my father left me and my mom when i was just a baby.and i was my fathers 1st child ,and i barely saw my father when i was younger,until i turned 6 thats when he came into my life again ,and my dad has to other kids with my stepmother my lil bro n lil sis.Now im alot older and Whenever i go to my fathers house,he always gives my sister and bro all the attention and love,and i always feel left out.And this gets to me so much i feel like he cares for them way more then me but then again he might feel gulity for walking out on me and my mother and might not no how to say im sorry about it but like he'll never kiss me on the forehead or tell me im beautiful like he does to my lil sis n that makes me feel so unwanted .I no i should talk to him about it but i dont know how to bring it up.i need some help how to tell him how i feel .
2007-12-27 13:34:59 · 8 answers · asked by miss.juicy<3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I think that your father just doesn't see you enough and doesn't feel comfortable around you. You guys need some quality time. I am sure your dad feels that you are beautiful, you are a part of him. You are probably right about the guilt part, although, we don't know the full circumstances surrounding that situation. Ask your father to do something special with you. Go walking in the park. You have got to talk and get to know each other better.
2007-12-27 13:45:42 · answer #1 · answered by jennifer c 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO! u are not a bad father. What ur doing is right. Other people take out there anger on the baby. At least u go to another room to just cool off. Is there someone who can help you? Cause you don't want to get overwhelmed. Where is the mom? Cant she help? If you tried everything with the baby and shes still crying then you can let her cry for a little bit. But don't ignore her completely 5-10 minutes is ok i think
2016-05-27 09:13:41 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know how old you are, but either way, I would suggest that you stay away from your "father" until you are stronger within yourself.
He has not treated you properly in the past and he is certainly not treating you properly now. By choosing to treat his other children with much more love than he does you, he is not being a good father to you.
You know what? It is not important to have that kind of man in your life. Look to your future and make sure than when you get married you choose a man that will respect you and love you and be a loving father to your children.
Concentrate on your future, not this "father".
2007-12-27 13:44:06 · answer #3 · answered by Maureen S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make a list of pro's and cons. Explain what the problem is. My middle sister dislikes my dad because of the reason your having. Talk to him. Get to know your siblings more. Talk to them without your dad around. I have little sister that way. She is my half sister. I call her or text her just to see how she is doing. My middle sister does none of that. She refuses to talk to our father. So please talk to him. Because when your married and have children you would want them to know thier grandfather. My niece and nephews are sad they don't know grandpa. I go behind her back to let them talk to him. So take care of it now before it gets out of hand.
2007-12-27 13:48:17 · answer #4 · answered by bibbyplayer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write out how you feel. Set it aside for a few days, then read it over to be sure it says how you really feel. Then either mail it to him or give it to him.
But make sure you let him know you love him despite feeling this way. He may not know how to approach you.
2007-12-27 13:42:14 · answer #5 · answered by Butterfly Lover 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
just say hey dad can i talk to you, it seems as though you are giving **sisters name and brothers name** a lot of attention. and i know that you still love me but sometimes i feel like i am unwanted.
just say that and you will be surprised!!
2007-12-27 13:53:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't put yourself through it over and over again. Don't go to your father's house for awhile and when he asks you why, THEN you can tell him. He probably doesn't realize that what he's doing is hurting you.
2007-12-27 13:53:09 · answer #7 · answered by Dame Edna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start crying in front of him and see if he cares. and then bring it up or something
2007-12-27 13:44:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋