Can be only one reason or can be a several?
2006-08-22 13:40:39 · 9 answers · asked by jumalo 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am a mother of five and I suffer from seizures and migraines and anxiety and a whole slew of health issues. I am under my husband's thumb and he knows it. I can't drive or work because of the seizure disorder so I am home all of the time...
He never compliments me, shows me sensitivity, affectiion or anything that would make me believe that he truly loves or desires me.
I do alot to try to maintain myself and be attractive. I have lost 50 lbs and I only weigh 115 lbs now. I wear makeup, color my hair, have sexy tattoos and piercings but he is more interested in video games. I am very lonely.....I got sick of feeling unwanted and we went to therapy last year to address this issue to no avail. I tried to communicate with him time and again but he know that it doesn't matter what I say because I am in not position to leave him due to the fact I can't drive and support our five kids.....
I did not physically cheat on him....it was through the internet. I met a man who shared my pain and loneliness and the sparks were there. Once I began calling him things progressed rapidly. He made me feel like I haven't felt in years, wanted, desired, sexy.....like I was the most special, beautiful woman in the world....
In the end as much as my feelings still run deep for this man I chose my husband....I told him the truth and I am hoping one day he will wake up and see what he has in front of him before its too late.....
2006-08-22 14:04:01 · answer #1 · answered by Cute But Evil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people cheat just because they can. It may not anything to do with their significant other. But there could be one reason or several. But I chaet basically just because I can and when I do it make me care more about my BF. Well I was a cheater last year, i don't do that anymore cause I realized my BF is the one for me, i told him about it and he says that as long as I never do it again he will stay with me cause he loves me. I feel really bad and wish I had never done it.
2006-08-22 20:45:48 · answer #2 · answered by beachchic705 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No sex from wife for a couple of years,Enough was Enough! A female friend of mine knew what I was going thru and thats when i cheated. Did I feel guilty,no,did I enjoy it, yes. That was 10 years ago.
2006-08-22 21:05:20 · answer #3 · answered by man-in-blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only tell u y my ex wife cheated and thats y she is my ex today. She said I worked to much and was never home long enough to pay her any att. when if fact I was home more often than she was.
2006-08-22 20:53:48 · answer #4 · answered by Jack H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was very drunk had a one night stand and only remember a few days later
2006-08-26 07:10:55 · answer #5 · answered by gemma s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
peopl always say he or she did it first.
2006-08-28 11:03:55 · answer #6 · answered by Black_ash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
payback- sweet, sweet revenge.....which raises another question
2006-08-22 20:57:07 · answer #7 · answered by johnnydean86 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is simple-he did it first
2006-08-22 20:43:39 · answer #8 · answered by ~Ms Eli~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the nookie
2006-08-22 20:42:20 · answer #9 · answered by denny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋