so , the other day my dad asked me to help himw ith somthing
and i was on the computer and then i was gettin kinda annoyed so im like , no dont want to and he said yes and iment to say this in my head but i said no you do it if you want it done so dam bad,,,,
and then he got really pissed and spanked me... did i diserv it a lil
i think i did a lil... but did i completly diserv it... im a girl btw
2007-12-29
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lissen to your parents or feel their wrath....totally deserved what you got....and as a parent i would have taken your computer away as well...and let you be without for weeks...
2007-12-29 08:31:40
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answered by wrathofkahn03 5
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You should always obey your parents no matter how old you are. When you get older than 18 years old that's another story, but don't disrespect them. If your dad asked you to do something and you were to busy on the computer don't you think that the computer would still be there. You should have respected your dad and done what he asked, or asked him if he could give you just a minute to finish what you were doing and he probably would have said yes or no. Either way , your dad had every right to punish you, but if hes gonna spank you then he needs to calm down first so hes not to hard on you or that he doesn't go overboard with the spanking. That's my opinion, I hope it helps.
2007-12-29 08:35:13
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answered by Connie D 1
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Spanking is considered abuse these days. Having said that, who bought you the computer you were working on. Your dad asked for help and not only did you refuse it appears you cussed him as well.
In your shoes you might consider yourself very fortunate to get off with a spanking...he could have sold the computer...maybe you were using your dad's computer?
What difference does it make if your are a girl or a boy?
Did you deserve punishment? Yes.
2007-12-29 08:28:32
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answered by MYRA C 7
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You certainly did deserve it and furthermore , if I were your father you would be off that computer for a couple of weeks. Insubordination and behaving like a brat has no place in society. Not only that, but I would make sure you used proper language, learned how to spell, constructed proper sentences and showed some signs of being a young lady instead of the start of a hoodlumette.
2007-12-29 08:30:08
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answered by googie 7
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well i got spanking until 13 do u think it was a spanking or a beating. i believe in spanking not beating iv'e been beat and when i was i said i know it was wrong 2 talk back. but i know i didn't deserve to get spanked so hard. does he spank u every day if u have any more questions add me to contacs. i can help i've been spanked and have experence spanking to when it wasn't called spanking not any more cuz i have known how 2 deal with it oh one last thing was it with his hand or with a belt if it wasn't with a belt consider ur self lucky
2007-12-29 08:28:45
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answered by dfhjdfgl 2
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I think a lot depends on your age. If you are 16 years old and your dad spanked you...umm...I guess I would have a problem with that for a number of reasons. However, if you are 10 years old, then it is probably okay and yes, you deserved it for taking back to your father.
2007-12-29 08:25:50
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answered by ®PsychologyGuy 6
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A spanking? I think you should have been grounded! The least you could do is help your dad out when he asks. After all, think of all he has done for you in your lifetime........including buying you that computer you were zoning out on! Respect and appreciate your parents while you are lucky enough to still have them in your life!
2007-12-29 08:31:54
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answered by Dogchic 4
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You deserved to be disciplined
I personally think spanking is ok as long as the fear of being spanked is more than the pain of spank itself.
By the way..you should do what your parents say..they work hard and don't need your attitude
2007-12-29 08:24:47
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answered by Brad in Los Angeles 2
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did you get any video? j/k
no you probably deserved it.
i don't know why people have such a negative perspective on spanking.
it's better then getting the s*** kicked out of you any day. i remember when a friend of mine got suspended for drinking in school and his dad handed him a beat down with a plunger handle.
count your blessings
don't be a smartass
or a whiny brat
2007-12-29 08:26:48
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answered by labotomy 2
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it depend how old you are most people shouldnt be 4 and on yahoo so i think ur prob a lil older but uhh if ur old enough like that then you shouldnt be gettin spanks espesially not from ur dad && okay hoped that helped a lil u should just br grouned for the day
2007-12-29 08:24:43
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answered by mindy 2
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I know this is not the answer you are looking for but here goes; you was very disrespectful to your father. He asked you to do something and you got nasty. Remember fathers and mothers are just as human as you are. They are not machines there for your commanding. This works in reverse too. I respect my son and he respects me.
Being a girl does not give you rights to be nasty.
2007-12-29 08:27:42
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answered by L.C. M 3
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