I know, I know is bad and wrong, but this girl was so special in my life and the only reason we never got together was because I cheated on her with my wife, now it's been 2 yrs and she still has feelings for me, and I know that when I see her it'll be a piece of cake to take her to a room. The only thing that keeps me away is GOD but love makes u blind.
2006-08-22 13:34:01 · 19 answers · asked by Shadow 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Put yourself in your wife's position....do you think she'll be pleased with the idea of you visiting your ex?.......What if it was the other way around? Would you mind?......Your married & with a kid now, its not all about you anymore...sorry.
2006-08-22 13:38:18 · answer #1 · answered by liz920 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please do no call her your ex.. there was never a legal contract, call her you ex girlfriend. Now on with the dilemma. Your wife just had a baby 6 months ago and you want to have a roll in the hay with an woman who has no shame and wants to break up your family (she sounds a really good catch)
All you have to do is tell your wife you are really in love with this $lut, give her more than a fair package in the divorce. And then you can all the fun you want with the hot chick. Problem solved.
2006-08-22 20:43:41 · answer #2 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay far far away. Misery loves company. You were fine until she popped back in. Look at it this way, you can never go back. there is a reason you are not together. Please, don't get mesed up with something that could hurt alot of people, especailly a child that didn't ask to be brought into this world. Just politely decline and say your flattered but it can't work, or it would have a long time ago.
2006-08-22 20:39:42 · answer #3 · answered by Lori N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What should you do? I suggest you decide what you want- The ex, or your wife. When you married, you limited yourself to ONLY your wife. If you want something more, tell the wife, and get divorced. By the way, God doesn't make us do anything. He just lets us know what we SHOULD do. And, love doesn't make us blind. Lust DOES inspire silly excuses for doing what we want.
2006-08-22 20:43:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love your wife don't go see that girl. If you don't love your wife and want the other woman at least respect your wife enough to tell her you may still have feelings for the other woman and need to see if the feelings are still there. That way you wife can be preparied for what might happen.Think before you leep.
2006-08-22 20:40:41 · answer #5 · answered by Shannon 912 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The short version? Don't do it.
If you know that putting yourself in temptation's way will result in you cheating on your wife, then just don't do it.
It sounds like you really have some strong feelings for your ex... Why not remind yourself of the strong feelings you have for your wife? Instead of meeting your ex, take your wife away for a weekend. Focus on her and remembering why you married her.
2006-08-22 20:38:24 · answer #6 · answered by *huge sigh* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She couldn't have been that "special" in your life or you wouldn't have cheated on her with your current wife! If you know it is" bad and wrong" don't do it. You just want your cake and eat it too.
You had a chance with this woman and you blew it when you cheated on her. Let it go.
2006-08-22 21:00:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look deep into your heart so who actually is the one that you are in love with the wife or the ex you broke up because you cheated? i know that the lust is still there but where does your heart lay? i was in the same boat i had a man then i cheated with man b and i married man b and 6 years later i married man a but because of the love we shared. during the marriage to man b i went to see man a as often as i could so WHERE DOES YOUR HEART BELONG????
2006-08-22 20:43:51 · answer #8 · answered by poohhoneybear2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to think about this. Don't cheat. At least be honest with your wife, let her no how you feel, and just what is going on. You at least owe her that.
2006-08-22 20:42:23 · answer #9 · answered by Right Wing Extremist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're still with your wife & love her,you wouldn't be asking this.If God is keeping you away,don'tcha THINK ya should LISTEN?.Maybe you should talk to your Preist!
2006-08-22 20:41:57 · answer #10 · answered by scott m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋