Grrrr. My dad never gives me peace. He is always coming in my room, and I never can be left alone. I tell him I would like it if he doesn't come into my room so often then he gets upset and thinks I am trying to hide something. Everytime I talk to someone on the phone he always asks who it is. I got upset just now and I just said "one of my friends" and he got upset saying that he should know this stuff. I also feel invaded because he wakes me up in the morning and is right in my face when I frist wake up. UGH! My mom isn't like that at all, I get peace but she still occasionally will ask what I am doing on the computer ect. and she only comes in my room when nessasary. GRRR please help me on how I can get some peace in life. If my dad ever wants to give me a piece of paper or say some little thing he comes all the way into my room and checks out whats happening while he talks. Gosh, should I like put a little drop-off box on my door for when he wants to give me something lol? plz help
2007-12-29 09:07:37 · 8 answers · asked by ♥Momo♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You are lucky to have a caring father in your life. Lots of kids your age are growing up without a Dad and it makes their lives very unhappy.
Your Dad is trying to protect you. This is a dangerous world and the dangers can come right into your house through the phone and internet. Have a talk with your Dad and try to reassure him. Ask your Mom to talk to him. It is hard for him to accept that you are growing up.
2007-12-29 09:42:16 · answer #1 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like its time for a sit down meeting between you and your parents. Your father is probably in his defense terrified of you growing up, and of you being out in the world with men. Its easier for your mom, because shes a mom, your poor father knows how men can be, because he is one. I think you need to have some guidelines about his nosiness and inability to give you some level of privacy, he needs to understand that you need some space. I know its hard to understand the way he is behaving, but all the men I know are consumed with making sure their daughters stay away from boys, or men whatever the case may be. You need to let him know while you appreciate his concern for you, it is bordering on the ridiculous. Its a good time to let both of your parents know, they have raised you right and now its time to let you have some space so that you can prove to them that you will make the right decisions. I have 2 teenage daughters, and all I can hope for is that I have done a good job with them, and if they have concerns they will come to me with them. Remember chances are you will be a parent some day, and its a hard thing to watch your children turn into grown ups.
2007-12-29 09:21:07 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish there were more parents like your dad. If you didn't have things going on that you're trying to hide, you would be glad your dad was giving you attention. He's doing his job to keep you from getting into trouble. He doesn't want to see your picture on TV after they've found your body in a ditch somewhere.
2007-12-29 09:33:18 · answer #3 · answered by missingora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your dad is concerned with you as I am about my 14 yr old daughter. The difference is I know she has to explore her world that is so different to mine at the same age. Her room was open house until now...she hasn't driven us out but , until she flies the coop...that room is all she has to herself and we respect her privacy.
2007-12-29 09:59:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 13:29:23 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom is the same way. We argue constantly and I am on the verge of suicide (which I will never follow through with cuz I'm chcken) but I just listen to music and stuff and everything just got get my mind off stuff. Maybe you could listen to music or go to a friends house?
2007-12-29 09:15:47 · answer #6 · answered by Servant of God! Live 4 God!!!! 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Your dad is just doing his job.. keeping an eye on you. I know you think it sucks, but someday you'll thank him for it. You know you could be nicer to him.
2007-12-29 09:23:15 · answer #7 · answered by jwplaster 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have every right to be upset.
It is annoying but you still do have to understand....parents need to do their job of making sure u r safe.
mayb you can have your mom talk to him?
Good luck!
~Sammy
2007-12-29 09:13:46 · answer #8 · answered by little.miss.woods*comma*elle❀ 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋