how do i explain oral sex 2 a 10 yr old....?

Question

my little cosin ask me what is oral sex out of the clear blue sky and i said "i will have 2 get back 2 u on that" and walked away...

so now she ask me about it every time i see her... and i see her everyday cause she lives right next door!

tell me what i should tell her... by the way i can't tell her 2 go ask her mom cause her mom died 3 mounths ago! ='[

so now PLEASE HELP ME......!!!!!!!! AS SOON AS POSSIBLE!!!!

THANK-YOU

Answer 1

Tell her there are some things that 10 year olds don't need to know and you will tell her when she is 13....

Answer 2

You need to find out how she come to even ask you this question .Someone maybe asking her to have oral sex with them. Get to the bottom of this situation as soon as possible. It could be a family member.If that's the case then you should go immediately to someone that can really help her and stop it from happening again. Save your cousin!!!Don't be put off another day.There's too much child molestion in the world today.The scumbag needs to be locked-up!!!

Answer 3

Well that is a extremely awkward situation. Especially with mom being gone. I would suggest you talk to the woman closest to her in her life and let then know that she is getting curious. And if that person is you, its probably about time to explain the birds and the bees to her. She is probably going to be starting her period soon too so she should be talked to about that too. But just tell her when a man and a woman get married that oral is a way that they please each other with their mouth. I wouldn't go into detail with a ten year old. Just explain it like kissing or something like that. Dang, you are in a scary situation but i hope this helps at least a lil' bit. Good Luck with everything!!!

Answer 4

Go To A Therapist And Have Them Help You Explain. It Works Belive Me! Good Luck

Answer 5

First of all I would ask her where she heard this..I would let her know its not approvate for you to talk to her about it, If her Dad is around she should talk to him or a Grand mother. It seems kinda odd for a 10yrs old to ask that kind of ?.. Make sure no one is hurting her and maybe get he into some coulesing to help her deal with the loss of her mom

Answer 6

Tell her it's something that adults do and that you will tell her when you think she is old enough to understand. Of course you know there is not really anything to "understand" about it but it should calm her down a bit about asking....by the by where on earth did she even hear that????

Answer 7

i have read some other peoples answers to your questions. DONT TELL HER TO ASK HER DAD!!! thats stupid. okay alls you have to do is tell her that its when two people love each other very much and they dont wanna do the real thing so they just do the next best thing. the woman can either suck the mans private or the man can lick the girls private. it sounds nasty the way i put it but it may help her to understand!

Answer 8

I am going with Jill T on this one.

It's way off the beam for even a considerable answer.

Please try to use your common sense and also a sense of morality towards the child.

Answer 9

lie to her & let her find out when she grows up, that's the only way out...unless you really want to explain oral sex to her..but, that is a good thing because she might learn about it in school from other kids, & the other kids are not the best way to learn about oral sex.

Answer 10

Your 10 year old cousin doesn't need to know, and if you tell this "child", it can be construed as highly immoral. You could get in major trouble like sexual influence of a minor. Dont do it!