I have a girlfriend and I want to marry her but I know it's not that easy since I have to be financially secured. I decided we get married after 3 more years, that time my brother already graduates from college(I'm supporting him). Is this OK? What do you think willl my gf feel about his?
2006-08-22 14:50:24 · 7 answers · asked by Nevwe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If I am your girlfriend I would not mind. So long you stay faithful and true to me.
Marriage needs not to be rushed. Three more years is quite a long wait but it will help you both prepare yourselves to the next chapter of your life. I know by that time , you will both be financially stable and emotially mature. This in turn will bring a lasting relationship.
For the meantime, enjoy each others company.
mwah =)
2006-08-22 15:49:38 · answer #1 · answered by dia04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your very smart for wanting to be financially secure. There is nothing more satisfying that knowing at your wedding reception that you are going into this marriage debt free.
I hope you are not going to be paying your brothers college tuition! Also, be careful that your brother doesn't take advantage of you and stick around after college just to save some bucks. He needs to learn responsibility and how to make it on his own, so be sure once he graduates that your primary responsibility is on your fiancee and your future life together.
Good luck. Your doing the right thing.
2006-08-22 21:56:52 · answer #2 · answered by bethizmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk with her and be honest. she shouln't mind. who knows maybe she can even help you with the financial goals that you want to meet. after all a marriage is a partnership right? open and honest communication is never a bad thing. it is also key to a good marriage.
2006-08-23 00:19:25 · answer #3 · answered by Brooke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should date a t least one year and engaged for six moths to one year at least, When you get married you should have six months of your pay in saving to fall back on.
2006-08-22 21:54:07 · answer #4 · answered by trailsman1961 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont get married. Its an outdated and obsolete social custom. Its only purpose is to allow divorce lawyers to feed their kids.
2006-08-22 21:54:33 · answer #5 · answered by Phil S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't marry her if you can't have an open line of communication with her. Go ask her and find out.
2006-08-22 21:55:22 · answer #6 · answered by osunumberonefan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think you should ask her. I'm sure if she loves you she won't mind.
2006-08-22 21:52:59 · answer #7 · answered by Jen G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋