the frustration of being 20years old and not allowed to stay out longer than 12am is killing me from inside, all my mates do and some of them are younger than me! its depressing me so much, i feel so embaressed always leaving early and making excuses all the time :( the downside of having asian parents dont knw wat i can do. they dont approve of having young girls out all nite, but this is the society that i live in, its so embaressing and the few times that i have ben out till late is by lying to them like am sum sort of stupid 14year old teenager wtf! i hate lying it makes me feel guilty for not doing anything wrong. i dont even like drinking, i just hate always leaving early i wouldnt even do it all the time just every now and then so all my work mates and uni mates to think that. whats worse is that i cant even ask them to let me stay out late or theyl just get mad and give me a long *** lecture of how im too westernised and its not safe etc etc WHAT THE HELL DO I DO!!!!
2007-12-29 10:18:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
move out...
2007-12-29 10:26:17 · answer #1 · answered by Promise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you pretend you're a parent right now and you have a child who is just like you who goes out way past midnight and god forbid who knows who they are hanging out with .... Wouldn't you be worried too? You may be honestly not doing anything bad but how can a parent trust you? Things like rape, harrassment happen even if you say nothing's going to happen. They only want to protect you and it's understandable. My parents are way overprotective than yours. My curfew is afterschool. I get driven to school, call them when i get out of school, call them when i get home, call them when i leave the house. I have to go home directly afterschool. i'm not complaining because i understand they love me and don't want anything to happen to me. I am willing to sacrafice my freedom to make them happy. and Who cares what other people do. If they get raped, or kidnapped, it's their problem. Some people don't have protective parents and instead just parents who don't care about their children and let them do whatever they want. Where's the love in that? Be appreciative that your parents care and only want the best for you =)
2007-12-29 11:00:33 · answer #2 · answered by chrysanthemum11220 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very difficult for parents to allow their children to spread their wings. In addition, they have strong reasons for being worried about you. It seems that someone goes missing on a regular basis. And it's not simply a matter of being of age, or having maturity. If you really want full independence, the only choice remains, is to be on your own. Once you realize how difficult that is to accomplish, you may begin to understand and appreciate your parents concern. Please try to be patient, unless you are fully able to support yourself. Until then, I'm afraid, you simply must.....sorry for being blunt...but
"Suck it up'! Best Wishes for a Happy NEW YEAR.....
2007-12-29 10:37:36 · answer #3 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can 2 things move out or stay out late what are they going to do ground you? you are 20 not 15
2007-12-30 03:32:12 · answer #4 · answered by SUPER H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL THAT IS WHAT YOU HAVE TO DO WHILE STAYING AT HOME MAYBE THEY WILL LOOSEN UP A LITTLE DONT REALLY KNOW ABOUT THIS ONE
2007-12-29 10:23:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋