look she know you slept with a nother woman. and you know that your wife knows,so why cant you just tell her the truth?if your man eough to sleep with another woman other then your wife then you should be man eough to tell her what you know she all ready knows.why cant you tell her why?:
2006-08-22 04:44:13 · 10 answers · asked by lilastevenson42 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not at all to justify his actions, but perhaps he slept with the other woman to feel accepted. If he tells his wife outright, he will outright hear her rejection. Some folks have a real fear of rejection and do irrational things to feel accepted.
2006-08-22 05:27:41 · answer #1 · answered by Ann B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Integrity is the answer.
Honesty is always the best policy. Typically those with poor self esteem, concept, & image are the deceptive ones. They're afraid that people will see them for whom they really are.
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2006-08-22 04:52:33 · answer #2 · answered by Rob N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because men are cowards when it comes to fessing up and most of the times they dont know why they cheated.They want there wife but want a fling on the side.You can ask them till hell freezes over why they did it they will never know except that they thought with the wrong head.
2006-08-22 04:52:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't think cheating on ur wife makes u a man, but if u get caught yes u should man-up & tell her. the trust has already been broken, just b COMPLETELY honesty with her about everything.
2006-08-22 05:26:54 · answer #4 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because u r afraid of her reaction. you see, some secrets dont need to be told if it happened long time ago and u know it could ruin your relationship. if u love your wife, dont do it again. ask GOD for forgiveness. but u see, if your wife really loves you, she can or will forgive you.
2006-08-22 04:55:55 · answer #5 · answered by Camilla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are all gutless. They have them when they cheat but afterwards it all goes away. I truley beleive that men are incapable of being truthful.
2006-08-22 05:27:36 · answer #6 · answered by why?? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because "you can't handle the truth".. i always loved that line but its really true, i don't really think you want the truth cause you already have that little bit of doubt in your mind already
2006-08-22 04:54:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
to begin with, cheating on your wife is not being a man enough, period.
2006-08-22 04:53:30 · answer #8 · answered by Inquirer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not man enough, I would if I did it but I haven't
2006-08-22 04:52:19 · answer #9 · answered by EL Big Ed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and amit they have done something wrong?...
2006-08-22 05:04:34 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋