Family - December 2007

2007-12-29 15:21:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i think i really hate my dad...
about a month or so ago, my dad my diagnosed with serverre emphasyma, from smoking, the doctor told him that he had to quit smoking and he had to use oxygen. my dad quit smoking and he used the oxygen, for only a month. and then a few days ago he started smoking again. i got very mad/upset with him and i told him that i hated him and i hope he dies. at first i thought i didnt mean it, i tryed to apoligize to him but he told me that i wasnt really sorry, and he told me that i had to leave until i learned to be "nice and respectful" towards him. that made me even more angry at him.. for the past 2 days i have been staying at my moms boss' house, thinking about everything that happend, and i realized that i think i really do hate my dad and i meant everything i said. and i have the grudge against him, i cant stand to look at him or hear him or anything....i dont want to hate my dad, how can i let go of this grudge?
(sorry about the spelling mistakes)

2007-12-29 14:56:07 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just broke my leg. Should I tell my mom? She'll be really mad because when I broke my arm she yelled at me for days. Then when I broke my toe she grounded me for a month! What do I do?

2007-12-29 14:23:36 · 14 answers · asked by <33 1

2007-12-29 14:13:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

my little cosin ask me what is oral sex out of the clear blue sky and i said "i will have 2 get back 2 u on that" and walked away...

so now she ask me about it every time i see her... and i see her everyday cause she lives right next door!

tell me what i should tell her... by the way i can't tell her 2 go ask her mom cause her mom died 3 mounths ago! ='[

so now PLEASE HELP ME......!!!!!!!! AS SOON AS POSSIBLE!!!!

THANK-YOU

2007-12-29 14:04:37 · 30 answers · asked by bigsbybeth 1

ok so i was just recently caught by my mom with alcohol in my room after she cleaned it while i was gone away on a trip
they know that i was doing it with my friends and they also somehow know that it was my friends brother who bought it for us
my parents are saying that theyre going to talk to my friends parents but if they do my friends will be in even bigger trouble than i am in
i dont want my friends to get in any trouble what should i do????

2007-12-29 14:03:00 · 7 answers · asked by gongshow by nature 1

i'm 15 hes 18 and hes down from college. i simpley can't stand him, i hate his guts. ever since he went there hes been an asshole. before i get to it when he was 15 he used to drink sometimes and i threaten to tell my mom but i was young then, and stupid and immature. i smoke pot and he doesn't like that. don't tell me its bad or w.e. i heard it all before. it doesn't matter what were talking about, he'll make the conversation swing that way and he'll argue about it with me or tell me off about. (f*ck off you stoner). he says its bad, i know i heard it all before, and he said he'd never do it, then guess what? just a couple days ago, HE DID. he pisses me off so much. i can't trust him with anything because he'll use it against me. i thought we would be ok since i forgave his gf, she hit me a couple times and i forgave her, for him. this is how he repays me. i know this one girl amber who my mom and dad know, and her parents. shes smokes weed too. i have more in the details.

2007-12-29 14:01:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My dad sometimes can be really angry with me. Usually he just yells at me, but at times.....Here's a list of what he's occasionally done for discipline:
-Slapped me in the face (no bruises though)
-Kicked me down the stairs (it was only three stairs-I didn't sprain my ankle)
-Thrown a rock at me 'cause I wouldn't answer him while I was exercising my turkey (he said it wasn't going to hit me, but it landed just a couple feet from my turkey)
-Grabbed me by the hair (no bruises)
-Spanked me in butt and legs with a riding crop (it DID bruise my legs)
-Smacked my brother and mine's heads together (no bruises, but it hurt)
-Smacked me against the wall
Of course, there are really good times, for example, he flew all the way to a poultry show at the other end of the state just for me in our airplane, I have my own cell phone, my own laptop (what I'm writing this with), tries to make me happy by buying me things. I know he loves me, but are physical discipline methods abuse?

2007-12-29 13:27:41 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

My myspace is private and also the only reason why i change my pass.... is when it tells me to. and my dad can hackk to anything and i can learn b/c i am his daughter and he can fix anything. So im safe on myspace and i don't trust nobody barely from past experiance. Neither does he so what can i do to for him to actually trust me more than well he don't at all but you get my point.......????????? and my dads a gemini so it makes it harder and they really do have 2sides omgosh.... and im his youngest we fight all the time so i might be buyin my own computer im savin up so sometimes i guess idk......

2007-12-29 12:16:47 · 4 answers · asked by babygirl4life 2

2007-12-29 11:58:54 · 8 answers · asked by sweetie pie 3

...with that mouth?
and does she know where it`s been.....?

2007-12-29 10:48:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

the frustration of being 20years old and not allowed to stay out longer than 12am is killing me from inside, all my mates do and some of them are younger than me! its depressing me so much, i feel so embaressed always leaving early and making excuses all the time :( the downside of having asian parents dont knw wat i can do. they dont approve of having young girls out all nite, but this is the society that i live in, its so embaressing and the few times that i have ben out till late is by lying to them like am sum sort of stupid 14year old teenager wtf! i hate lying it makes me feel guilty for not doing anything wrong. i dont even like drinking, i just hate always leaving early i wouldnt even do it all the time just every now and then so all my work mates and uni mates to think that. whats worse is that i cant even ask them to let me stay out late or theyl just get mad and give me a long *** lecture of how im too westernised and its not safe etc etc WHAT THE HELL DO I DO!!!!

2007-12-29 10:18:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend's family is a mix of 2 heritages, niether where english is a first language. His parents are divorced and have no contact. His father's family has made an effort to learn english and speaks fluently, if sometimes difficult to understand. His mother's family however has made little to no attempt to learn english. Some members of the family do not speak english at all despite being in the country for 30 plus years.
My boyfriend had a really had time learning english due to his mother and her lack of skills. My concern is that if we have kids, and his mother lives with us or close by, how influcened are they going to be her lack of english skills? (She will sometimes start off in english and finish in chinese, speaking superfast the entire time...)

2007-12-29 10:01:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

whats the legal age a teenager in the uk can leave the home without parental consent?

2007-12-29 10:00:19 · 8 answers · asked by tracieisland 5

Just over a year ago I got in touch with my biological father, I had met up with him once when I was 17 but before that had not seen him since I was adopted by my step-dad at age 10.

The meeting went fine and he then sent me birthday and christmas presents last year but contact soon wore off again. I called him the other day - he didn't reply, just a random text telling me he couldn't talk as he had 'man flu', I got not so much as a birthday or christmas card, text or email this year!

Honestly I find him and his excuses pitiful, made all the worse by his supposed over excitement about me getting in contact with him again.

Should I really bother with him any further or just write him off for the waste of space I currently think he is?

2007-12-29 09:13:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Grrrr. My dad never gives me peace. He is always coming in my room, and I never can be left alone. I tell him I would like it if he doesn't come into my room so often then he gets upset and thinks I am trying to hide something. Everytime I talk to someone on the phone he always asks who it is. I got upset just now and I just said "one of my friends" and he got upset saying that he should know this stuff. I also feel invaded because he wakes me up in the morning and is right in my face when I frist wake up. UGH! My mom isn't like that at all, I get peace but she still occasionally will ask what I am doing on the computer ect. and she only comes in my room when nessasary. GRRR please help me on how I can get some peace in life. If my dad ever wants to give me a piece of paper or say some little thing he comes all the way into my room and checks out whats happening while he talks. Gosh, should I like put a little drop-off box on my door for when he wants to give me something lol? plz help

2007-12-29 09:07:37 · 8 answers · asked by ♥Momo♥ 2

2007-12-29 08:58:48 · 8 answers · asked by dat_upt_chiick_kiilah 1

I'm 13, and i'm dying for a belly button ring. I have a few friends who have it and their not whores or showing off their stomach to everyone they meet, so i dont know y my parents are so crazy over the matter. my parents are pretty laid back people, but they still said no. Help me i need this, i dont to get it done when i'm 30!!!

2007-12-29 08:46:56 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous

my father adn I are constantly fighting. He was barely here to raise me then tries to step in and be a father whnever he wants. My parents are divorced adn have been for 6 years and he of course has moved on , exactly 3 times. He's blown me off to go with the women places and I don't want anything to do with her AT ALL. It's just too hard for me, and I don't know why!!! I know I should meet her but if I do I might kill her! I need some help!

2007-12-29 08:43:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Out of nowhere my brother will just punch me, kick me, claw me, bite me, and slap me. He is a year and a half younger. He used to take karate lessons. So he is strong and I'm weak. If I try to tell me parents they won't believe me because my brother will just tell them a lie. What should I do?

2007-12-29 08:39:17 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay. its christamas and my husband and his aunt get into an argument! and we are at his parents who live next door..... well his dad gets mad because he answers sarcastically to his aunt who is always making unnecessary comment, and his dad tells him to get out of his house!!!! but if it werent for my husband and i there wouldnt have been no christmas at their house! we bought the tree/ the food/ bought gifts! and my husband gets kicked out! well they argue and he comes home! well i come home too and tell him to go back over and appoligize! so he calls his mother and asks her to come over. well he begins to tell her that he is hurt that his father kicked him out...... and she wasnt there and says he did not he told u to shut up or get out. welll i just commented that he did actually tell him to get the hell out and she just goes crazy on me!!!! telling me to mind my business thats shes tired of me brain washing her son....and got in my face and slpapped my arms wanting to fight! HELP!

2007-12-29 08:30:34 · 5 answers · asked by *Mz*V@rg@s* 1

so , the other day my dad asked me to help himw ith somthing
and i was on the computer and then i was gettin kinda annoyed so im like , no dont want to and he said yes and iment to say this in my head but i said no you do it if you want it done so dam bad,,,,
and then he got really pissed and spanked me... did i diserv it a lil

i think i did a lil... but did i completly diserv it... im a girl btw

2007-12-29 08:20:36 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous

My daughter's father and I have a court ordered custody arrangement. The father was an alcoholic and drug user, and after he completed rehab I agreed to let him have visitations. We live in different states so his family picks her up and takes her to there home hours away. We recently became on 'good terms' and he began telling me scary things via the phone (shooting someone up with meth, drinking alcohol, living with a guy who uses drugs, how his mother is messed up on alcohol and xanax.) I am in fear of letting my daughter go out to see him now, but I don't have any proof as to what he is doing except for what he tells me over the phone, which makes it difficult to take him to court. He won't say anything incriminating over text messages or on my answering machine either. What can I do to protect my daughter?

2007-12-29 07:37:25 · 11 answers · asked by Jane 2

should i yell at him or idk wat to dooo???????help

2007-12-29 07:11:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

she has blonde hair and her husband has black, i noticed it when i put them over my head in her bathroom, should i tell the wife what i saw?

2007-12-29 06:27:47 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-29 06:24:39 · 10 answers · asked by radwon_m 1

2007-12-29 06:22:14 · 9 answers · asked by Adviser 2

I have a friend whose parents are first cousins and he is completely normal and he has a sister who is completely normal too and pretty smart!. She actually learned to play the piano when she was like 5. So why do people usually say that incest is an unforgiven sin and all that? What about if your parents were first cousins, would you guys say the same?

2007-12-29 06:17:07 · 33 answers · asked by Clark Kent 1

It all adds up there are no pictures of me when I was under 1.5 years old but my mom have pictures of all my siblings when they were that age. Also I am naturally short and skinny,Have blond hair,greenish eyes while my family members all have black or brown hair,I am the only one that is blood type0 in my family and whenever I ask my parents or my oldest brother they always say of course not in a odd way. I cant ask my other siblings because I am 12 and they are each only 1 year older than each other(there are 5 of us). What are my chances of not being adopted?

2007-12-29 06:14:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My dad is in his 70s and he lives with me. I feel bad because I'm never home, always at work and he doesn't really have much in common with my husband. He always seems so bored and to be honest, he exhausts me when I come home from work.
I was thinking of getting him a suite at a retirement home in our town, but my sister and brothers, who by the way only sees him barely once a month, think that's a terrible idea. I think it would be great for dad to be there, be with people his age and make new friends, all while living in a comfortable environment. What do you think I should do?

2007-12-29 06:12:39 · 7 answers · asked by Rachel 1