2006-08-22 04:13:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Nope. My hubby & I divorced when my middle son was only a couple months old. Now I am engaged & he's with a great girl. We get along wonderfully now and are able to be one big happy family. Now our kids have 2 moms, 2 dads, & new siblings. Divorce was the right thing to do.
2006-08-22 04:33:32 · answer #1 · answered by orionsgirl76 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been divorced for 5 years now. My kids were 4 and 3 at the time of the divorce. Fortunately I had good friends around to help me through that time. But, I will never regret that divorce. That divorce was one of the best things to happen to me. If you have faith, and believe in yourself, you can do it, and make sure your kids are healthy and happy even after the divorce.
2006-08-22 04:20:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been divorced now for 6 years. My children's ages range from 9 to 15. I remarried 2 1/2 years ago. I couldn't be happier. My kids are doing well and have adjusted to the 'lifestyle' of a divorced parents. My ex-wife is bitter about this and would probably say just the opposite.. but then again.. she's fat, ugly, can't get a date much less a bf or husband.
So I guess it really depends upon who you ask. Oh... btw... I filed for divorce..there were no extra maritial affairs, no cheating of any kind and no drug or alchohal abuse. I just got tired of being unhappy and having my kids live that unhappy life.
Hope this helps!
2006-08-22 04:24:55 · answer #3 · answered by wrkey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in an unhappy mariage, it is better for everyone, especially the children to divorce sooner than later. I think it's easier for kids the younger they are because they adjust quicker and depending on how young they are it will seem as if life was always this way ( mom and dad not together). When they are teens, they are so crazy anyway that divorce really throws them for a loop. Good luck.
2006-08-22 06:16:37 · answer #4 · answered by justme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I do not.
You have to look at from both sides. Whats worse? Being in a family that is unhappy which effects the children or going through the divorce pain. Of course in a perfect world no one would get divorced and parents would stay together forever but let me know when you find the perfect world. In my case it was worse for my son to see his parents fighting and arguing. Yes, I am sure he wishes both his parents were in the home 24/7 but he will realize as he gets older what was better for him. he is 9 and very happy with me. It was a better decision in the long run though we did go through some rough times. Who knows, you may get divorced and remarry a wonderful person, then your kid(s) may have the pleasure of having wonderful separate parents and step ones as well.......double Christmas!
gmc19832001: Hey, same boat here!
2006-08-22 04:25:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't regret the divorce itself (best thing I ever did) but I do regret seeing the pain it caused the children. They are older now and understand why the divorce happened but at the time they were both so confused.
2006-08-22 04:21:24 · answer #6 · answered by bonjovigroupie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i regret i didn't divorce him sooner - i lost 10 years of my life staying with an abusive man because of young kids - now one kid is in therapy & the other refuses to see her father at all. don't stay together because of the kids - it will screw them up ultimately. i wish i were 10 years younger rite now!
2006-08-22 04:21:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't divorced but my parents divorced when I was older and I knew they hadn't liked each other in some time and that affected me. I wish they had done it sooner rather than later.
2006-08-22 04:20:41 · answer #8 · answered by Emily N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was not married legally but we both together long enough that it made quite an impact on our children when we seperated. Do i regret it? No because now my children are happier because they do not feel the stress that we parents cause them when we are constently fighting.
2006-08-22 04:21:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on the situation like i still love my ex husband and we have children , i was missing him lately then i started thinking i an just missing certian things about him and thinking of old times but i don't want to be w/ him again , it didn't work out but we can be friends and stuff so like i say it depends on ur situation. just think about it a minute, hey i had to ask the main questions on my name but i figured it out u will too
2006-08-22 04:24:00 · answer #10 · answered by rachel m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋