im never going to meet her ..she lives on the other side of the world...my wife has just found out and is threatening to leave...i think she should chill out
2006-08-22 13:41:51 · 53 answers · asked by toni lee 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its emotional cheating. Its still not right. I'm not judging you in any way. Its just she isn't going to go for it. She will leave I'm sure.
2006-08-22 13:45:29 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Why r men so greedy, selfish & never b satisfied?
Since u're married, why must u still look 4 girls online? I don't think u'll like it if 1 day ur wife do that 2 u, right?
I found out that when men said "NO" 2 his wife, its definitely a "YES".
Stop immediately. It brings nothing good 2 ur marriage. Give ur time 2 ur family, ur luv 2 ur wife. No wife can ever accept her husband having an affairs with other women! Anything that concerns other women, the best thing 2 do is 2 let her know in the 1st place. Be wise & fair 2 her.
Win back ur wife........! Give her trust, faith, & make her feel secure by doing what is right & proof it !
Good luck, good man!
2006-08-22 15:11:18 · answer #2 · answered by cancerlady 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is cheating. I would be upset to if I found out my husband was doing what you are doing. You may never meet but you are communicating with someone other than your wife. Talking to her and telling her things that you should be sharing with your wife is not good and I can understand why your wife is feeling the way she is.
2006-08-22 14:45:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah right....Let's put the boot on the next foot shall we. Would you chill out if you were confronted with this information concerning you wife? Hell no!! you would not. Treat your wife, the woman you are mean't to love with some respect and grow up. YOU know it's wrong. so do not do this in the hope that you will get some kind of vindication for your disgusting dehaviour. Sort it. If she is so far away why continue this painful venture when it's hurting your nearest and dearest, or do you want a way out...........ask yourself.....seems you are getting your priorities mixed up babe. Do the decent thing.
2006-08-22 14:02:02 · answer #4 · answered by stainedglassangel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WEll you might never going to meet her but you have in your mind. You have made this thing in your head that it is real and that is soo not right. Your wife is real and you know EVERYTHING about your wife. This girl online is just what you want her to be. That is why she is so convient. You really know nothing about her until you live with her. If i was your wife I would tie you up and lock you in a closet...but then again that is too nice so maybe she should just leave
2006-08-22 13:45:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same postition. I still write to a few women around the world and my wife is cool abot it as she knows I will never meet them. I think it would have been better to let her know before she found out as she will feel cheated on. It may be better if you let her know how you feel about her and that it is nice just to talk to other women on the net and not behind her back at the local pub. good luck mate
2006-08-22 13:56:01 · answer #6 · answered by littlebrother1961 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means you have no respect for your wife and you would rather waste your time on a stranger than giving attention to you wife. It makes you feel more desirable. How would you feel if your wife was doing this on line. Hopefully you have been honest with the on line gf and told her you are married and will never meet her, so she knows where she stands with you. You need to take some time away from your wife to decide if you want to stay with her, so you don't waste anymore years with you.
2006-08-22 13:54:31 · answer #7 · answered by lily 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So what you have a wife.I was married 6 years and lost a marriage to an on line fling.My ex thought is was ok.Until he started wanting to meet her and he did and he is with her today.So no leave her alone unless you want you join my ex-husband,and be an ex-husband to.Thats cheating at it's worse because your hidding something that in your heart you know is wrong.Say Good-bye to your on line fling.And spend all that time paying more attention to your wife the real woman in your life.
2006-08-22 13:48:30 · answer #8 · answered by endigogirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you're doing is "virtual cheating". You're obviously getting some vicarious thrill out of communicating with this woman. Whether you'll ever meet or not is not the issue. How would you feel if the situation were reversed? Try sharing some of your inner thoughts with the woman you married and stop messing around with other women!
2006-08-22 13:45:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most women can't cope with what they see as divided loyalty.
There should be no harm in having online friends of either sex but a marriage is a partnership and if your wife is having problems with this then you have a problem as well.
You need to talk to her about it to find out why she has a problem.
Perhaps she thinks you're saying things about her to your online grilfriend that she wouldn't like.
Why not copy her in on the emails ?
If you're not doing anything out of line then this might placate your wife.
You need to sort this out though, otherwise it will destroy the trust between you.
2006-08-22 17:18:11 · answer #10 · answered by CeeVee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should knock it off and start devoting all of you back to your wife. Shame on you! Devote the flirting and nonsense that you are doing with your online fling and give that to your wife! She is there and she is the one that you devoted yourself to. The online girl isnt going to give you what your wife can, and if it starts with just being online, whos to say that it wouldnt go somewhere with someone else... this one is on the other side, but the next one might be closer, then what?
2006-08-22 14:42:59 · answer #11 · answered by dnmhbk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋