2006-08-22 04:00:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well... I am Catholic, and my ex-husband was baptized but is an atheist at heart. Talking openly to you, he accept my decision of marrying virgin, for example, but he was harsh to me on honey moon for not being able to satisfy him on bed as he expected, and often mentioned his previous wife pre-marriage experiences as being a big advantage on her favor. So I ask: has he really ever accept my choice?? Sometimes he would tell me 'past chapters' of his life that would shock me quite a bit too. We have never had children, but if we had, then I guess the problems would really come!!! I guess that dialogue is the key. And if you say you accept the differences, really DO accept them. They are not to be used for ammunition against your partner later, nor for ironies, let alone for you demanding for things you know your partner wont be able to give you (like my husband marrying a virgin and demanding for expert skills). WIth respect, everything is possible!
2006-08-22 04:13:17 · answer #1 · answered by Graça 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is. Let's face it......ANYTHING can destroy a marriage if it is that important to one or both partners. Decide on these issues before your marriage begins. I'm sorry, but the cliche"love conquers all" isn't realistic or true. It's a good beginning, but it's not the cure for everything in a relationship. People going in the same direction, with the same goals, with the same values.......that is what keeps a relationship on the right path.
2006-08-22 04:10:34 · answer #2 · answered by paintgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I from deaf world my wife from hearing world and I believe god and Jesus but don't go to church my wife is chrisain and believe in god and jesus too. Ummm, I don't see anything that could enough to destroy marriage. smiling.
we only people that last long any any deaf and hearing marriage couple... I have so many of them said Not good idea to marry deaf and hearing better deaf to deaf and hearing to hearing. Not true. it to learn about commucation, trust, caring, giver, etc. and there so much to it.
so I don't see anything might happen. when I got married my wife and all deaf and hearing made the bets that we will not last long no more than 2 years. now it been 9 years and guess what those people who made bets that are married to hearing and deaf.. didn't last long. They saw me and my wife and 2 kids now they have alot respect for my family...... they asked me if you guys ever fight or anything...I told them yes that is true and we do have good days and bad days but we talk about it and get over it. moved on... If i made mistake my wife tells me this "you learn your mistakes and now you won't do it again" she wasn't mad or anything. wow.
other thing my wife tells me that her life and trust and everything already in my hand and I accpect that and married her. still in my hand and making sure it last long forever and I do believe it happen. smiling.
2006-08-22 04:58:46 · answer #3 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shouldnt, everyone has the right to believe what they want. When you marry its for better or worse and you should exept the person you love and not let religion come between that love. Share your ideas and beliefs and dont push your ideas and beliefs on each other. Think of it as learning more than you knew before and embrace it.
2006-08-22 04:10:27 · answer #4 · answered by arreis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for sure. Marriage is tuff enuf without religious, cultural, racial etc. differences. The more you have in common, the more likely your marriage will succeed, and visa versa.
2006-08-22 04:12:55 · answer #5 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It certainly can be. Although if both of you are strong enough to allow the other room for the difference.
2006-08-22 04:12:46 · answer #6 · answered by Madeamove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
religious differences could-- cultural-- most likely no
2006-08-22 04:08:56 · answer #7 · answered by Mrsashko 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋