play. Every single time we go to a place she is going to be she comes up whispers to my husband and comes between us or she will sit on the other side of him for a few minuets. She was married in July and she is still doing it. She never speaks to me unless she wants me to take the youngest some where. She has even gone as far as coming here to our home and excusing me from my own back yard to speak with my husband by saying could you excuse us for a bit I need to speak with him. She sat in our back yard for 2 hours with him. I was just miffed about this. Then come to find out she only wanted to talk about the past with him. She has not done that in a long time but she sent a emails for them to meet soon about Collage for the oldest and that is ok. What do I do to get the point across to her enough is enough

2006-08-22 06:59:01 · 22 answers · asked by Kristine B 2

I am 21 and i think I am ready to get married. I love my boyfriend(well now fiance). but i am afraid to do the wrong thing. am i rushing? im afraid i will miss out on something else. help

2006-08-22 06:51:41 · 56 answers · asked by adnama_n_werd 3

my husband says I never give him space. I work 40 hrs a week. He studies for computer animation(his passion). I ask him to spend quality time w/ me but he says he needs to study. He laughs and talks on the phone w/everyone else but me. He says he lives with me, I'm different. I love him dearly. But he says I'm a needy person! And his totally opposite!

2006-08-22 06:45:44 · 20 answers · asked by yosweetnessv 1

I am looking for a simple, 2 tier wedding cake with red and white roses for the topper. Have you seen one, if so, I need to see a pic. Please and thanks!

2006-08-22 06:42:01 · 5 answers · asked by amberbrowneyedgirl 2

2006-08-22 06:38:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband told me two weeks ago he wanted to be by his self because he didn't love me anymore.he now lives with his mom,me with mine.he has started calling and coming over quite a bit but we having talked about a reconcilliation.i dont know what hes thinking help...................................

2006-08-22 06:36:42 · 26 answers · asked by babyblues 2

I am Canadian living in Saudi Arabia. I am 16 years old (last year in high school) , i have a 13 year old brother, an 8 year old sister and a devestated mom! I just found out that my "honest,polite,every1 wants him to be there dad,fun" dad has been cheating on my mom for sometime now. My Mom has ABSOULETLY NO CLUE what to do! niehter do i? she keeps asking my opinion!
Divorce? - but my borther and sister are too young to live without a father!
Accept it? - how can she look at him? how can i look at him?

I need him the most right now, this is my last year and im going to graduate in 8months.. i need someone to pay for my university in canada. we need someone to pay for the house...

what do i do! please help!! im desperate... i only thought these things happen on Jerry Springer...

2006-08-22 06:31:02 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-22 06:29:36 · 7 answers · asked by witsend115 1

Why was it unhealthy? How long did you stay? Did you leave? Why?

2006-08-22 06:27:00 · 13 answers · asked by plenymo 2

My friend met this woman (21 years old) and married her after knowing her for 9 months.

A month after their wedding she said it was a mistake and she was never in love with him.

It has been a year and a half since they married and they both are miserable.

A month ago she sat him down and told him she wanted a divorce.

This week my friend confessed to his wife that he thought about cheating on her and she admitted to kissing another guy.

Now out of the blue he says she is happy, and they are all lovey-dovey and she says she is so happy.

He said she must have had a change of heart because they told each other the truth.

I was happy for him, but I thought it was really weird.

How do you go from unhappy for over a year and wanting a divorce to acting like everything is perfect?

2006-08-22 06:21:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous