My friend met this woman (21 years old) and married her after knowing her for 9 months.
A month after their wedding she said it was a mistake and she was never in love with him.
It has been a year and a half since they married and they both are miserable.
A month ago she sat him down and told him she wanted a divorce.
This week my friend confessed to his wife that he thought about cheating on her and she admitted to kissing another guy.
Now out of the blue he says she is happy, and they are all lovey-dovey and she says she is so happy.
He said she must have had a change of heart because they told each other the truth.
I was happy for him, but I thought it was really weird.
How do you go from unhappy for over a year and wanting a divorce to acting like everything is perfect?
2006-08-22 06:21:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, they don't have an agreement to cheat.
They are "religious" so they are not like that. They don't really follow their beliefs like they say though.
2006-08-22 06:30:28 · update #1
Well perhaps they solved the conflict,in that case you should be happy for them,instead of being so negative,what buisness of yours is it?
2006-08-22 06:29:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not real sure how situations like that turn around. Typically, I've found they re-surface in short order though.
Really only they know what turned it around. they may have taken each other for granted and, based on their conversation/confession with each other decided not to any longer. There are a thousand possibilities.
If they are happy now I wouldn't give it much thought.
2006-08-22 13:40:10 · answer #2 · answered by intheholycity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't belive what he is telling you. I think she still wants the devorse but dosn't know how to go about it and may be scard. He probley dosn't want to hear it. Once thoughts kinda feelings are in a relation ship they don't just disaper.....
2006-08-22 13:32:35 · answer #3 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe they realized they need to put more effort in and really work on things. Maybe they realized they do love each other and they want it to work out. Maybe they had a long talk and decided they were better off together and believed in each other.
Or, there's a huge amount of lies and denial going on.
2006-08-22 13:29:59 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unless approached.........and even so ..........others relationships are to complicated to involve yourself in...........be there when your friend needs you but always caution yourself on what you say about the other person......just because they are or have had problems doesn't mean they want to hear the truth from someone else
2006-08-22 13:53:27 · answer #5 · answered by skschmidt75 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they were able to confess their no-no's of what they thought of doing in your friend's case and what his wife actually did. the thought of being w/out each other might have brought the sparks back into their marriage....but something tells me that might not last for very long.
2006-08-22 13:31:51 · answer #6 · answered by Ruth R 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They might have an agreement about being allowed to cheat or something like that.
2006-08-22 13:29:06 · answer #7 · answered by graygirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well it is difficult to understand, after they said all that to each other...but hopefully it will work out for them....i guess time will tell about that too...i guess just want the best for them and do not worry about it yourself
2006-08-22 13:37:12 · answer #8 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let them go ahead with each other,marriage is full of ups and downs.
2006-08-22 13:31:08 · answer #9 · answered by sunday y 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it won't last just be there for your friend as he will need you in the near future.
2006-08-22 13:29:56 · answer #10 · answered by longfellow j 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋