the reason i ask is because their seems 2 be alot of questions on the subject i want to provide a fair and balanced answer, and by the way thanks for answering my other questions it helped alot i found out that it was not the actually person i miss just some qualities he had , well thanks again. latters
2006-08-22 11:45:34 · 7 answers · asked by rachel m 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
with the life experience ive had on this i thinks woman have a harder time.i left my husband after 17 yrs and he was with somenone 1 month later broke up with her and then married and had a baby within a yr.i on the other hand was single for five and finally found the man of dreams we were together for a year then married maybe its just that we are smarter and think before we jump
2006-08-22 11:52:18 · answer #1 · answered by nvvlewis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the person and their association with others I think .If they are out going and have friends then I think a guy can move on in the same any a woman can, but it also depends on the conditions of the break up , I mean in the case of a cheating spouse the one that has been cheated on can find it difficult because the have othe feelings to deal with such as anger grief and depression . the insecurity is just one symptom that is left after a bust up . I think that the major hurdle is "trust" is he or she looking to use me am I going to have him or her do what my last partner has done to me . and then Am I just not going to meet anyone who wants me whole heartedly.No I don't think its harder for either sex Its just hard all round I believe.
2006-08-22 11:57:43 · answer #2 · answered by slick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it depends on the person. I have been divorced for 4 1/2 years and i have alot more insecurities than my current BF who has been divorced a year.
2006-08-22 12:05:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally no, I think its equally hard on both sexes. In the subject of women, many have kids when they divorce, its difficult to go from a two parent household, everyone suffers, but women usually get the blunt of child rearing, so she sometimes feels insecure. The husband, has grown use to the company of his wife, someone to talk to, cook his meals, do his laundry etc, & when thats taken away from him, he feels insecure. No doubt about it its hard on both the husband & the wife....
2006-08-22 11:55:03 · answer #4 · answered by yvonne p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that it's harder for guys than for women; I tend to feel that it depends on the person, not on the gender. Some people have much easier time putting their life in order than others.
2006-08-22 12:34:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure which one has a harder time, I think it depends on each and every person and their situation. Every case is different and every person is different.
2006-08-22 12:05:12 · answer #6 · answered by trainer53 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask but ya...its really hard!! Contestment on the Divorce sucks! Been there, Done that!!!
2006-08-22 12:07:53 · answer #7 · answered by shelley136692001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋