I am a frustrated horny male looking for suggestions?

Question

My wife has decided she no longer wants to have sex with me, which leaves me to alot of stroking to take care of things. Mostly for the ladies, anyone who would like to chat or exchange emails or can give suggestions what to do? I really miss having sex.

Answer 1

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Answer 2

Is this a marriage for better or worse, in sickness and health, until death do us part? You would be better served to really do some relationship therapy and find out why your wife does not want sex with you. Love will come and go. Sex changes between people.

There are only a few reasons that a woman will not want to have sex with her husband. She may not feel good about herself (emotional problems or stress) and that will diminish her sex drive. She may have physical issues (infection or your lack of skill), find out if you take enough time to warm her up properly. Finally she may be having an affair. An affair is the only reason you may get out of the relationship. If you do anything else you reduce your honor.

I am shocked at all of the people that simply said give up, quit take your balls and go home. That is the problem with society today, where is the commitment to this person. What if she doubts your love and is testing you now? She is going about it in a shabby fashion, but you stepping out because you are horny is lame. Take a stand and try to save the relationship first. It is important.

Answer 3

try to sweep her off of her feet and make that fire burn within her again. You probably aren't arousing her anymore and you have to find new ways to do that. Not all women want sex. We want compassion and understanding and we definitely want 4 play before just going at it. You have to meet all of those areas or you won't see results... Good luck to you.

PS. I am so sickened to see all of these people telling you to leave your wife and go have an affair. You are married. You both married because of the love and joy that you once experienced in each others arms. For better or for worse. Find a way to make it work and for goodness sake don't do anything that you will regret. Stay the heck away from porn sites because they will just make you feel even emptier inside after a while. Anyone that spends time on porn sites all day is either addicted or looking for something to fill an empty void. Find a way to communicate with your wife and bring the love and lust for one another back into your marriage. It is possible I promise you.

Answer 4

Well if you'd like to just chat than thats cool, you could email me, but if your looking for more, sorry i can't help you. My suggestions would be to first find out why she doesn't want to have sex w/you anymore, counseling and if nothing else helps, then i guess separation leading to divorce. No matter what other people think, sex is a VERY important part of a relationship. It's not the most important but it's right up there. Don't cheat on her, be the better man. If she's cheating then get rid of her. She's not worth keeping.Good Luck.

Answer 5

Okay this is so sad because you are going to just rollover and let her comtrol your sex? Hello? Aren't you a man? If you wear the pants then prove it. Tell her that when you said your vows and consimmated your marriage it was for a reason to have and to hold till death do you part.There is two reasons why your wife willnot have sex with you- first one of you cheated or is cheating or second she feels that for some reason you guys have a problem and that needs to be fixed. If you love your wife find out what the problem is and try to fix it together or else seek counseling. Now if you are some sick weirdo just trying to get IM and free chat sex you are an idiot!

Answer 6

For whatever reason some women can take or leave sex. This sometime happens when a newborn baby comes or as we get older, past 50. Women need to know that men always want sex and if you deny them they will eventually find it elsewhere. A good wife keeps her man satisfied, even if she isn't interested he'll never know. She'll still have desire and be sensual and sexy and will remain his fantasy but we are so busy into ourselves and what we want or don't want that this is not considered.
Or it could be that she has someone else, ask her.

Answer 7

Well, since you did not supply the reason she is holding out we will assume it is your attitude. Yes, I can see how anyone would miss having sex, but to cheat whether physically or emotionally is a really bad idea. Get out of one relationship before starting another. Is there a reason you want to stay with her, but cheat on her? Do you feel justified in the spiteful activities you are pursuing?
What can you do? Find out why, if you don't already know. Then start making amends. If she is stressed, help with the work. If she doesn't feel attractive (whether due to your pursuit of other women or whatever) then make her feel attractive with compliments and throughful gestures.
If you really feel the need to be spiteful, then masturbate in front of her while talking dirty in a manner that makes it clear you are fantacising that she is the one touching you. Though negativity usually only generates more negativity!

Good luck.

Answer 8

Did she just come out and say she doesnt want sex or does it seem that way cause she doesnt want to very often?
A lot of times when women dont want to have sex it is becuase they are not happy with something. And they may not tell you what it is you'll have to figure it out. Or they may have told you and you werent paying attention.
Try and romance her. Complement her more. My best friends problem is her husband says jerky things, which is just how he is. But it really leaves her turned off 99.99% of the time. So try and have a day of nothing but nice as if you just met her. Then spread that to a week of it. And you should work her down unless the is just really not in it anymore. At which rate you should consider seperation.

Answer 9

Dude!!!! I would tell you to get a hold of yourself, but I guess you are already doing that. If you are missing having sex, go tell your old lady that unless she scr-ws you, you will be forced to take it to the streets. Do you know what a divorce is? Did you know if a person won't have sex with you, is grounds for a divorce. That is mental cruelty! Go as straight as you can to the nearest whore house and spend all the money you got on a whore. She will get tired of you spending all the money and either leave or see the light one. Good luck man!

Answer 10

First off, sex isn't everything, but I think you have a serious problem, if you haven't already, set your wife down and talk to her, ask her whats going on, and see what she says. It's hard for anyone to give you advice and suggest that your wife is cheating when no one but you knows the whole situation, I suggest you talk to her, there may be something physically or mentally going on with her and she's to ashamed to tell you.

Answer 11

ONE WORD...
Castration!
SECOND WORD...
Orchiectomy !

IF you cannot give her a break then your marriage is heading fro trouble.
Some women do not need sex all the time, as it SEEMS men do!
IF you follow people's advice , to look on MYSPACE, or whatever idiotic advice they give, you will head for BIG TROUBLE.

There is a difference between her not wanting it for a while or a long time, maybe you are just more perverted than she wants.
You probably BOINKED her once too many times, and that can get OLD FAST!

If you feel she is not fulfilling her wifely duties you have grounds for divorce, and should go that route, if you plan on playing around on line and seeking females for play, why stay married?


It is disturbing to me that so many men are this way, all they think about is sex, 24-7 ALL YEAR LONG!
Give it a BREAK...

Here is a thought, TALK to her about what reasons she has about NOT wanting sex, is it YOU?
Is she sick of it for NOW? or all together?
My EX wanted it all the time too...
and then it got so disturbing to me I actually got SICK during inner course!
I would be like a dead body!
I hated it and HIM!
It turned from lovemaking to sick perverted things to RAPE!
THAT is why he is my EX.
You sound like you are headed there too!