Family - December 2007

my sister is havin sex and her and her boyfriend did it in my moms room i saw her boyfriends *** and everythin should i be a snitch and tell my mom or just let her learn her lesson and she gets pregant and am a year yonger than my sister and am the one setting an example my sister is 15 but my mom has so much stress goin on in her life lye she comes home really late from work and i dont want her 2 stress even more what should i do

2007-12-27 14:28:32 · 54 answers · asked by d,ace 2

When my parents when I was three. I lived with my mum while I seen my dad every second weekend. My mum ended up finding a new man. He moved in and I treated him like my father. Over the years we started to fight heaps. My mum ended up having a child to him and getting married NOW..
My nana is a foster carer and she has had a girl that has lived with her for years. We treat her as family but my step father doesn't think she is family cause she was never adopted to the family. But I call him "dad" even though he never adopted me. He says that "when he married my mum, he took me on as a daughter". I dont think he has the right to say "she isn't your sister. I grew up with her. My dad has had family friends which I've called my "uncle" but he has never said "He's not your uncle". I think sometimes he gets jealous of my other family.

What do you guys think?

2007-12-27 13:50:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Dad is 43. Girlfriend is 37. Child is 12. Dad and girlfriend have been dating more than a year. Girlfriend and child get along very well, but child's mom is very jealous and tells Dad that son is angry about Dad's girlfriend.

2007-12-27 13:46:24 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need some advice on dealing with grandparents. I try to ignore them but they irritate me so much. I never bother to comment on their arguments because they're stupid and will never admit that they're wrong. They're here taking vacation with their 14wk puppy. I've been playing with the dog and feeding, taking it outside, and following and picking stuff out of it's mouth while she sits her bum on the sofa saying "Raising puppies is hard work. It just isnt all play, you need to be responsible." She is so annoying and treats me like I'm stupid. No offense but even a mentally challenged person can keep an animal and I've raised dogs before. She has never owned a puppy.

She does this about everything I do and treats me so childish.
I cannot take it any longer. Please help?

2007-12-27 13:39:26 · 27 answers · asked by Nikki 1

my father left me and my mom when i was just a baby.and i was my fathers 1st child ,and i barely saw my father when i was younger,until i turned 6 thats when he came into my life again ,and my dad has to other kids with my stepmother my lil bro n lil sis.Now im alot older and Whenever i go to my fathers house,he always gives my sister and bro all the attention and love,and i always feel left out.And this gets to me so much i feel like he cares for them way more then me but then again he might feel gulity for walking out on me and my mother and might not no how to say im sorry about it but like he'll never kiss me on the forehead or tell me im beautiful like he does to my lil sis n that makes me feel so unwanted .I no i should talk to him about it but i dont know how to bring it up.i need some help how to tell him how i feel .

2007-12-27 13:34:59 · 8 answers · asked by miss.juicy<3 1

2007-12-27 13:24:50 · 23 answers · asked by Chaya A 3

Does anybody else out there like talking to his or her mother as much as I do?

2007-12-27 13:19:27 · 10 answers · asked by trillian 5

My grandpa has been kindof picky about the fact that he wants me to sleep in the same room as him. We share a bed and everything. personally i think this is wrong, but my problem is that he is a minister and he means no harm in this, but he is the most stuborn person in the whole world. i am needing to know if there is any legalities that could save me from this rampage he is on. there are three other bedrooms in this house. they are usually unocupied. i am verry concered that if i cant convince him soon to give me my own room, my friends are going to take action for me and call the cops. can anyone help me?

P.S. i am 16 if that makes a difference

2007-12-27 13:13:28 · 9 answers · asked by csuphoff 1

I have tried to help him with jobs (he quits or loses hours), college (quit, owes money), moving to another city (OK for a while, then failure and more money must be sent). He repeatedly hooks up with a girlfriend who is a bigger a loser than he is (jail, shoplifting, drugs, borderline personality disorder) and she makes the situation worse. Now her parents have kicked her out of the house and I refuse to see either one of them. Fortunately, I get to see my grandson (whom he doesn't support) because I'm on good terms with the mom, who is wonderful. I'm scared about the time when I get too old to defend my house, or my retirement income. (I'm not currently retired, but looking down the road.) What should I do?

2007-12-27 13:10:58 · 29 answers · asked by Catherine M 4

she has hurt my feeling seens the day she could no more hurt me physically...i have two scars in my face that she did to me when i was younger...now that im 16 and she cannot hit me anymore she hurts me with words...i just had a fight with her...we were watching this program of fat kids and i just said well good thing im not one of those kids i weight 6 stone and im happy with it...and she said...you ugly thin or fat it doesnt matter...and you worth nothing you never will its not point for you to go to college anymore you will no gain nothing out of college...i can predict your future and you know where would it be..in the fuc king streets you dont have any other choice...this time she has realy hurt me...and now im extremily depressed im starting to think of killing my self i have done it twice and didnt suceed hope this time i do....i cant take it anymore and i have no one in this fu cking life that loves me or cares about me...what can i do???help....

2007-12-27 13:09:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean from the parents to the siblings. Mother-in-law, Father-in-law, Sister-in-law, Brother-in-law. Why or why not? What do you do to deal with them when your spouse is very, very close with them but you see right through them?

2007-12-27 12:58:07 · 10 answers · asked by New Moon Daughter 6

i dont know what to do my sister is always sneaking out of the house, drinks, smokes, and parties alot and my dad has no clue. my dad is really stricked and if he ever found out it would be really bad. i hate that my little sister does these things and i dont know what to do. sometimes at night i wake up and my sister is gone and im always scared somethings going to happen. i found out she took a pregnancy test. please help me i dont know what to do

2007-12-27 12:41:57 · 120 answers · asked by *mexicanprincess* 2

she told me and my bro not to get her any thing for this christmas cause this was the first time in ever she wasnt in the christmas mood for any thing so i belived her and christmas come and my bro got her some thing and now she is mad at me for not getting her any thing at all. I feel bad in side but then he is now finding out how much money i spent on my bf family and is mad i got my bro and dad some thing and today she told me you should of got me some thing use for the fact it would of made me happy ... blah blah.....what would of you done

2007-12-27 11:49:57 · 8 answers · asked by notsoshort23 1

ok so when i was a child, around 7 my dad used to abuse my mom, im not sure if it was physical. im 14 now and he still abuses her and us. today he freaked out and started whipping stuff around. this happens a lot, and he yells at her almost every night and me and my sister. if i report him will anything happen ? or does it have to be physical ?

2007-12-27 10:38:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

He called me and my 11-year-old brother into the living room one day, and with teary eyes and a cracking voice, he put one hand on my shoulder and another on my brother's. He said, "I guess it's just hard for a dad to look over at his son and realize he's now talking to a man."

2007-12-27 10:35:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Our house is in pre-forclosure (my husband was not working until just 2 weeks ago since April). Needless to say that I have had to try to pay the bills the best way possible and paying for my 1yr olds needs also. A month ago my father-in-law insisted that we move in for a little while until we can save money for an apartment, I was hesitant but I did live 1hr and 1/2 away from work so in gas I would spend like 600 a month alone + any other bills. We moved in and we were told not to pay anything, however my husband and I didn't feel confortable with that so we insisted on paying the diffrence in the light bill and the water bill for the time that we are there compared to previous bills. How ever I found out today that they expect me to pay a 296.23 water bill! My water bill wasn't even 200.00 when I had new sod put in at my old place. What should I do?? We found an apartment and are moving next weekend, pay 1/2 is fair price to both them and us, is it not? Help

2007-12-27 10:34:04 · 15 answers · asked by sexy052281 2

He is forcing me to get a haircut becuase he wants my hair shorter and I want it longer. Also, he is making me do high school sports and clubs when I don't want to! I just want to be myself!!! I don't want to do track and field but I am forced too or I'll be "spending a lot of time in your room" is what he says. So when I say I'm grounded, it will be from not doing track! I'm going to try out for baseball but I doubt I'll make it. I've talked to him personally and calmly but he is still making me! When I am an adult, will I have to ask for permission from him for everything I do?? How do I get him to let me do what I want with MY life?

2007-12-27 10:27:12 · 17 answers · asked by FSBB 1

My aunt and her son live with my grandparents (her parents) and when every they come over or we go over there, or even a 10 minute conversation over the phone, my grandma and aunt CONSTANTLY go on and on about how broke and poor they are. But they eat out every day and buy flat screen tvs, new appliances, brand new game systems...you get the point... Everyone who knows my grandma and aunt is tired of hearing them nag about their finances.
So how can I get them to stop talking about how they have no money, but with tact?

2007-12-27 10:22:26 · 3 answers · asked by keita 3

for instance on christmas my dad gave me a laptop and every since then she has yelled at me and all this stuff and i don't know why she does it!!
HELP!!!

2007-12-27 10:08:29 · 2 answers · asked by rcm69901994 1

ok this is all i did i went home at 7pm ,i shave my eyebrows cuz they were mess up,and i put wax from a candle on a control and my parents took my christmas money and my cell phone away and i cant go out anymore do u think they had the right to do that

2007-12-27 10:04:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have full custody, and I split because I was hit with a rock (that is the spite part) the relationship was kinda rockey itself, I almost make enough to pay all of the bills if i cut out the fast food and fun. Daycare is expensive and when I asked the "donor" to contribute, I was told a hard luck story. I feel rather ashamed to have to go to court and ask that the Order to pay be enforced. Please help and please no guy or girl bashing we all have good spirits even though the skin is a little bad sometimes.

2007-12-27 09:37:57 · 9 answers · asked by Ize I 1

im the middle of 3 boys im 16 and my bro is 26 my mom died when i was 3 and my dad is in the marines. well last night i said i was sleeping over at someones house in my city when really i was in a town 30 minutes awy somehow he found this out and told me to come home. not expecting this and totally wasted my friend drove me and my car home. i went upstairs and he came in and was yelling at me not thinking clealy i go f u ben **** you at this he left me alone and this morning he came in and me not wanting to deal with him yelling at me again i say whatever and tell him to goto hell(not good) he yells at me somemore and and then i guess i rolled my eyes then he takes his belt of and hits me i dont even know how many times. Do you think i should have been punished for a "1st offense" as he calls it? and how do i tell my dad.

2007-12-27 09:29:24 · 37 answers · asked by Peter W 1

my mom and dad dont seem to get along my mom always talks to me about how mean my dad is but i think he is great and my dad wen i try talking to him he kinda ignore me so witch is a better parent????????????????????????????????????????

2007-12-27 08:52:00 · 4 answers · asked by Allyson N 2

Well its like this, she fights with my dad and always gets me and my younger involved. Saying that we're on her side and ****. My brother never says anything but me and him are thinking the same thing. I just think when parents are fighting, they want to keep that away from their childrens' ears and eyes as best they can....but my mom goes over to us and goes "you agree wit me right?" my dad tells her don't get them involved and she goes "what cuz you know that they know you're wrong?" i seriously think my mom needs some kind of therapy...when i lied about bringng home my boyfriend's jacket she said "i can't stand this we're moving out of this country" she overreacts to everything! she tells me "don't fnd a guy like ur father" tells my brother "dont become like your dad" what can i do to change her from being like this? how can i help her relax and mend my parent's relationship?

2007-12-27 08:40:00 · 18 answers · asked by Hali 2

like its not that difficult. i live with both my parents. my best friend invited me to go with her to ottawa thats only 3 hours away by drive for 3 days on new years eve. im 18 years old turning 19 in 2 months. my mom said its okay but my dad said that bad things happen on new years eve and that i cant go. i said he could talk to her parents about the trip but he still says no. every year at my house on new years eve we always do the same thing..stay home and watch a movie and he says we should do the same. he says i cant even go out to a party my friend is having cuz bad things happen on new years eve. he says he trusts me but he just doesnt trust the people out there. and just the other day he said to me "why cant u grow up?". ggrrrrrr im sssoooo mad i really wanna go on the trip what do i do? advice please!

2007-12-27 08:39:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I saw this thing on tv and I was just wondering what the person could do to stop it.

The child and father were always a bit tense, but sometimes the father would beat the child really hard for the simplest things. The child wants something to be done, but does not want to be taken away from his mother, and the mother wont acknoledge what the father is doing to his child. I was just wondering , what could the child do? maybe it will be in the next series

2007-12-27 08:37:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

please dont tell me that im a "bad person", or a "mean person", or a "disrespectful teenager" because i already know that i am all of thoes things.
but i said something horrible to my dad, i told him that i hated him and that i hope he dies and that i hope he goes straight to he*l.
i regret saying that to him but he just made me so mad/upset. about 2 months ago he was diagnosed with really bad emphysema. he had to stop smoking and he is supposed to use oxygen. but today he put the oxygen tanks away and started smoking again! i was really mad that he started again, because he's killing himself! i dont want him to die and i was so proud of him for stoping smoking (he was still useing nicotin lozenges though) and then he just started up smoking again, so i got really mad and told him that i hope he dies and that i hate him and that i hope he goes to he*l.
im still upset with him for smoking, but i dont really mean what i said.now my dad wont talk to me, how can i take back what i said

2007-12-27 08:28:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I help teach dance at my dancing school and she says she wants 2 do that next year. I like to sing all of a sudden she likes 2 sing. I know that ur thinking aww she looks up 2 u but thats not at all true she likes 2 anoy me and im sik of it. i tried to talk 2 my mom but she did the usual aww she looks up 2 you thing:( soo what should i do???

2007-12-27 08:25:54 · 9 answers · asked by syd 1

I guess one of the biggest problems between my husband and I is his mother. He will drop everything to help when his mother calls for something, wheather it be money for her or family member, needs airline tickets, her car breaks, he will fix it and pay for the parts and give her my car to drive. He even makes plans with her and doesn't tell me until the day and I have to go. He speaks 2 languages (english and spanish),she only speaks spanish. He says that his mom doesn't have money and he wants to help her but they all wear timberlands, nike/southpole, computer etc. One day he told me that his mom needed 400 and she would pay me back weekly, that was 3 years ago and now he tells me to forget about it. Not to mention the first 400 to have her move here 600 for her apt, the list goes on. Am I over reacting when I question him on why he does that since we are struggling and the times we asked her for help she said no. He always tells me its his mom and will help no matter what.

2007-12-27 08:08:24 · 5 answers · asked by slc 2

My brother has a PSP and I have a DS, so I figured I'd bring those. There's a DVD player in the car, but we don't have any new movies and the kids will only sit still for so long.

I guess I could bring coloring books. Maybe some snacks like Goldfish or something. Ummm ...

See, the thing is we're going to be doing most of our driving during the day. So I need ideas of stuff to keep them not-annoying!! xD

Also, we leave tomorrow (I pretty much just found out) so there's no time to go out and buy anything ...

And if you have any ideas for kid songs, tell me because I'm planning to make some CDs. The kids love songs like Who Let The Dogs Out and stuff like that.

2007-12-27 06:45:31 · 4 answers · asked by Me 7