are you absolutely sure your with the 'right' person? was there a time in your life, where for example you nearly made a mistake by staying with someone else. if so, how did you know? how do i know i'm not making a mistake?
in other words... when did it click that this was right for you?
2006-08-22 11:29:37 · 23 answers · asked by jami p 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
THERE IS NO SURE FIRE WAY TO KNOW.I WAS MARRIED FOR 29 YEARS BEFORE DIVORCING. I SWORE THAT I WOULD NEVER GET IN A RELATIONSHIP AGAIN. I WAS MARRIED LAST SUNDAY.I WAS SWEPT OF MY FEET BY A GREAT WOMAN. LIFE IS ABOUT CHANCES.LIVE IT TO THE FULLEST.I KNEW IN MY HEART THAT SHE WAS THE ONE THAT I WANT TO SPEND THE REST OF NY LIFE WITH AND I NEVER BEEN HAPPIER.
2006-08-22 11:42:11 · answer #1 · answered by MAJOR JIM 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have had the wrong ones, and now I am with the right one.
It is difficult to put into words, but you will know.
It's not a matter of having perfection or anything, obviously,
but when its the right person, all the flaws in each of your personalities mesh together and balance out. You are good for each other, challenge each other and you can feel that. For me, I have never doubted that this man and I will be married the rest of our lives.
If you are having a LOT of doubts, I say trust your instincts and re-think your relationship. Good luch whatever you do!
2006-08-22 19:08:29 · answer #2 · answered by rachprime 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wanted to be with my daughters father so bad. I thought he was right for me. Thank God I didn't! I met my husband and he made me forget about all other guys for good. I just knew he was right for me. Everything about him clicked with me! I look back now and am so happy I'm with him. There is noone else in the world that could live up to him, for me! If you can be yourself completely around him, I mean all things you do you can do around him, then I would say that's a start. Also being able to talk. Having things in common, whether it's personality, interests, or anything is good. Also when you two have differences does it bother you or do you think his interests or personality is cool? I don't know, I just know that everything seems perfect with us even when things aren't so perfect. It's hard to explain. Simpley, when it feels right, with no doubt.
2006-08-22 18:36:54 · answer #3 · answered by lees girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant speak for anyone but my self but sometimes i wonder if i am with the right person now and if i had made a mistake when we married and as for you if you feel its a mistake walk away don't do like i did just jump right in because trust me you will be the one to pay for it
2006-08-22 18:35:29 · answer #4 · answered by sclady62001p 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you stop obsessing and relax.
kidding aside - can you imagine yourself with this person for the rest of your life? i'd say if you are comfortable with that sentiment, then you are past being "in love" and are well on your way to "true love". True love is something that grows - it's not something that is instant. People who insist that they have found (and have stayed with) their "soul mate" are few and far between - trust me.
ps We've been happily married for 19 years - have had lots of ups and downs, compatible values and stable children. Marriage takes constant work and effort on both sides.
2006-08-22 18:35:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will know it's right when you are happy with your life. When you are around that person and when you are NOT around them. That's how you will know. You will want to be a better person, you will not fight about stupid things, you will feel good about yourself.
If you have doubts, it's probably not right.
But, don't worry.
If she's not the right one for you, someone else is.
2006-08-22 18:54:13 · answer #6 · answered by loves2fly84095 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good relationships don't happen, they are made. You have to be sure that this is a person that you have enough common interests and similar convictions that you can build on. What does he want from a relationship? What am I willing to give? What do I want in a relationship? What is he willing to give? Base your answers on true feelings and not on a desire to find that special someone.
2006-08-22 18:40:15 · answer #7 · answered by jax0817 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married my highschool sweetheart after 10 years and 2 kids we were not friends anymore just people who knew each other sh had her life and i mine we have been divorced for 6 months now and actually talk more. we both have new relationships and It is for the best I still love her with all my heart but I really don't like her. does that make sence?
2006-08-22 18:35:40 · answer #8 · answered by huntingdog4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It "clicked" for me with the first kiss I shared with my husband. Suddenly, every other man I'd known disappeared from my mind.
It will be different for you. You'll know when you feel like no other person will fit you right. What I mean is, you'll get this feeling of peace when you're with that person, that you don't get when you're with someone else. Trust your gut, it'll never steer you wrong.
2006-08-22 23:14:02 · answer #9 · answered by kellygirlaj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your in doubt... your not with the right person..no matter how much you love him. I was that way about my ex husband. I'm married again..this time..to the right person for all the right reasons.
2006-08-22 18:37:20 · answer #10 · answered by lost_carolina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋