advice to my wife?

Question

recently i was discussing to my wife about my idea to visit a nude resort/beach for a change. she was hesitatant initailly as this was new to her. subsequently i made my close friend (who is a regular visitor to this beach) tell her about his experiences and she agreed. but she says she is shy to strip for the first time with others around. how do i remove her anziety (and dress finally) and make her brave to visit the resort and stay on in birthday suit. pls help me with some ideas

Answer 1

I am amazed that people actually do this! You DO EXIST!

Answer 2

I don't think everyone at nudist beaches/resorts is always nude, some people are more comfortable remaining in their skivvies. I wouldn't want to go to a nudist resort/beach, but if I were being asked to and were stupid enough to agree to it, I sure as heck wouldn't appreciate being coerced into doing more than I was comfortable with doing. If she feels shy about stripping with other people around, respect that decision. She may just need to get used to the idea, or she may not get used to it at all. I know I wouldn't. Nor would I want to see a bunch of other nude people either...........eeeeeeeeeewwwwwwwwwww!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 3

I live in Europe, and here people do this type of thing all the time. Down the street from my apartment there is a lake that has a nudist section. They don't even care that it is right next to the 'none' nudist section, and that little kids roller-blade and bike right next to it! Anyway, here every beach is topless anyway.
Personally, I'm from the US, so had a hard time with this, but this year i had a baby, and nursed her at the pool and beach.
Think when your wife sees 'everyone is doing it', the clothes will come off!
Naked can be fun! Be one with nature!

Answer 4

I personally don't think you should, if she is uncomfortable with the idea then you kind of suck for trying to get her to do it anyway. How would you like it if she insisted you did things that made you uncomfortable? Its a selfish and crappy way to treat someone if you ask me and I'd be letting you know it if I was her. Besides don't you understand how this could backfire on you? Suppose she likes being naked in front of other people after all, suppose many people pay attention to her and she likes that...you could end up losing big time here.

Answer 5

First off, most nudist resorts understand a first timers timidness and do not require them to be nude. It is almost always, clothing optional. Start her off that way and when she gets around other people, she will se how natural it is and maybe start to shed some of her clothes. WARNING: nudist resorts are NOT peep shows, if that is why you are going, then don't bother.

Answer 6

If she isn't down with that dont try and force the issue.

what is it about the nude beach that you like? You realize most of the people that do that are around 50 yrs old right?

Answer 7

If she is willing to go, don't force her to strip. Once she sees that everyone is in the buff and no one is laughing at anyone she will probably do it. So just go, do your thing and let her get there when she's ready.

Answer 8

Maybe she would feel more comfortable, at first, going without a shirt. The rest can come off later.

Answer 9

Step one: Get her to the resort.

Step two: Wait and see if she joins in.

Step three: If she does not want to, don't force the issue.

Step four: Love her for her.

Answer 10

There wouldn't be anything you could say to get me to do it. I wouldn't pressure her. WHy do you want your wife naked in front of a beach full of gawkers? Don't tell me they aren't looking, if they are not, why be naked?

Answer 11

Please don't force her if she isn't ready. She may never be ready and if you try to force her, she will think you want to go to see other people and aren't interested in her. This could destroy your relationship! Don't force her to go, no matter how strongly you feel about it!