Family - December 2007

2007-12-28 14:42:12 · 3 answers · asked by kristinabby 2

im 22 and my boyfriend who is 29 say i can take controal.of it and let be the laws decition... they dont want me moving out with my bf cause they dislike him 100% and think that my anger is all from them hateing my bf ... wrong it from the comments i hear them say thing about my bf and his family and to me .... like to night my mum told me not to something in certion place and i told im going to and i was going to put back in the room were i got it from.... and she though i was being scarcastit...(spelling) and them my dad didnt like what i was saying to my mum and threated me and i went to room crying after my dad threw my bf cell (which im useing) on the floor and it take 5 mins to get it on and a nother 5 to call some one.... my bf paied 400 for it 3 yrs ago and im just using till i grt a new phone tomorrow .... now my bf says if they do any thing else more to me the cops well be called and my dad well be in jail i dont want this to happen what can i do and am i righ age wise??

2007-12-28 14:36:29 · 11 answers · asked by notsoshort23 1

I feel that huge chunks that made me who i am have gone and have left me a shadow of the person i used to be. can i find myself again or am i gone?

2007-12-28 14:31:06 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-28 14:24:06 · 15 answers · asked by itsme.agin 2

My 20 year old step daughter, whom I have raised since she was 6 months called her mother, who lives in Florida and said that we did not get her anything for Christmas. My SD lives with her bf, they wanted some pans and a Knife set for Christmas. We spent $300.00 on a set of pans and a knife set. We got our Grandchild a car seat and some clothes. We gave our son and his wife a gift card for $200 to Pennys and our 16 year old we bought her an MP3 and some DVD's, and such. This isn't the first time she has done this, but the problem is my husband has NEVER believed that his "little girl" would say something like that. So when I called her mother her husband said he is flying to our home and he is going to settle this once and for all. Apparently she has been calling and telling them a bunch of lies for several years now. So this isn't anything new. But it is worse now that she is an adult. We also gave her $300 to pay her cell phone bill. Any ideas would be helpful.

2007-12-28 14:21:37 · 13 answers · asked by maximus 2

my parents split up 5 years ago, and pretty much hate each other. i live with my mom, but she always complains about how much she's mad at my dad or what he does wrong whenever it's time to visit him. i don't want to be mean but it bothers me that she says those things. It just sticks with me and makes me uncomfortable. she thinks it's normal and funny, but to me it just hurts because i love both my parents and it is hard when she keeps saying things like that. Is there any way I can fix this? should i just suck it up or should i tell her? i don't know how to go about it.

2007-12-28 14:06:57 · 28 answers · asked by trees are great 4

If my parents have been divorced since i was 4 and i hate living with my mom, but don't want to live with my grama can i go to court or do anything so that i can live with my grama and if so what would i need to do and what would happen? my mom is a real uptight biatch ):
im 14 if it makes any difference.

2007-12-28 14:04:23 · 8 answers · asked by BlackHearts 1

i try and tell my mom how i feel when shes drunk and sober.. but she never seems to think i can have my own opinion its always my dad "brainwashing me" and no matter how much i cry or tell her or let her see how it is affecting me nothing gets her to even think about quiting not even that im not asking her to stop drinking im asking her to stop getting drunk every night of her life.. ive told her and so has my sister that she is ruining every chance she has to have a relationship with us.. she says she doesnt have a problem and that she just does it for the buzz.her mom was the same way and stopped when she was about 50.but im in depression at 13 because of it. im afraid for her life and she doesnt care she has told me that she is scared of life and its not what she wants it to be i told her that nothing ever is but it cant get any better unless you face it and try to help yourself My life is a living hell because of it iv had so many people tell me so but i dont know how to help it!!!

2007-12-28 13:02:51 · 4 answers · asked by me(: 2

in a car crash with your brother/sister, and when you got to Heaven, you discovered that your brother/sister went to hell instead (maybe he/she did something terrible in their life that they did not tell you about). How would you react knowing you would (in all eternity) never see your loved one again, and that he/she was burning in hell? What would you do? Would you call that Heaven?

2007-12-28 12:48:18 · 7 answers · asked by EverydayJoe 4

I want to make my 11 year old brother look like a girl. What do i need to do it and how? Include everything! (makeup, clothes, etc.)

2007-12-28 12:38:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have had several different answers so i'm not sure but my stepson leaves with his mom and he wants to leave with us. How old does he have to be in the state of texas?

2007-12-28 11:31:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

O.K. I'm 18, I still live with my parents, I work as a night guard at a youth correctional facility, They allow the night guards to bring in videogames & whatever, to keep us awake. The problem is my parents have limited my video games, they say that video games are a waste of time, and they will ruin my future. Well, I went behind there backs and bought a DS-lite & several games. Weeks later someone (probably a relative) tells my parents that I've been playing videogames at work. My parents go through my backpack and confiscated all my DS-lite stuff, and my mom tears up and throws away two years worth of Nintendo Power Magazines, and videogame posters.
Normally I'd just move out and get my DS-lite stuff back but, first my truck is out of state in a shop (being painted) & its taking like an extra week, so I have to borrow my parents trucks, Next, I don't make a whole lot of money ($8 an hr) and I live in a small town so there's not a lot of affordable places to rent? What should I do

2007-12-28 10:27:28 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was always a good kid. Im very well grounded in my Christian faith but my parents just hate me. When I was 17 I gained 20 pounds due to a thyroid condition and quit cheerleading and softball because I was embarassed. Well my mom got really angry and obsessive with me then. Now, she always begs me to let her look at my facebook and text messages from my boyfriend and she'll cry if I wont let her. I also have a 3.5 gpa in college but when she found out my cousin had a 4.0 she told me I was a stupid a&& and should just quit. Tonight she came into my room and told me she hated me and wanted me to move out. she said that I was fat and gross (even though im only 145...its not thin but its not fat) and that my biyfriend prob. was cheating on me. I dont understand why she hates me so much. its so weird.

2007-12-28 10:18:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My adult daughter has a serious issue with her adult brother which lead to a complete break down in relations. I , as their mother tried to intervene but it did not work . Now she is also ticked off at me and says I should mind my own business and it is between her and her brother . I have helped her many times to get along in life, now to get her way suddenly it is none of my lip . What do you think? Was I wrong to get involved .

2007-12-28 09:34:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My son has been misbehaving at church according to his teacher. He has Asperger's Syndrome and ADHD and I medicate him during the week for school. On Sundays I don't med him so that he can eat. His med takes away his appetite. Help!

2007-12-28 09:23:31 · 7 answers · asked by Marie H 2

Background info: I live in Chicago. Mom is in Phoenix. I have 1 full time job and one part time job. I am in school part time. My marriage is in a really rocky place right now.

Proceeding...mom sent me an email today. I have no idea what the eff to say in return. To sum it up, she says that she's sent me a million texts (in reality...3) and phone calls (about 4) in the past week and because I haven't responded she is very upset. The fact that I didn't send her a birthday or Xmas gift left her feeling "humiliated" and "distraught" (I have 3 dollars in my bank account...my husband hasn't paid a bill in 2 months, and I'm BROKE). She wants to know if I want her to leave me alone and just go away (oh c'mon).

Well I pulled a double shift on Christmas. And I work 12 hour days EVERY day. Today is my first half day in 3 weeks.

I'm terribly frustrated and hurt that she isn't more understanding. Any ideas on what to tell her? I don't want to respond while angry, so I needed ideas

2007-12-28 07:29:50 · 11 answers · asked by Puzzle Box 2

should i enjoy being 13 or want to be something that i'm not. It's hard to think that i want to be something that i'm not HELP!!!!

2007-12-28 07:06:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

so yeah, i mouth off like every other teenaged girl...but my mother makes it seem like...way worse than it is. whenever she scolds me she says things that never leave my mind and hurt me so much as to the point where I'm very depressed, have an extremely low self-esteem, and I have cut myself.

she's called me:
worthless piece of sh.it
*******.g bitc.h
piece of garbage
worthless
etc.

i'm not a perfect teenager, but...i don't know whether i do deserve this or not. i know she really needs to get help but she doesn't think so, obviously.

now it's gotten to the point where i have been suicidal. i have never really come out about that before. I really don't know what to do.

thanks, guys.

2007-12-28 06:08:08 · 15 answers · asked by Rsausage 1

I am 18 and currently living with my bf who's 20. A couple weeks ago, we got into an argument and he slapped me, I slapped him back. After our 'fight' I decided to take a week to sort out my feelings, and went to stay with my mom and dad. After a week of minimal communication between him and I, I came to the conclusion that I wanted to move back in and work things out ON OUR OWN. Now, not even a day after moving back in with him, my parents want to press charges but I do not. We live in MD, my parents live in WV, so what are my rights, their rights, and our (me and my bf) rights? Can my parents press charges without my approval? What would be the best thing for us to do?

P.S. I REFUSE to move back in with my parents, because my mother is a control freak and yells at me for everything.

Thanks for your help..it is greatly appreciated

2007-12-28 05:49:33 · 44 answers · asked by Cinderella 1

im 14 and i have a boy twin (im a girl) we are faternal and he is more popular than me in school. some people ask me, "what does it feel like to be hiS sister" and im just like what is he some god or something. hes on the football, baseball team and i do nothing im nt athletic. im smart and get good grades but hes dumb. hes funnier and im pale and hes got dark skin. i dont know what to do becuase even my cousins like him better. were not mean to each other we barely fight we talk to each other about things hes like my best freind but people need to see that im not just (his name)'s sister. I AM (my name)!!!! WHAT DO I DO TO MAKE MYSELF FEEL BETTER!!

2007-12-28 05:45:43 · 8 answers · asked by Rachel S 1

I need to go back to work because my family really needs the extra income. However, I have 4-year gap in my employment. It seems as though employers view this as the equivalent to having the plague. Because my children are ages 11, 7, and 5, I am looking for something flexible. I am not looking to be a CEO. I have six years of college and am 3 tri-mesters short of my bachelors. I have plenty of work place experience, but employers seem to overlook all of this. Any suggestions for overcoming the resume gap or any suggestions for good employers?

2007-12-28 05:06:21 · 6 answers · asked by blackdagger♥381 4

my son came home from dads last weekend saying daddy dressed up like a girl. My son is almost 5 and he thinks it is funny. I beleive my son but I don't know how to go about asking his father

2007-12-28 04:46:56 · 63 answers · asked by the 500 1

I'm always in a dilemma whether to help or not to help. I have an adopted sister who has betrayed me and my mom a number of times.. totally no sense of gratitude. She used to stay with us before but she stole my money and ran away. Now my niece and nephew are living an uncomfortable life. They moved to 3 different houses in 2 months, don't have enough food and school supplies. I told the kids I will help them as far as food and school stuff are concerned. I feel terribly sad that my nephew needs to repeat kindergarten because of their tumultuous life and lack of money. What's your take on the this? I can't have the kids under my custody coz their mom won't allow that ever and I don't want to help my "ex-sister" financially coz she needs to learn a lesson or two.

2007-12-28 04:39:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-28 02:29:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

This morning, my dad said to me,"Good morning angel." And my mom said,"How can you call that girl 'angel'?! She's 15 and can't say a pleasant sentence to anybody!" My dad replied,"That's not true, you're the uptight one around here, leave her alone!" And my mom just glared at me and walked away. She says I'm a very hateful person. I'm always afraid to talk to her. Please help!

2007-12-28 02:17:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok i was eating my cornbread and when i went to my room i saw my dad in my cloths and his toe nails weere painted RED???? whaz do i do

2007-12-28 02:11:09 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

shes extremely clingy to me when ever she comes down to visit she grabs me does what ever she can to be with me its makeing me really uncomfortable im 17 so i think u can see why ive asked her to stop but she only got sad and walked away what do i do
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2007-12-28 01:46:00 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My father has prostate metastatic cancer, which in itself is terribly devastating. However, there is much more. My parents are divorced and he is now married to a woman who is an alcoholic, she is violent, mean, manipulative, controlling, hateful, and abusive, among many other things. She likes to cause trouble for everyone in her life and now she has decided to do that with me. She isn't allowing me to talk to my father or visit him. I don't know what to do, who knows how long he has, it could be years or days, I don't know. I am having a hard time dealing with this and don't know what to do. My father and I have had a very rocky relationship and it has just been over the last few years that we have come together to be as normal as can be. I don't think I have any legal rights to him, I would like to have some control, but I don't think that is possible. This woman is making it very hard for me to deal with this. I just need some advice, I can't seem to handle this anymore.

2007-12-28 01:42:19 · 9 answers · asked by loveandpeace 2

My father passed away 9-13-07. His wife and step daughters decided that I should not be invited to his memorial because they do not agree with the feelings I had toward him. I loved him dearly, but he treated me badly in the end, despite my efforts at peace. I believe his feelings toward me are the direct result of my stepsisters and stepmother's false accusations about me. They accused me of horrible things, none of which were true, but since they lived with him, and I lived a state away, they succeeded in turning him against me. I was apparently left nothing in his will, but have no way of finding out, but thats not what concerns me most.
My question is this. I have NO idea where his remains are. I would like the opportunity to visit his grave, considering I was denied attending a memorial service. The only problem is that these step relatives wont answer my calls, and I believe he's buried on their property. How can I find out, and what are my rights as his only daughter?

2007-12-28 01:34:27 · 8 answers · asked by DeaRae T 1

My parents were divorced when I was 12. Now, I'm 19 years old, and I live with my mom, who is now a single parent. My mom always wanted to find a new husband and live happily. She had a crush on a married man 3 years ago, and I was very angry at her, because I know how it feels to have a father who has an affair with someone, and that's why my parents got divorced. Now, my mom's new crush is a widower whose wife was dead 3 weeks ago. The problem is, this guy is from a middle class family, while my mom is a very successful woman, high educated, with a high salary job. I don't find that guy is suitable for my mom, I don't ask my mom to marry an oil tycoon either ... I just don't agree with her choice. My mom is angry at me now, she kept telling me that I invaded her love life and her privacy. I didn't mean to disrespect her at all. I just don't want her to make the same mistake.

Am I really invading her privacy? Am I wrong?

2007-12-28 01:25:18 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous